I see some mad disrespect being leveled at the Sweet Voice of Westeros, the Man of Melody, the Most Beautiful Man in the World, the People's Prince. No one else in Westeros has to share their child's surname with that of the child's mother. No one else has people reminding him, "but your child is also part ____." Are the Stark kids constantly counted as both Stark and Tully? Nope. Is Sweet Robin referred to as the Tit Sucker of Houses Aryn and Tully? Nope. And what about the late Baratheon brothers, is their mother's family alluded to by anyone when their names are mentioned? Nope.
Rheagar Targaryen has probably wept rivers up in heaven watching his little boy mistreated at the hands of that hateful woman named Cat. Where was Jon when the family gathered to eat? Right over there in the corner where bastards belonged. How was he treated when he wanted to say goodbye to Bran? "I wish it was you in his spot!" Disgusting. And honourable Ned Stark allowed his wife to mistreat an innocent child who grow up believing that he indeed was the walking, talking, breathing symbol of his "father's" shame. Just because Jon has a heart of gold, and is forgiving, doesn't mean it's forgotten. He's the Harry potter of the North.