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But he completely disregarded the lives of his men. That's not right bro.
No he did not.
He did not order a charge, Davos did.
If you watch the scene again, it's clear the only fault with Jon was throwing his life in an attempt to save his brother. Which was honorable, and inspiring to his men.
Breaking the war plan?
That's on Davos and Tormund.
It's also easy to consider Starks as dumb in hindsight (always 20/20) and from a viewer perspective where we get so much extra info, but I'll take the honorable way that inspire people, even if it'll draw the ire of the morally bankrupt in the process.
All you need is to surround yourself with people that are more cunninng/ devious than you and heed their advice.
Ned's problem was that he was isolated in KL (and relying on LF who was plotting against him). Robb did make boneheaded decisions though, true. That happens to guys who think with their boner, it's got nothing to do with "genetics".
But I think that Jon is about ready to see the need for counsel, and it's not like he wasn't seeing it already while agreeing sending Sam to become a Maester.
Again, people like to point at mistakes and call people dumb, but let's look at the whole picture:
- survives being captured by wildlings, and gain their support and admiration
- survived a coup by the "fooking legend" and took an opportunity to stab him in the face
- successfully defended the wall against a huge invading force of Wildlings and Giants
- made the right call in choosing to rescue thousands of wildlings because he saw the larger picture and the war to come
- unknowing help was on the way, made the self sacrificing choice that was at the time the only way (twice, once with Mance, once to try save his brother)
- due to his leadership and decision, becomes Lord Commander of the Night Watch by popular vote
- due to his battle prowess and grounded decisions, gains the admiration of all the houses in the north, becoming King in the North in SPITE of being a bastard
- bashed Ramsay's face in after beating him 1v1 (while being in a much worse state than him), having the insight to trade his sword for a shield
- is not weak when tough decisions have to be made. Executes the ones who betrayed him in the watch, but makes the wise decisions in not executing Mel as she might be of help against the WWs as a Priestess of Light.
- Was resurrected not just out of luck, but because he inspired people (Davos and Ed, ultimately Mel as well) to believe in him
Let's put that in contrast to cunning and devious plotters or plain evil ones:
Joffrey is dead, Ramsay is dead, Pycelle is dead, Tywin is dead, Margery is dead, High Sparrow is dead, Frey is dead, Viserys is dead, Stannis is dead, Umber is dead, Roose Bolton is dead, Slaver Masters are dead or in disgrace, Ser Alliser Thorne is dead, Olly is dead, Theon Greyjoy is... Reek, Janos Slynt is dead, Meryn Trant is dead, Myranda is dead, Balon Greyjoy is dead, Mel is in disgrace, LF's plans are crumbling and all his current power is at the whim of a psychotic child...
And a Ton of these saw their own demise by their own allies or family members.
That leaves: Cersei and Qyburn, isolated and surrounded by ennemies, Euron who plans to offer his "big cock" to someone intent on chopping it, and... ?
The only devious plotters left in somewhat "good" places are Olenna (she lost her whole family and only has revenge left), Tyrion (who paid more than his dues, but is backing the right horse, and he actually is a good person), and Varys (who has plotted overall for the good of the people in the kingdom, even if all that planning is about to come crashing down with the arrival of the WWs)
So yeah... the Stark way is Sooooo much worse, right?
#TeamStark
#TeamJon