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Nothing wrong with being weird, it's what makes you interesting.


That is definitely your self loathing. You are no weirder than the rest of us. As one of my favourite coffee mugs says, 'People only seem normal because you don't know them very well'.

I'll keep that in mind :)

Self loathing is universally unattractive.
Oh, I know. It's something I'm working on in therapy among other things. I can't let my negative thoughts take over.
 
The answer is pc + Nintendo. I've been playing like this for more than 25 years and not a single dull moment ever. If anything I wish I had more time to play.
 
I haven't posted here in ages but thought I'd say hi! My life has been picking up these past few months and I'm in a relationship also ~ :) I'm so happy with him and can't wait to see more life with him!
 
That really sucks if its going that way already. What do you consider to be too intense and drama queenish?
Maybe I'm being too harsh. The thing is, it's happened a couple of times already. Simple things like: he wants to do something (go out, watch a movie, whatever) and he doesn't just say so but instead tries to give me hints or just waits for me to ask him and then gets annoyed when I don't.

I think he doesn't really get angry, just in a sort of playful way but it still kind of bothers me. If you want to do something, just say it.

We've seen each other pretty much everyday until yesterday, mostly because of the holidays (I had monday/tuesday free, he is free until monday). Of course I enjoy his company but I don't really want to be with him every single day, I don't think he agrees.

Maybe I'm just slightly jaded after my first failed relationship but I just don't feel like wasting time playing games for attention.
 
too bad he failed us this christmas. nah. i'm being selfish since i shouldn't have bought the games on a previous sale.
Yeah, I know that feel. I feel like I own more and more of the games on sale each winter. Maybe it's time to start finishing off that backlog of 400+.
 
After a second look, I don't think it's as thin as I imagined (the first time with the lights off) but it's probably around 4". Not fat or skinny.

Just whip out a measuring tape ffs. I just can't with all this uncertainty. Be sure to dump him immediately after measuring so he'll know how pathetic he is. That should take the drama queen down a few pegs!
 
Maybe I'm being too harsh. The thing is, it's happened a couple of times already. Simple things like: he wants to do something (go out, watch a movie, whatever) and he doesn't just say so but instead tries to give me hints or just waits for me to ask him and then gets annoyed when I don't.

Hmm maybe he's not confident you'll say yes to the things you want to do. Have you turned down something he wants to do before? People can be suprisingly sensitive about things like that. I used to he very aggressive and open about asking people out, but it has never been a good experience.

If you care about moving forward with this, try creating a rapport where he feels comfortable directly asking you or tell him exactly that in a friendly way. If he doesn't change eventually after that well then he is just being silly.
 
Great meet up guys. Hopefully next time Mr. F won't drop the ball so hard.

I kid, I kid

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Hmm maybe he's not confident you'll say yes to the things you want to do. Have you turned down something he wants to do before? People can be suprisingly sensitive about things like that. I used to he very aggressive and open about asking people out, but it has never been a good experience.

If you care about moving forward with this, try creating a rapport where he feels comfortable directly asking you or tell him exactly that in a friendly way. If he doesn't change eventually after that well then he is just being silly.

This does not make any sense to me. If you wanna go to the movies, then ask if the guy you're dating wants to go. How is hinting at stuff and getting pissed when the other person doesn't pick up on it him being sensitive about being rejected?

Lol.
 
Yeah, that attitude is incredibly silly (and weirdly common in girls). It's your fault that you can't read my feelings! - Yeah, learn to speak.
 
If my gaming consisted of "HD-twins gaming" I wouldn't be too thrilled either. But with DS, 3DS, GBA, PC, PS3, Wii and older systems there's way more stuff out ther I want to play than ever. Plus I'm getting a Saturn and a WonderSwan in February, it's going to be awesome - HERE I COME Makaimura for WonderSwan and Shinobi Legions.
I would buy a working SNES or wonder swan in a heartbeat. Those digimon RPG games look really fun too. Too bad we never got them and were close to getting the first game. II should ask me friend to mail back my Dreamcast lol
 
I would buy a working SNES or wonder swan in a heartbeat. Those digimon RPG games look really fun too. Too bad we never got them and were close to getting the first game. II should ask me friend to mail back my Dreamcast lol

Hmmm.. I'd love to find a WonderSwan. Wonder what they go for here in the US? I suppose I should look it up.
 
I'll do my best to find a blue SwanCrystal.

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I had ditched the idea of buying one because I though I couldn't go back to handhelds without backlit screens, but I semi-recently rediscovered my classic GBA (the only GBA I own) and have been playing it just fine.
 
I'll do my best to find a blue SwanCrystal.

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I had ditched the idea of buying one because I though I couldn't go back to handhelds without backlit screens, but I semi-recently rediscovered my classic GBA (the only GBA I own) and have been playing it just fine.

Thats beautiful.
 
All tall people need to come with a warning label sir.

Im petitioning my local MLA that this be brought up before parliament.

EDIT: and yes im taller than both of them I think lol.
 
No hes like 6'1 max lol. My mental image of him was just being average height. He wasnt all that much taller than me anyways... i just rip on Kevin for anything. And kill him in Risk, and Zombies board games :D
 
So, FitnessGayGAF, how do you deal without a gym? Money's been a little short, so I've been going without for about two months now. It's now January, balls cold, and I'm starting to get really restless and feeling soft. Do you have any recommendations for home gym stuff and/or bodyweight exercise routines?
 
No hes like 6'1 max lol.

6'1 is standard, I thought.

I am 5'4 and I have a soft spot for really tall guys :P so here in Germany I have no problem finding them, lots of 6'4 guys.

So, FitnessGayGAF, how do you deal without a gym? Money's been a little short, so I've been going without for about two months now. It's now January, balls cold, and I'm starting to get really restless and feeling soft. Do you have any recommendations for home gym stuff and/or bodyweight exercise routines?

dude, you CAN NOT stop doing squats, your halloween pic showed great leg progress!!! :O it'd be a crime if you let that go! I am sorry that I don't have any advice but if you really don't have anything to work with, do pistol squats! they will never replace proper squats or leg workout but at least your legs won't forget what it feels like to work out.
 
So, FitnessGayGAF, how do you deal without a gym? Money's been a little short, so I've been going without for about two months now. It's now January, balls cold, and I'm starting to get really restless and feeling soft. Do you have any recommendations for home gym stuff and/or bodyweight exercise routines?

P90X ;)
 
So guys what drinks do you like? Im more of a mixed drink kinda guy. Fruity and full of liquor. I like Four Lokos ( guys on Tc knows that) but I really havent found a good beer.OH I love Limeritas as well.
 
This does not make any sense to me. If you wanna go to the movies, then ask if the guy you're dating wants to go. How is hinting at stuff and getting pissed when the other person doesn't pick up on it him being sensitive about being rejected?

Lol.


But if you fear rejection and think the person will reject you then you won't want to ask directly. Maybe he's already asked directly and the guy. Granted maybe living in areas with overly indirect culture forced me to read between the lines a bit too much though.

Anyway my go to drinks are oolong hai and other tea/shochu mixed drinks and the reliable gin tonic. I don't like beer, but I do like wine and very much like sake.
 
So guys what drinks do you like? Im more of a mixed drink kinda guy. Fruity and full of liquor. I like Four Lokos ( guys on Tc knows that) but I really havent found a good beer.OH I love Limeritas as well.

Scotch, I didn't like bourbon but I learned to enjoy it, and I have a soft spot for caipirinhas (mainly because is the easiest drink to get around here that is not beer).
 
So guys what drinks do you like? Im more of a mixed drink kinda guy. Fruity and full of liquor. I like Four Lokos ( guys on Tc knows that) but I really havent found a good beer.OH I love Limeritas as well.

Chocolate milk.

Wine.
 
So guys what drinks do you like? Im more of a mixed drink kinda guy. Fruity and full of liquor. I like Four Lokos ( guys on Tc knows that) but I really havent found a good beer.OH I love Limeritas as well.

darker beers and well-made cocktails!

i love a well-crafted cocktail made by a good bartender -- like classics with new twists on them through infused alcohols (things like cardamom infused liquors).
 
Did anyone like the Robin Hood with Russel Crowe? I'm about 3/4 of the way through and I'm not even sure why its called Robin Hood. It could have been called generic period blandness and it would have at least been accurate. Ridley Scott you bastard. Theres not even any hot guys in it :( I guess Kevin Durand is the best the film has to offer. 6'6" and he looks pretty good without a shirt. Oh well, I guess there are worst ways to spend an evening.
 
So guys what drinks do you like? Im more of a mixed drink kinda guy. Fruity and full of liquor. I like Four Lokos ( guys on Tc knows that) but I really havent found a good beer.OH I love Limeritas as well.

I guess it begins and ends with Irish Coffee and Mudshakes (I don't really drink). An appreciation for beer or alcohol in general is something that'd be nice to have, but what I've tried in the past I haven't really enjoyed for the most part, and never really bothered to seek out something I would.
 
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