You'll get my apologies, after I've told my boyfriend we shouldn't be able marry, because some guy from Neogaf said, we actually don't want anyway.
Where did I say that again?
It's not a plus, when said parents don't have any time and/ or mental capacity to support their child anymore. It's not a plus, when the parents are not able to shield the child from their precarious situation they are in, so that it grows up with a general feeling of hopelessness to ever have a better life. And believe it or not, the fact that children are separated at 10 into different school forms doesn't actually help.
Mental capacity isn't tied to social class. Even if you are in the lower class, it doesn't mean that you aren't smart and/or don't know what is best for someone else (such as your child).
And I said earlier that separating the children after four years is too early, it should be after six, like in some states.
I'm a teacher, what's your qualification on the matter?
I've had my fair share of pedagogy classes. Me working in the health care sector probably doesn't help, I guess. Though, I don't believe in just because someone has a job in something, he is actually competent (teachers are a perfect example for that even).
No? I'm not? You're missing the point completely. The fact that the background of the parents have such a huge impact on the education their child will receive is in and of itself enough to determine the inequality of opportunity in our system
What background are we talking about? Migrant background or being poor? Both are hugely different. And as I said, migrant background would matter a lot less if they wouldn't draw the lines around them themselves. If people migrate because they want a better life for their children, they will probably encourage said children. If they don't care because traditions say X and Y, then that's their fault and not the fault of the system. If teachers at the Grundschule encourage all children to learn and prosper while the parents drag them down, is that the fault of the system? Nah. If you don't want your child to succeed, it is, as said already, likely that it won't. But no one is going to change that unless you want to forbid parents raising their children.
Yeah and that's the problem. Got it?
That's what I've said all day long. Social mobility refers to low income class getting to a higher income class. And low income class doesn't equal parents being terrible parents.
Doesn't have anything to do with the families economic status, but with their education (which are unfortunately often aligning). If systems are in place that don't get used by those whose children would need them (either because the parents don't know about them OR because they don't care) that's a flaw inherent in the system.
Those systems are also taught by schools, so parents not knowing about them isn't an argument.
And someone mentioned Kitas earlier, that's more a problem in the West where it was usual that the man worked while the woman stayed at home, raising the child. The East had (has?) Kitas for everyone.
And I really wonder how someone like you can possibly be the offspring of a poor family. You've taken the neoliberal bootstrap mentality to the heart, jeez. Guess your parents didn't work hard enough, then.
Haha, that insult. I've seen it time and time again that you succeed most of the time if you are working hard. So people whining instead of doing something is not something I'm delighted to see.