It is funny though to see a community that was initially built on people helping each other out and sharing information turn into one that says "No, you're not allowed to get help and summon, you're only allowed to play this a certain way".
I hope Dan summons as much as possible now.
My girlfriend is actually convinced that she can never summon other human players, only the NPCs, because she should be able to just "git gud" and do it herself. But she came to this conclusion herself, without having much interaction with the community at large.
I mean, I won't stop her (she's cleared DS1 and about 99% of DS2 this way), but it definitely makes it's way into people's minds somehow, with or without the community chiming in.
(Considering I beat DS1/DS2/Bloodborne with no summons I probably didn't help with that impression).