TurboLibre
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I have no idea what this means.
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Girl/Dating Age Part 2: A combined effort to give advice for those in need
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I have no idea what this means.
it means that when you want to sell your product there are other offers and there is this girl who hates you and works for the company which organized this tender you won't likely to sell them anything because she REMEMBERS and choose some other company for any bullshit reason.
it's just an example.
theignoramus
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so Im texting this girl who's fairly attractive (but has a kid) and lives like two hours away. (I dont drive)
the girl's my age (23) we get along well (and she's not looking for any kind of sugar daddy, she has her own agenda),not sure if I should pursue this, it'll be fucking time consuming and costly for me if I do, with no guarantee anything will come of it. (that wasnt a double entree, lol)
the girl's my age (23) we get along well (and she's not looking for any kind of sugar daddy, she has her own agenda),not sure if I should pursue this, it'll be fucking time consuming and costly for me if I do, with no guarantee anything will come of it. (that wasnt a double entree, lol)
So many wrongs don't make a right
Indeed, trying to turn this into him spying, really, that's basically admitting you've done something wrong if you're trying to deflect that hard.
Should just call her up and make her spill it. Waiting for a day is only gonna stress you out.
Subtervotion
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I'm not having trouble getting numbers. My question is 'When I give out my number, why do the girls give me their number in the response message?' Are they too scared to pursue? Not that interested? Want the man to take lead?
TurboLibre
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Why give your tender to a company that's not worth your product?
I'm just kidding. I don't know what the hell you're talking about.
At least they responded with their number. I've had a few girls ask me for my number and I never once heard from them. It's confusing to say the least.
This is probably going to sound pretty pathetic but here goes. So my parents wanted me to talk to this girl that lives pretty far away to get to know her as her parents are apparently family friends and their daughter is single as well.
The only thing is that its communication via instant messenger. At first I had no intention of talking to her since I was too concentrated on trying to find work and make money. Now my parents have been on my back about it so much I finally caved in.
The only thing is what do I talk to her about? So far I just asked about her school life and random shit. She doesn't even have free time for hobbies because of school so I basically I don't even know what she is into. Can someone give me some ideas on what to ask her so I can get to know what kind of person she is? She did not seem that communicative and it was mostly I who was leading the conversation.
The only thing is that its communication via instant messenger. At first I had no intention of talking to her since I was too concentrated on trying to find work and make money. Now my parents have been on my back about it so much I finally caved in.
The only thing is what do I talk to her about? So far I just asked about her school life and random shit. She doesn't even have free time for hobbies because of school so I basically I don't even know what she is into. Can someone give me some ideas on what to ask her so I can get to know what kind of person she is? She did not seem that communicative and it was mostly I who was leading the conversation.
I love slightly overweight women. Their buttocks make nicer sounds when you're shagging them from behind and it feels like you moved a mountain when they cum.
Atramental
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This whole entire predicament you're in sounds so forced and artificial. Are your parents and her parents trying marry you guys off or something? Or is this just a classic case of parents treating their kids like play things? "Oh wouldn't it be cute if our son and daughter got together?! Tee-hee-hee-heeee!"
Anyways, I don't think any type of serious relationship is going to sprout from this. Just talk to her like you would a friend (minus any gross or inappropriate statements unless she brings them up first). One thing that you could do is poke fun at your parents for arranging this little play-date of yours. I find that being humorous is a good way to make someone open up more. And once she has opened up, you can pretty much talk about anything.
Now... if she continues to be unresponsive and uninterested then this whole thing is just a big waste of time. Nothing will blossom unless both parties (you and her) contribute something to the conversation.
luckyboyceo
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I wouldn't even bring it up. Chances are it didn't even mean anything and she was just looking to have some fun. Probably a one time thing, bringing it up would be overkill.
^that
It happened. It may happen again. But unless she breaks up with the boyfriend, she was either looking for a little action on the side, or drunk and made out with the closest person of any interest to her (you)
Let it go. It means nothing, and if it did, she'd let you know soon enough.
HerbertFish
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Uh, nearing 2 years, but I'm about to end it with my GF I think. She's backed out on me twice the last two days on events that I've had planned for weeks. Not cool.
HerbertFish
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I'd probably wait until mid next week. But you can casually text her, see if she's doing anything, and if not, do something casual with her.
CherryWoodFuton
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Is that the only reason why?
Unless these events were huge milestones in your life or something, ending it sounds like a bit of an overreaction.
Gotdamn it. Girl who I got friendzoned by on Wednesday agreed to hang out again this Sunday.
I'm going to try my luck this time, no regrets. I can't honestly be friends with some girl who I'm attracted to. (I'm putting it on the pedestal, fuck.) I'd rather fuck shit up, make it awkward, and then explain myself now rather than forcing myself to hang out with her for months on end while pining for her.
Tell me I'm a moron. This is a dumb idea.
I'm going to try my luck this time, no regrets. I can't honestly be friends with some girl who I'm attracted to. (I'm putting it on the pedestal, fuck.) I'd rather fuck shit up, make it awkward, and then explain myself now rather than forcing myself to hang out with her for months on end while pining for her.
Tell me I'm a moron. This is a dumb idea.
HighAmperage
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Fuck it man, take one more shot. If it crashes and burns, then, as everyone here is so fond of saying, onto the next.
IamMattFox
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Sounds like a fun time to me.
I think you're really beating yourself up over this for no reason.
luckyboyceo
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Not a dumb idea actually, I say go for it. Might as well.
Liquid_015
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Dude. I'm in a similar situation, and I am so damn tempted to tell her that I really like her. But I don't have the balls to, and I'm afraid of what is going to happen next, ie, moment of awkwardness, and shit like that... Fuck. I might as well tell her sometime before the semester is over or something... sigh.
Don't confess your feelings. Can you provide some more details?
TheSchwab_7
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so instead of going a date with a cute girl tomorrow night, she informs me that she got an email from her accounting group saying that they have to get together tomorrow night and do stuff for her project. on a saturday night. freaking sucks. got this awesome outfit and everything. I was so excited to get back into things and now back to nothing.
luckyboyceo
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Just postponed, right? Sucks but not the end of the world. Just go out with some of the guys instead, wear that awesome outfit of yours and see what happens.
And to be fair, finals are coming up for a lot of schools, so that's probably a legitimate excuse and not her trying to blow you off.
heard this way too many this year... getting sick of it.
You're going to need to elaborate as right off this sounds like a bit of an overreaction.
ConradCervantes
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Go for it, brother. The way you described her saying you two were friends didn't really sound cut and dry, "friends only" type-language. Plus you two went on a long walk alone and watched movies in her bed. I may have some bad history with reading signals, but I think she's digging on you too. Give it a shot.
I think you don't know what a tender is and that's hilarious, but I'm sure there are some good online dictionaries for you to look through. Hint: look through economics/business section.
TheVampire
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How do you guys work around a girl having her own car?
If I offer to pick her up alot of times they just say they they can meet me at what ever place.
If I offer to pick her up alot of times they just say they they can meet me at what ever place.
TurboLibre
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It's a form of payment. I just don't see what that has to do with anything. Throw in the bad grammar and I was sure you were trying to draw out a drunk metaphor.
Get her to drive you everywhere.
Stop offering. You're probably freaking her out. You're losing points, not earning them.
luckyboyceo
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There's nothing to "work around," you embrace it. Be glad that you don't have to pick her up/drop her off every time you go out.
Do what Eggo said. Stop bringing it up unless you get into a situation where it really makes sense to pick her up (IE. you are driving by her house on the way to where you're going to dinner). Until then, enjoy not being her personal chauffeur.
Actually on second thought this is the best answer.
I don't think I've gotten the chance on any recent date to actually pick my date up, since either we're going somewhere near her place because she lives far away, or we're meeting someplace between the two of us. Last "date" I picked up was an awful night, lol, but it was a few years back.
Although one of the girls I'm talking to appears to not have a car, so if she agrees to go with me to a concert next saturday (Rise Against/Flobots) then I'll have to go pick her up, then back into town for the concert, and back to her place to drop her off/etc.
I'm thinking maybe we stop somewhere near her place before the concert and either have dinner or at least a drink or two before going, make it so I'm not just driving out there and back all in one swoop.
Although one of the girls I'm talking to appears to not have a car, so if she agrees to go with me to a concert next saturday (Rise Against/Flobots) then I'll have to go pick her up, then back into town for the concert, and back to her place to drop her off/etc.
I'm thinking maybe we stop somewhere near her place before the concert and either have dinner or at least a drink or two before going, make it so I'm not just driving out there and back all in one swoop.
You probably had a pursuing/dating vibe when she just wants to hook up (God, I sound more like Brent every day xD). Could be salvagable if you're more casual about it.
TheSchwab_7
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Yeah that could be. She goes to UNO and I go to UNL, so it's about an hour drive, so I wanted to do it over break. See that's what I thought except she didn't make any comment about going out another time, so I asked her out to lunch tomorrow before I head back to school. I'm not looking for a relationship with her, just jumping back into the dating scene.
There's this other girl who I view as just a friend, but she's going freaking crazy right now. We madeout a week ago, I'd been drinking, but I told her straight up it was just a moment thing and that I was sorry and didn't have those feelings for her. She was cool with that and understood what I was going through. Now she's all like I'm gonna have to move on and I can't wait for you. We can't hangout. wtf. I told you straight up I didn't want to be with you.
Some girls are just insane. Even though I'm 21, it seems like every girl my age is immature and has no clue who they are or what they want. I know there are normal ones out there, but my god.
We're already going to go out again this week and since the "dating" pressure is off I think it'll go even better honestly.
How do you go about hooking up with a girl that works at a store you frequent? There's a Hastings in town and a girl I'm interested in works there, and the few times we've talked while I was in line have gone over well. She's playful and slightly flirtatious and I'd like to get a number or something, but I don't know how to transition from a guy that comes into the store to a guy that's interested in her without being creepy.
One of the guys my girlfriend works with is telling her i've been talking to him and telling him to back off from her when I have never even spoken to the guy. She trusts me and knows i'd tell her if I said something but still, how can I deal with knowing this guy is trying to create tension between us? And she sees him every week and talks to him... i'm gonna worry like crazy that this guy is messing us up :/ She doesn't wanna confront him about it because she has to work with him, i just don't know what to do gaf. Any ideas?
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