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Mineshaft_Gap
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Prax
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I like him when he's more scruffier looking with longer hair.Ducky_McGee said:
As Superman and similar, he's way too.. "clean" or sterile looking.
Well, I am not sure if I'd want someone 120. I at least want someone a BIT athletic looking rather than skinny! I am just not a fan of beefy types due to bad preconceptions of them looking like stupid meatheads. >_>y2dvd said:
I have not had a pap smear yet, and I do not think I will get HPV anytime soon and don't think I will be at risk, but I did get a Gardisil shot.. I think. Now I am not sure. *wonders* Is that supposed to happen more than once? I defnitely got ONE shot. But I don't remember if there's like.. a 3-step process or not. Haha.
Professor Beef
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All those "anti-beefy" sentiments make me 
My username has nothing to do with my appearance whatsoever.
Mineshaft_Gap
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Prax said:
Scruffy makes everything better.
Devolution
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QueenDee said:OMG, might be the ugliest thing I've ever seen!!
Needs more tassels.
Mineshaft_Gap
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If I may take this topic in a bit of a... direction. I can't seem to make my boyfriend understand something. He has wandering hands and when we're making love and I take his hand and put it somewhere, he takes his hand back after a few seconds and continues to do whatever he was doing before I moved it. I don't want to be dominating and tell him outright because I feel like that would sort of spoil the mood. Except that if I really sit and think about it... the mood is already spoiled for me if it happens enough times
I feel like he should be getting the hint but he doesn't. I can't say enough good things about him. He's fantastic, considerate, loving, and just all around wonderful, but this ticks me off. How do i get the point across and make it seem natural so it doesn't completely kill the mood.
WOW @ that bra. Looks like someone repurposed a really ugly set of curtains from the 30's.
I feel like he should be getting the hint but he doesn't. I can't say enough good things about him. He's fantastic, considerate, loving, and just all around wonderful, but this ticks me off. How do i get the point across and make it seem natural so it doesn't completely kill the mood.
WOW @ that bra. Looks like someone repurposed a really ugly set of curtains from the 30's.
BladeWorker
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Tell him before you get started.Ducky_McGee said:
"I really like it when you..."
"I'd like to try..."
timetokill
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Ducky_McGee said:
Uh, if I may, as a guy, offer my advice?
Personally, I love hearing explicitly what my girl likes. And most guys I know feel the same. And though it might seem weird, it doesn't have to come across as dominating. I think a lot of girls are conditioned to not really say what they want sexually, but as a guy it's a hell of a turn-on to hear it. It might surprise you but many of us actually like hearing girls talk about what they want and what gets them off.
I can't guarantee it (obviously) but my guess is it won't spoil the mood at all, and actually it might have the opposite effect. Every guy loves the feeling that he is the "master" of his girl, which is to say he knows what makes her go wild. Following this, the key is to not say it in a way that makes him feel like he's been doing it wrong the whole time (even if he has). Tell him in a way that makes him feel like he's realizing a new way of pleasuring you, one that adds to his repertoire. Yeah, it's about protecting his ego, but that's a way to do it without ruining the mood. If he is as considerate and loving as you say he is, he'll appreciate it.
Also, as an aside -- throw in a "don't stop" or some sexy whimpering/pouting if he tries to stop doing what you like.
Positive reinforcement.Finally, it's okay to talk about sex when you're not having sex. It'll give him something to think about for the next time, and he'll probably be eager to try it immediately. Win-win!
Mineshaft_Gap
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Valid points. I'll try them.
Devolution
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Ducky_McGee said:
Do it. I just say flat out what works and what doesn't. No need to play coy in the bedroom. Whose ego is honestly getting hurt by being told how to pleasure you better?
timetokill
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Devolution said:
True enough. Personally I prefer to hear it straight, works out fine that way. But I know plenty of guys with more fragile egos so I figure I'd tell the way that will work 99% of the time anyway. Especially if she wants to bring it up during the act and not worry about ruining the mood.
cuevas. PhD.
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I'm 6'2, it sucks trying to find a guy who's taller than me when I'm in heels.
Devolution
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timetokill said:
Guys who think that the same thing works for every woman and don't want to try new things can gtfo of my bedroom
.Devolution
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Ashes1396 said:
Well one doesn't have to be mean about it, I'm not but I'd rather someone just tell me what works for them then assume and sigh or something.
Mineshaft_Gap
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I got this crackle nail polish and I can't get it to crack properly. What the heck man.
SteveWinwood
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Sup girl gaf. What's going down. You guys come here often? Yeah we should hang out sometime this weekend. It'll be fun! Nah I'll pay for the blue moon and pizza don't worry.
Deadly Cyclone
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Something something girl on girl action something something.SteveWinwood said:
SteveWinwood
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My school plays your school tomorrow and I'm going to be there. Gals yall hit me upppppp!Deadly Cyclone said:
Nintendoll
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Ducky_McGee said:I got this crackle nail polish and I can't get it to crack properly. What the heck man.
you may be using too heavy of a coat, i ran into the same problem, since i tend to lay it on thick, but noticed the lighter the layer the better the crackle
Deadly Cyclone
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Mizzou? I hope we knock you off...SteveWinwood said:
Mineshaft_Gap
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Where are you? Meet where?
SteveWinwood
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Sorry bud.Deadly Cyclone said:
I also don't remember those posts above. At all. My phone was dead I thought at that time. Guess not. Sorry girl gaf!
Kitsunebaby
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Satchwar said:
I've never drunk posted on gaf. I'd be way too afraid of making an ass out of myself.
Same reason I never drunk text or drunk facebook.
cooljeanius
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What about drunk video games?Kitsunebaby said:
Kitsunebaby
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cooljeanius said:
Aside from a rather violent game of drunk Rock Band, I've never played anything while drunk.
Devolution
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cooljeanius said:
I've played Reach high off my migraine medication (sedatives). They make me pretty loopy. Instead of raging, I was giggling.
SteveWinwood
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The hell is wrong with making an ass of yourself? I do it all the time.Kitsunebaby said:
Usually keep it in the drunk thread... but oh well.
I took a picture of this girl in a dress at a bar this weekend (yes, with her permission, I am no creeper) and was going to post it here and ask your thoughts cause the thing was crazy. But now I can't find the pic.
computers putin'
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ultim8p00 said:
My girlfriend once didn't get her period for 4 ( or was it 5?) months. Of course we feared she was pregnant even though she showed no other signs and numerous negative pregnancy tests. She really wasn't pregnant and eventually got her period one day out of the blue. Still not sure what caused her to not get her period, but one of the reasons we heard that applied to her the most was because of her extreme stress and bad dieting.
You stressed out or something?
Devolution
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ultim8p00 said:
Stress. If someone is extremely athletic it can become infrequent. I went on the pill in HS because mine was like months apart and extremely painful when it would come.
Take her to a gyno though could be an ovarian problem which is not good.
shanshan310
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ultim8p00 said:
I think there is something wrong with me actually. I'm ridiculously on time. Like, it has always come on tuesday mornings. So um, probably half a day.
Prax
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Wow. That's pretty awesome! Maybe you are just super in tune with the moon or something. >_>shanshan310 said:
I am kind of the opposite. I only vaguely know when mine will come. I mean.. it comes monthly, but I never keep track so I never really know! a surprise every time! (I catch it in time before anything bad happens, but yeah, I am pretty... blase about it).
Sister on the other hand.. she has a whack schedule. Comes one month, then diappears for 6 months, then comes back. Always been like that and going on a pill for a while worked, but afer going off of it, her schedule went nuts again. Wish I were her though.. once every 6 months would be awesome. xD
Devolution
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Prax said:
It's fucking scary, even when you're not sexually active. You don't want that stress.
shanshan310
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Prax said:
I'd say it has more to do with me having been on the pill since I was 14.
The pill is really great. I recommend it to everyone. I used to get really bad pain that started a week before my period and ended a week after. Now everything is awesome.My partner's really funny though. I got it on a monday night once and he was convinced that meant I was pregnant. *eye rolling*
Kitsunebaby
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Devolution said:
Happened to me once and I'm a virgin. Your head starts coming up with all these ridiculous scenarios for how you could have gotten pregnant.
cooljeanius
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That's something guys have to worry about, too, though, and doesn't necessarily have anything to do with periods.Satchwar said:
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