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Maybe she likes to feel... restricted!
She should have gone all the way
lol
Wow! Yeah some pretty crazy body modification there. Crazy to think women used to do that. :/
Zoe
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That's not really smaller... You're supposed to go down a cup size when you increase the band.
H.Protagonist
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I wear underwire... They all seem to be underwire in the stores. What do you wear exactly? Cloth ones don't seem to give much support.
I like corsets too, but damn it's hard to breathe in them and forget eating. Beverages are doable, though.
I think corsets can look pretty sexy, but fucking hell did they go over the top with them in the olden days
They just completely change your shape.
But look at the women on the left, completely unacceptable! I would never date a woman with a waist too big for my thumb and index finger to wrap around!
I'd be afraid of breaking her. :/
Hard to explain but the shop I get them from has some of the best non-underwired bras I've ever worn! Can't find the exact ones I get but they're the combination of THIS and THIS, the top bit of the first one and bottom of the second. The second is a bit too full cupped if that makes any sense
, also without all that extra lacework.I compensate by going tighter at the back and the cups feel a bit smaller still comfortable though.
Prax
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What's the real motivation for anyone not looking like a slob besides looking attractive enough to present oneself to other members of society? >__>
I guess that's pretty much the thing. Some people just go further than others.
Maybe for her it's not so much about being attractive/desirable/jealousy-inducing for other men/women anymore though. Maybe it's just become one of the many "things" she would do to maintain her standard level of presentability, just like brushing her hair and wearing non-stained clothing.
And don't get me wrong.. I am the type that VERY grudgingly accepts that society holds some kind of expectations for femininity and beauty~! I hardly know what to do with makeup, let alone crazy skin/rejuvenation regimens. xD
Speaking of bras...
Yeah, I hate underwire bras and how they will inevitably stab you after some wear and tear, but non-wired bras aren't as supportive for me unless I go for a full sportsbra type or something.
Zoe
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Still, that changes the calculation of the cup size. A 'C' does not stay constant across the bands.
For most people, being a D in the smaller size would result in being a C in the bigger size.
It's not really about being unhealthy though is it?
I'm looking at it more subconsciously really rather than what is thought at the surface. outside of natural instincts why would breasts mean anything? It's just a shape. Why does body shape mean anything from a sexual perspective? It's weird when you think about it like that. It is just a shape. If you moved the breasts to the back, it doesn't mean anything anymore. Why? lol. It is how your instinctual drives affect your way of thinking. You might have all sorts of reasons why you think you like a certain shape, but deep down on a more primitive level, it is just an impulse trying to influence you to procreate.
My point being anyway, it is totally irrational to think increasing a bit of flesh in size somehow makes you more confident just by the action alone. It is like me putting on one red sock and one green sock and saying it makes me more confident. It only has meaning because of instinctual drives that affect your way of thinking.
Just to add: I personally don't care what society thinks anymore. It is not about what society thinks of me, it is how I think of myself. I don't really care what society expects of me. Or even what the opposite sex expects of me.
If you took society too seriously it could send a person crazy. There is always someone better looking than you, if not more charismatic than you, more talented than you. The best thing to do is just let go of all of that. Change your mindset.
shanshan310
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Yeah, that cleavage was nothing to poke a stick at. Show me the same video but with a b-cup girl and then ill be impressed.
Now that I think about it it's only fairly recently that boobs have into the top spot for what society deems women's most important body feature. I wonder when and why...
I don't know if it's a relatively new thing or not. I like breasts. I don't think it was society that made me attracted to breasts. I'm not particularly fussy about size though really, as long as a girl has them, I just like breasts. Of course its not just breasts that are attractive it is the female form in its entirety.
There is a view that breasts are attractive because they mimic the shape of the bottom. They suggest this because apes mainly mate from behind so perhaps the bottom is more appealing. I'm not sure I agree with that though because I don't just like breasts, I like female nipples as well. Really weird actually. A woman could show quite a lot of their breast, but it doesn't really do that much for me if I don't see the nipple.
Saying that though, I love pretty much every part of the female body. The female body shape is so much greater than a man's. I would say that though.
H.Protagonist
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Are boobs in the top spot, though? From the guys I remember having this conversation about it with, it seems 50-50. Surely there must have been a thread on this in OT recently to answer this all-important question.
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I don't really know what I favour I just know I like breasts. lol
It's hard to explain really. I'm not an overly fussy person. A girl doesn't have to have the greatest tits in the world for me to find them attractive. I like the female form to be honest. There are other departments of interest to me, put it that way.
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Okay, satch!
clearacell
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For me it's all about the eyes. They are the windows to the soul, and when I am looking for the beauty in a woman it is her soul/personality. If there's warmth in their eyes or something unique about them...zomg!!
edit: Amanda Seyfried, Kristin Kreuk, Zooey Deschenal...
No, just no.
That pizza still looks gross.
There are two completely separate answers for this.
1) Sexual objectification. This is all T&A, basically, for any guy who doesn't have some sort of specific fetish. Does it matter? Sexual objectification is only one element of the overall package of attraction unless you're a Jersey Shore cast member.
2) What a guy actually wants from someone he's with in terms of physical attributes, and so what he appreciates in women in a real world sort of way and not a porn sort of way. For me, that is someone who's beautiful and slim/active and proportionate. This will vary of course.
Devolution
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Funny enough I learned from OT that most men prefer natural smaller chests than fake tits. This all despite the fact that larger "clothed" tits get more attention in public. Also not to demean men or anything but I'm pretty sure if an attractive naked woman whom their interested in is naked and willing in front of them, the last thing they're going to do is say "if only your tits were a cup size bigger we could fuck right now."
Because fake boobs are weird looking. I'd rather a girl be completely flat than have fake boobs.
H.Protagonist
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The T&A question is, of course, simplistic and only facetiously posed here. As much as some guys are into one of these specific attributes, I doubt that they discount all others, and honestly, any guy who zeros in so much on just one that it eclipses all other 'features' surely belongs on Jersey Shore.
So for such a 'debate' it's not about what you find attractive in a woman (because pleasing proportions/active life styles are definitely the more mature choice), but rather which of these two areas do you put more personal emphasis on. It's definitely a silly comparison, but guys seem to engage in it with gusto. Usually when drinking.
No way. I prefer puffy crust, but that looks damned tasty.
Exactly right devo. It doesn't matter all that much in the big scheme of things. There are a lot of variables when it comes to what we as men find attractive in a woman. Big breasts are great, I can't deny that, but they certainly aren't the be all and end all of the matter. Small breasts can look great too. I think when it all boils down to it, it is what the body looks like in its entirety that we will judge by.
I do recall actually a movie -- I can't for the life of me remember the name of or the name of the actress -- where the actress had amazing small breasts.
Yeah, I mean, we're in the girl-gaf thread and the last thing I'd want to do is give the women here the impression that they should go get bags of silicone because that's what guys lust over or whatever. No no no no no to implants! No! Natural and small is 1000x better than fake and big, and everyone should really just care about their fitness/hygiene/style/confidence more so than what their genetics handed them, I always say.
But okay, around the guy table: tits, for sure, for me and most of my friends. No question, unless all your buddies are black dudes maybe ;b
The male mind is pretty contradictory. This confused the issue in the last thread about this. They just got mixed messages, not knowing what to believe.
H.Protagonist
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That's refreshing to hear. Not that I thought the majority of guys liked fake boobs or anything, but so many seem to like/defend ridiculous proportions (*cough* video games *cough*). And, yeah. Naked and willing usually overcomes all preferences from what I understand.
The overall package is definitely the key. I think it really does just depend on proportions. Balance is beauty.
Haha. Well, it was sort of introduced by a girl, and we're no less crude than guys in many ways. ;P Definitely best if guys don't just drop in here with a "I'm an ass man! Discuss!" though. As for the actual ass vs. tits thing, I was just curious because Shan seemed to think they were the top preference. At least we're sort of establishing (against the grain of the this v. that kind of thing) that 1) you and leadbelly both reasonably prefer 'proportions' over either (and when push comes to shove: tits) & 2) MattDoza hates all that is good in this world.
Devolution
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That's refreshing to hear. Not that I thought the majority of guys liked fake boobs or anything, but so many seem to like/defend ridiculous proportions (*cough* video games *cough*). And, yeah. Naked and willing usually overcomes all preferences from what I understand.
I think big tits really get some guys (a lot of guys) motors running but it's not as important as it's made out to be. I think it's something that the mainstream media (and dudebros) like to flaunt in our face because we need the latest bra that makes us look 3 cup sizes larger. There are so many messages sent about how inferior our bodies are that it's easy to assume men in our lives are thinking along the same lines. Most of them aren't, or we're listening to the shallow ramblings of internet nerds with bullshit standards too much. Most of the men I've talked to, even on GAF, consider proportion and non-fake tits to be superior over a girl getting melons on her chest. This narrative doesn't fall in line well with commercialism though, so we're going to still be bombarded with "big tits are better."
In an ideal world women would actually engage men specifically about these kinds of things instead of assuming the model on the billboard is worth aspiring to at all costs. Many men while salivating over porn and model figures are not of the opinion that "a girl must look like that." Only the fucking assholes talk and think like that.
And of course it goes both ways but there is way more lucrative profit in making us women feel like our skin doesn't glow, our boobs are too small, we're too short, etc. and plenty of women eat that shit for breakfast, lunch and dinner.
Yeah. It's hard to give you a real definitive answer without just getting various body types and going, "that's good! That's good! That's not!"
With me there are various body types. In general just keep yourself fit and healthy.
Actually, big well shaped breasts are very attractive devo. It's just that they aren't really as important as women may think. Breasts come in all various sizes of course. I have found breasts very attractive in all sizes. It doesn't necessarily hinder your sexual attraction to someone.
Devolution
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They're not attractive to all men though. I've run into more than a few men with a penchant for smaller tits.
Professor Beef
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Hey everyone, it's been a whi--
...I have wandered in here at the weirdest time, haven't I?
...I have wandered in here at the weirdest time, haven't I?
Prax
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I think the emphasis on breasts has to do with it just being associated with females in general. It's a defining characteristic, so the more boobalicious, the more womanly goodness? That's more of just a surface/initial reaction type of thing though.
I'm sure for most guys it's just window-dressing with varying levels of "invitingness" (bigger & more exposed => more inviting?), but it's not really top priority, especially if the personality/annoyingness level is way off.
As for preference of smaller breasts, that sounds like it has more to do with cuteness, streamlined design, and a girl looking "neatly put together". At least that's what goes through my mind!
Maybe in the past if there was a preference of moderately-sized/neatly packaged breasts, it was about a woman having good manners and being in control of her emotions or something. XD (I am only guessing, but sounds about right. I can understand how in that circumstance a woman with huge boobs flopping around would in comparison come off as a out of control and sloppy).
I really want pizza now.
I'm sure for most guys it's just window-dressing with varying levels of "invitingness" (bigger & more exposed => more inviting?), but it's not really top priority, especially if the personality/annoyingness level is way off.
As for preference of smaller breasts, that sounds like it has more to do with cuteness, streamlined design, and a girl looking "neatly put together". At least that's what goes through my mind!
Maybe in the past if there was a preference of moderately-sized/neatly packaged breasts, it was about a woman having good manners and being in control of her emotions or something. XD (I am only guessing, but sounds about right. I can understand how in that circumstance a woman with huge boobs flopping around would in comparison come off as a out of control and sloppy).
I really want pizza now.
This is true. However, this is true about a lot things. There aren't really absolutes, you can only speak in general terms.
I've oddly changed tastes over the years, preferring one thing over the other. I don't think it is fixed no. And again, I can find small breasts attractive as well. My tastes are quite broad.
I think you make a good point there actually.
Vermillion
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If I'm not too late, I never give a straight answer to that question. People ask "ass man or tits man"? My response is just "entire female form, equally."
But no, tits that are too big are bad, and ass just isn't *that* important (black dude here, EviLore). A down-to-earth quality is important. If they look like every other blonde chick around, that isn't really impressive.
But no, tits that are too big are bad, and ass just isn't *that* important (black dude here, EviLore
). A down-to-earth quality is important. If they look like every other blonde chick around, that isn't really impressive.I'll still be like "damn," of course, but that doesn't make them any more my type
cooljeanius
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Along these lines, the reason we switched from liking bottoms to liking breasts evolutionarily was because we started walking upright. When walking upright, breasts become much more noticeable and bottoms become less noticeable than they used to. Also, while we're talking evolutionary, I was under the impression that large breasts were a sign of fertility. Bigger boobs = more milk to nurse the babies with.
That is in an interesting theory, and I suppose in a way it makes sense, but of course we haven't stopped liking bottoms, and they're not really less noticeable as we tend to still look at women's bottoms as they walk along. Some people prefer bottoms more. Some people like breast and bottoms equally.
Of course attraction to breasts because they are a sign of fertility could very well be the reason. There are a lot of factors in this though. Simply having large breasts doesn't instantly make them appealing. It is the shape of the breast and to a degree the shape and size of the nipple. From an evolutionary perspective health and form is a little more important than simply size in itself. In fact smaller but perky breasts are much more a appealing to some.
This confuses the issue though. My view isn't really whether bigger breasts are more attractive in general, it is simply that it really isn't as important as some women seem to think it is. Again, evolutionary speaking, I imagine it is far more important that we mate in itself than we spend most of the time trying to mate with the most perfect specimen. There would be very little mating at all if that was the case. In truth, breasts in all sizes are attractive to men. It is not so much the size, but the shape in general that makes them attractive in that respect.
You added to this post. Again you could be right.
Also delicateness. There is something sexually appealing to that. It's a contrast between masculine and feminine, stong and weak. Easily dominated and overpowered.
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The Everyman
theres no ot for the movie so im just gunna say this here: i thought this movie was surprisingly good.
*AHEM*
im gunna go back to being a man now
So there's this PSP game called Hakuoki. It's a visual novel in which you play as a girl who ends up living in a samurai compound full of strong sexy men. There's multiple endings depending on the choices you make and with whom your relationship level is highest.
So I played through the whole game making choices according to my own personality. And the ending I got ... was with nobody. Even in a videogame I ended up FOREVER ALONE ._.
Fucking depressing.
So I played through the whole game making choices according to my own personality. And the ending I got ... was with nobody. Even in a videogame I ended up FOREVER ALONE ._.
Fucking depressing.
H.Protagonist
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Too late. Your approval of this movie is now on the internet. It is eternal, and you will never escape it.
I have no idea what this movie is, but it sounds suspiciously like a romantic comedy... -_- Ag.
You're playing the wrong game. You need to play Hatoful Boyfriend. In this game you either date the pigeon of your dreams... or you die.
Oko-san! Dat pudding...!
That's probably how it would end with me too.
But I'm a guy, so I don't know if that counts.
Femmeworth
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