Cindi Mayweather
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Maybe I don't mind it because I grew up with them? I don't know, I love to have one and a cup of egg nog/hot cocoa during Christmas.
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Maybe I don't mind it because I grew up with them? I don't know, I love to have one and a cup of egg nog/hot cocoa during Christmas.
YesNOnoNOYes
Member
so .... you had duct tape and paper bags :3
i had to use old bootstraps and thrown away newspaper. #TruDerelikt #Bootstrap
this really gives the word "bootstrapping" more meaning to me
trab pu kcip
Member
how is that irrational. you did the right thing and you have every right to do so!
also if you don't mind me asking, are you a fellow girl from Germany? :>
Oh no I meant me thinking it's embarrassing is irrational! I know it shouldn't be embarrassing to do this since it's a legit reason to need to go home but i'm still feeling embarrassed that i left work because of this.
And no i'm not from Germany. Just a huge fan of the German football team!
trab pu kcip
Member
Oh no I meant me thinking it's embarrassing is irrational! I know it shouldn't be embarrassing to do this since it's a legit reason to need to go home but i'm still feeling embarrassed that i left work because of this.
And no i'm not from Germany. Just a huge fan of the German football team!
ah I see! concerning both things, sorry I misunderstood. but yeah you have nothing to be embarrassed about, don't worry. this shit hits me hard too sometimes. I can barely do stuff when it happens :/
Morrigan Stark
Arrogant Smirk
I skipped and re-scheduled a college exam because of awful cramping, years ago. I just told my teacher I had belly ache whilst remaining vague, 'cause he was a macho idiot and I didn't want to talk about my period with that moron. He assumed something about me having eaten something bad, said something condescending about it and I didn't bother correcting him but fortunately he agreed to re-schedule so I was fine.
If it gets that bad to the point where I'm not functional, I use ibuprofen now.
If it gets that bad to the point where I'm not functional, I use ibuprofen now.
Cindi Mayweather
Member
Honey it's nothing to be embarrassed about.
Thanks everyone. It's a first for me that my period is so bad I can't function at work.
There's also the worry of how my boss and coworker would both take it. They're both males so i wasn't sure how understanding they would be of this.
I guess i should have trusted my instinct to stay instead of go this morning. But i was being stubborn.
Lesson learned.
There's also the worry of how my boss and coworker would both take it. They're both males so i wasn't sure how understanding they would be of this.
I guess i should have trusted my instinct to stay instead of go this morning. But i was being stubborn.
Lesson learned.
WhereAreMahDragonz
Banned
My favorite fabrics.
My pajamas. Having this against my breasts every night is heaven.
Our comforter after waxing my legs. It's made out of cotton silk!
Those knitted Mexican blankets I grew up with!
People actually sleep in this?
Shorts and a baggy shirt all the way
Cindi Mayweather
Member
I like it because it's super soft, comfy, and very pretty. It also makes me feel sexy. I love lingerie like that. For some reason, I'm not big on sexy bras, but when it comes to bed time I like to dress pretty but not every night. I dunno, sometimes I'm in a mood for my boyfriend's shirt and no panties, or a modest t-shirt and shorts, but nothing makes me feel more pretty than a soft nightgown. I don't wear it every night, but it's totally my favorite.
YesNOnoNOYes
Member
yeah! i love shorts and tank top for summer to sleep in, and a pair of flannel pj for the winter nights~
Mineshaft_Gap
4077th
Speaking of things that feel good against skin, halp! I need to buy sheets. I want to buy online because I'm cheap but that means I can't feel them first. What's the best way to avoid marketing BS and find sheets that feel cool and silky smooth on mah skin?
Oh yeah, objectively the best sleepwear is my big ass nasa tshirt and normal-ass cotton underwear
I only wear wear a nightgown if i want to get fucked
Oh yeah, objectively the best sleepwear is my big ass nasa tshirt and normal-ass cotton underwear
I only wear wear a nightgown if i want to get fucked
1.21Gigawatts
Banned
I have a relationship question on behalf of a (female) friend. She asked me to ask on a forum because she isn't a member on any forum. I said I'm only on gaming forums but she thought I should still give it a try.
Sooo...
She has been together with her boyfriend for over a year now, but she can't orgasm during sex with him. She can only orgasm when she is doing it herself and(and thats the problem) when she is imagining being with other people. She is into threesomes, but never had one, but her boyfriend isn't. Neither FMM nor FFM. So she feels guilty that she can only orgasm when she is fantasizing about being with other people. As a result her boyfriend thinks he is not enough for her and get insecure and is even less into the idea of a threesome.
What makes this especially spicy is that he is my best friend and her favorite fantasy would be a threesome with the two of us, which is an absolute no-go for him. (I wouldn't have a problem, even though it would probably be fucking weird).
Anyway, she wants to know if other couples had similar problems and what they did to fix it. When she googled she only finds women whos boyfriends want threesome but they don't, but not the other way round. She feels that if he could make her orgasm by himself he would be much more secure and maybe up for a threesome.
Anyway, I'd apprechiate any input.
Sooo...
She has been together with her boyfriend for over a year now, but she can't orgasm during sex with him. She can only orgasm when she is doing it herself and(and thats the problem) when she is imagining being with other people. She is into threesomes, but never had one, but her boyfriend isn't. Neither FMM nor FFM. So she feels guilty that she can only orgasm when she is fantasizing about being with other people. As a result her boyfriend thinks he is not enough for her and get insecure and is even less into the idea of a threesome.
What makes this especially spicy is that he is my best friend and her favorite fantasy would be a threesome with the two of us, which is an absolute no-go for him. (I wouldn't have a problem, even though it would probably be fucking weird).
Anyway, she wants to know if other couples had similar problems and what they did to fix it. When she googled she only finds women whos boyfriends want threesome but they don't, but not the other way round. She feels that if he could make her orgasm by himself he would be much more secure and maybe up for a threesome.
Anyway, I'd apprechiate any input.
weemadarthur
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Just from the limited info as it was presented here it sounds like this is the case.
Yeah, I agree. If she wants to keep dating him, she needs to respect the fact that he's not comfortable with a threesome. Also, it's extremely common for girls to not be able to orgasm during sex, or with others. In fact, most women don't. That doesn't mean sex can't be enjoyable. Women can have two different orgasms by their vagina, but most can only come one way, and some can't come at all.
@1.21Gigawatts ^
liliththepale
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I agree. Strictly speaking, he's not enough for her.
But most relationships have some form of compromise. Whether persisting in the relationship is worthwhile is ultimately a highly personal decision.
But most relationships have some form of compromise. Whether persisting in the relationship is worthwhile is ultimately a highly personal decision.
Cindi Mayweather
Member
How does she get off? Clit or penetration? Maybe she can throw out suggestions on how to improve the sex life? Has she communicated to him her dissatisfaction with sex? I think she should respect his decision on threesones though.
1.21Gigawatts
Banned
She gets off with clitoral stimulation, but only when she thinks about threesomes and uses a vibrator on her clit.
She thinks he is not into threesomes now because she can't orgasm with him, so she assumes when she can orgasm with him, he would be more comfortable sharing her. Since I havent talked to him I don't know if he is completely against it or just not up for it at the moment. Being a guy myself I would assume that he can be convinced to at least try a FFM threesome when he got more secure.
He knows about her dissatisfaction and her fantasies.
They want to spice things up and she is very much into fantasies(roleplaying, dirty talk, rougher sex), but apparently he isn't good at that stuff. Then the other day they tried the rougher sex that she loves in her fantasies, but then she had flashbacks to her abuses and started to cry. But she thinks that was only because they were high, but obviously he isn't to fond of the rougher sex idea anymore.
Also, he would probably freak out if he finds out she it telling me all this she said he doesn't even want me to know that she wants to have a threesome with the three of us.
Thing is, while my relationship with her is very open and we talk about all these things, my relationship with him is very brother-like, we know each other since we're kids and talk about everything but sex.
She thinks he is not into threesomes now because she can't orgasm with him, so she assumes when she can orgasm with him, he would be more comfortable sharing her. Since I havent talked to him I don't know if he is completely against it or just not up for it at the moment. Being a guy myself I would assume that he can be convinced to at least try a FFM threesome when he got more secure.
He knows about her dissatisfaction and her fantasies.
They want to spice things up and she is very much into fantasies(roleplaying, dirty talk, rougher sex), but apparently he isn't good at that stuff. Then the other day they tried the rougher sex that she loves in her fantasies, but then she had flashbacks to her abuses and started to cry. But she thinks that was only because they were high, but obviously he isn't to fond of the rougher sex idea anymore.
Also, he would probably freak out if he finds out she it telling me all this she said he doesn't even want me to know that she wants to have a threesome with the three of us.
Thing is, while my relationship with her is very open and we talk about all these things, my relationship with him is very brother-like, we know each other since we're kids and talk about everything but sex.
Morrigan Stark
Arrogant Smirk
Week 1: learn that my dad has cancer
Week 2: learn that my family's house (the house I grew up in, where my dad and his girlfriend still live) burnt down
What the fuck is going on guys
Week 2: learn that my family's house (the house I grew up in, where my dad and his girlfriend still live) burnt down
What the fuck is going on guys
Ceallach
Smells like fresh rosebuds
Oh my GodWeek 1: learn that my dad has cancer
Week 2: learn that my family's house (the house I grew up in, where my dad and his girlfriend still live) burnt down
What the fuck is going on guys
How are you holding up?
Cindi Mayweather
Member
Week 1: learn that my dad has cancer
Week 2: learn that my family's house (the house I grew up in, where my dad and his girlfriend still live) burnt down
What the fuck is going on guys
Holy crap. Send me a pm if you wanna chat.
Morrigan Stark
Arrogant Smirk
As well as I can, I guess. :| The only positives I can think of is that no one got hurt in the fire, and that my dad thinks he's probably at early stages since he doesn't feel many symptoms and generally feels fine. But I'm really worried about him regardless, especially since the stress of having that fire can't be good for his health. He needs to be able to feel safe and relax, dammit. Ugh.Oh my God
Cindi Mayweather
Member
Where are he and his girlfriend going to stay? I'm glad no one was hurt!
timetokill
Banned
Week 1: learn that my dad has cancer
Week 2: learn that my family's house (the house I grew up in, where my dad and his girlfriend still live) burnt down
What the fuck is going on guys
Best wishes Morrigan. That's awful.Morrigan Stark
Arrogant Smirk
They're staying at his girlfriend's son's place for now. Apparently the fire was really intense, smoke filled the house real fast and he's very relieved they were all awake 'cause it could have been a lot worse. Investigators are going to check for a cause, no one knows what started the fire yet. My dad suspects a forgotten cigarette butt on a neighbouring balcony (it's a semi-detached house) but I hope he's wrong 'cause if so I'm gonna get arrested for murder, I swear...
No I am obviously not being literal, but seriously this shit pisses me off so much
Professor Beef
Banned
Jesus fuckWeek 1: learn that my dad has cancer
Week 2: learn that my family's house (the house I grew up in, where my dad and his girlfriend still live) burnt down
What the fuck is going on guys
weemadarthur
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YesNOnoNOYes
Member
omg morri, that's super rough
my mom battled cancer and survived so i wish all the best for your dad
and let me know if you want to vent or PM or anything in this very turbulent time
all my best thoughts go to you, morri
my mom battled cancer and survived so i wish all the best for your dad
and let me know if you want to vent or PM or anything in this very turbulent time
all my best thoughts go to you, morri
Cindi Mayweather
Member
My dad had cancer and it was very stressful. So I know what you're going through now, and like I said feel free to reach out any time sisbro.
Mineshaft_Gap
4077th
Holy ****ing **** at the Donald Trump revelations.
I totally get that people have lewd sexual conversations in private when in the company of same sexed friends but holy shit does that extend beyond the territory of "locker room banter" and into sociopathic molester territory.
I refuse to believe this is what most male locker room type conversion consists of. Telling your friend you want to fuck someone is one thing but I just... Wow.:O
My jaw is on the floor.
I totally get that people have lewd sexual conversations in private when in the company of same sexed friends but holy shit does that extend beyond the territory of "locker room banter" and into sociopathic molester territory.
I refuse to believe this is what most male locker room type conversion consists of. Telling your friend you want to fuck someone is one thing but I just... Wow.:O
My jaw is on the floor.
Morrigan Stark
Arrogant Smirk
Thanks guys. <3
I'm only shocked that this is getting leaked now. Personally I'm not remotely surprised that he'd be so predatory. It just pretty much confirms what we suspected all along.
Guys can be really, really vile when talking amongst eachother (not all, of course, and some worse than others). Trump's comments actually are weirder/creepier than typical guy talk, though. They sound like the words of an alien or something.
..And the other difference is when a guy talks about women in a dehumanizing way, it's usually a dumbass little boy or otherwise an idiot I'll no longer associate with. It's weird that someone like that is a major party's presidential nominee.
..And the other difference is when a guy talks about women in a dehumanizing way, it's usually a dumbass little boy or otherwise an idiot I'll no longer associate with. It's weird that someone like that is a major party's presidential nominee.
WaffleTaco
Wants to outlaw technological innovation.
I'm so sorry =( I feel so bad for you =(Week 1: learn that my dad has cancer
Week 2: learn that my family's house (the house I grew up in, where my dad and his girlfriend still live) burnt down
What the fuck is going on guys
He's a piece of shit, and honestly I'm not even surprised by this. I'm actually more surprised that this has made such a big deal (not because it's not terrible) because he's been talking shit about women for years, and there has been plenty evidence already of this. However I'm glad it's been put in the spotlight, anything that will put him further in the gutter is absolutely necessary right now.
I mentioned in the discord that because guys think I'm one of them, they feel free to say wherever when I'm around. It tends to be very not good and makes me feel really alienated. It's part of the reason I avoid talking to people in my field (programming/IT)
That said no where close to trump. Maybe if they had more power they would but that's hard to say.
Week 1: learn that my dad has cancer
Week 2: learn that my family's house (the house I grew up in, where my dad and his girlfriend still live) burnt down
What the fuck is going on guys
Morrigan
If you need to talk at all, PM me.Shit's bananas. Not so much what he said--it's not surprising--but the fallout is glorious
trab pu kcip
Member
Cindi Mayweather
Member
I enjoy Dragon Ball Super, a show for 8 year olds, WAY TOO MUCH.
timetokill
Banned
I wouldn't say it's typical but at the same time I wouldn't have been shocked to hear some guys say that kind of stuff in high school.
Ceallach
Smells like fresh rosebuds
Did those of you who watched the debate notice him crowding Clinton (from behind) and looming over her with a look of pure hate on his face? I was actually afraid for her, and it made me think of all the times a man tried to intimidate me by invading my personal space. I don't think his "alpha male" (barf) body language is going to play well to female voters.
He's a complete predator.
Also, I've hung out at frat parties and never heard that kind of "locker room" talk.
He's a complete predator.
Also, I've hung out at frat parties and never heard that kind of "locker room" talk.
Cindi Mayweather
Member
A man stalking me like that gives me DANGER signals in my head. I haven't watched the debate because I work at night but I saw the screen caps on twitter and my alarm went off. "AVOID. DANGER. GRAB MACE."
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