Sunster
Member
I've ignored clearly lost dogs because I don't know how to wrangle a dog. but a kid? na, you are wild for that.
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Good samaritan helping lost toddler gets punched by father, labeled predator online
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I've ignored clearly lost dogs because I don't know how to wrangle a dog. but a kid? na, you are wild for that.
Gravy Boat
Member
I've been punched plenty of times. I still would take the risk. I'm not gonna sit back and watch as a child potentially ends up in danger.
JetBlackPanda
Member
Dude is lucky the guy didn't have a gun.
I have been in this situtation and my first instinct was to imediatly find another adult so we were working as a group. Dude by himself with someones child is a recipe for disaster.
I have been in this situtation and my first instinct was to imediatly find another adult so we were working as a group. Dude by himself with someones child is a recipe for disaster.
You guys are really pulling at straws now.
Skellig Gra
Member
I got you Google, I'd be with my kid anyway so I doubt there would be much suspicion. Even then I can take a punch as I'm a big guy.
RPGCrazied
Member
Father sounds like a piece of shit. How about watch your kids, maybe they won't get lost in the first place?
Oh fuck this. So you just leave a kid wandering around alone because you're scared someone might do something like this? That's fucked up, but id rather the kid not actually get hurt or lost.
TheLostBigBoss
Banned
Did you not read the parts where he defamed him online after the incident?
Yes, please always help a distressed kid. They're kids!
Zen_Arcade
Banned
He's getting harassed to the point that he had to move out of town.
I guess it depends on what you consider to be destroyed, but at the very least his life is never going to be the same.
Also, this dude was lucky and had multiple people, including cops, verify his story. Who knows what this dudes life would look like if there weren't eye witnesses around and he had no proof that he actually wasn't trying to kidnap the child. This is the type of shit you don't even have to be convicted of to get blamed for. Even an accusation can ruin your life.
Thanks, man. My kids are dumb and I'm dumber so chances are I'll need you.
I'll text you next time we're leaving for the park, OK?
I would never touch a strangers child.. if their lost i help them find their parents without touching them. Also multiple people come into the situation like that and help. Usually a woman would take over and you look for the parents in a group that usually gets bigger until the parents are found. so i'm not sure this guy was really asking around if they found him alone with her.
This dude was really stupid to walk around holding her hand. It sucks he got punched for it, but I think the father is in the clear.
This dude was really stupid to walk around holding her hand. It sucks he got punched for it, but I think the father is in the clear.
This is why these kind of stories suck so much. If I ever lost one of my kids, I would really hope someone would help them, but this kind of shit makes that less likely.
When I was a kid, I wandered away from home while my dad was outside mowing. I got a couple of streets away when a passing car stopped, picked me up, and brought me to the police, who went door to door until they found my parents. I don't want to think what could have happened if people just ignored me.
He had to move so yes.
partime
Member
You don't "leave" a kid wandering around. Kids wander around, that's what they do. If he was already with another friend, they were probably talked for a period of time when the incident occurred.
Angry Grimace
Two cannibals are eating a clown. One turns to the other and says "does something taste funny to you?"
I would tell the man I would not press charges if he let me hit him back the same number of times.
In case you are wondering, no, this is not even vaguely legal.
Holding a childs hand is completely different to 'touching' them. It's literally the only way to make sure a child of a certain age walks in the right direction without getting run over.
I wouldn't have mind being accused of being a creep, the father was in a situation of heightened stress. But, fuck you if you won't accept the facts and you go out of your way fuck over me and my family over a misunderstanding.
I would sue his ass. He ruined a families life in that community.
I would sue his ass. He ruined a families life in that community.
Skellig Gra
Member
Sounds good haha
Angry Grimace
Two cannibals are eating a clown. One turns to the other and says "does something taste funny to you?"
You can get away with practically anything
Well you still to this day have the family and friends posting your photo on FB calling you a predator even after the cops said you aren't. If you were to google your name everything pops up. You have to leave your house because the family and friend still are seemingly agitated and think yiu tried to
Kidnap their daughter
In a country for 330 million people sometimes a few of them do dumb things.
Snkfanatic
Banned
White dudes should have been agreeing. Would have been a 9/10 guaranteed shit show for a black man but still a 7/10 for any single white male (8/10 if they have glasses and are bald)
partime
Member
Oh no.
"..family members and friends went on social media and shared the mans photo, his Facebook page and his place of business, calling him a child predator, WFLA said."
That's a bit much.
Don't help an abandon kid, just call the police or find the nearest woman.
Let's pretend it's reasonable to assume the worst... how did repeatedly punching this man after grabbing the girl solve anything in that moment?
Vigilante justice should not be encouraged precisely because of situations like this, where morons make assumptions and assault people for no reason.
I didn't say my advice applied only to men. It applies to everyone. I guarantee you if I saw a woman trying to leave with my child, I'd have the exact same reaction.* If a single woman tried to leave an area with a child that wasn't hers, the assumption would be she's kidnapping the child to raise as her own. It's just always better to stay put, with a lost child. And if you call the police and inform them you are waiting with a lost child and then stay put the odds are extraordinarily slim that you'll be mistaken for a kidnapper.
*By which I mean that I'd be equally frightened, as if it were a man. Not that I'd have the same reaction as the father in the article...just to be clear.
Child kidnapping by strangers is incredibly rare. That's not to say they don't happen, but I'm fairly certain that the statistics say that kidnapping by strangers is a tiny percentage of all missing children cases in the US. It's blown out of proportion, and the weight parents put on it can cause other problems.
You just don't do it man. Even if you think holding hands isn't touching...the kid doesn't know you.
ChubbyHuggs
Member
Was watching this episode with my girl and she said it was the dumbest thing she'd seen. Told her that's some real shit. I've tried to help a few kids before and got chewed out by the parents. Now I just ghost little kids.
RPGCrazied
Member
So if a kid is about to cross a 4 lane highway, and the only way to save the child is to touch them, you wouldn't?
Mkay.
flintstryker
Banned
Samaritan is too good I'd sue the fuck out of the father for attempting to defame me
He still assumed the worst even after the police came to the conclusion that he wasn't a predator and was just trying to help. Did you not read the article?
Taking her to the parking lot probably wasn't the best idea. Clearly he "did the right thing" but probably wasn't thinking about how it looked to other people. It says it was a softball game so I'd probably try to get the attention of one of the officials, potentially have them stop the game and make an announcement that the girl was lost. Either that or call the cops and have them take over.
That said, the dad sounds like a real hot-headed piece of shit. He can't be bothered to look after his own daughter but when someone tries to help, he beats the man and then smears him online, all because he's too fucking stupid to look after his own child. Real class act.
That said, the dad sounds like a real hot-headed piece of shit. He can't be bothered to look after his own daughter but when someone tries to help, he beats the man and then smears him online, all because he's too fucking stupid to look after his own child. Real class act.
Father at fault first for loosing sight of his child.
I dont fault him for punching the good samaritan if he had apoligised.
At this point the father is a prick.
The father then takes to the next level and decides to be judge, jury and executioner. Father deserves to go to jail and be sued.
I dont fault him for punching the good samaritan if he had apoligised.
At this point the father is a prick.
The father then takes to the next level and decides to be judge, jury and executioner. Father deserves to go to jail and be sued.
I save the child and than stop my contact with them. Walking around without hand holding.
Sunster
Member
if you are so terrified of this very extreme situation then why don't you just call other parents over to help?
The victim should press charges. It's one thing to fuck up and punch a person because you thought he was kidnapping your child. But to have the family harass him with what's clearly libel, I would not just press charges but she the living fuck out of that pathetic so-called father.
Fuck people like that.
Fuck people like that.
This is exactly why he should have left that kid alone, you're just going to get morons who think the family didn't go far enough at every turn. He punched the guy?! Why didn't he just kill him?!? The man is a sexual predator!
There would be no point where the guy who found the kid actually made a right choice, yet every choice made by the other party makes complete, absolute sense, no questions asked.