http://www.quora.com/Yishan-Wong/How-Google+-Shows-That-Google-Still-Doesnt-Understand-Social
This is such a weird article.
Korey, did you write it? =D
1) On Google+, people whom you have not friended can comment on your public posts.
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On Facebook, even when you make a post at the "Everyone" (public) privacy level, it is still essentially intended as a broadcast to your friends, or at least people with whom you are acquainted. People who have friended you but whom you have not friended back are prevented from commenting on your posts. This is obviously reasonable; you haven't stated that you wanted to be connected to them in any way, so why should they be allowed to participate in your conversations? Yet Google+ violates this by not only allowing but, through the design of the UI, encouraging and sanctioning this behavior as though there were nothing odd about it.
This is one of the issues that I think is causing confusion.. Facebook has two definition of what public means. Public to the world, and public to your friends. Because of this, people are bugging out bout their posts
actually being public to the world, when all they want to do was share with just a certain group of people.
Which leads to their second point:
2) On Google+, strangers consider it perfectly normal to insert themselves into a conversation between you and your friends any time you make a public post.
and my reaction:
wut?
If you share something with the
public and allow public responses why would it not be perfectly normal for anyone who comes across to comment on it?
The analogy is that you're standing on the sidewalk with your friends having a conversation. It's certainly in public, and anyone standing close enough could overhear you, and there is no nominal expectation of privacy (i.e. if someone eavesdrops on you, you have no legal recourse), but it would be inexcusably rude for a random stranger to jump in and express some strong opinion about the topic of your conversation, potentially criticizing you or one of your friends in the process. At the very least, the expectation is that such a would-be helpful stranger would first excuse the interruption, and politely attempt to proffer their advice as being potentially relevant, maybe.
Apparently some people like the idea of being faux-exhibitionism, they want to broadcast eveything, but also want to reserve the right to not allow people to look directly at them.
If you don't want people to comment or participate in a conversation, don't include them in the conversation. I'm not sure why that particular concept seems foreign to some people. By broadcasting something, you are saying "I want you to participate on some level", however what people apparently want to say is "I want you to watch this, but keep quiet cause us grown folk are talking".