User 73706
Banned
this is only speculation because I can't get past 'waiting for players' or 'loading session'
but is your character details stored on rockstars servers, so if you cant connect then it 'loses' your character? If the connection is successful later, maybe you get it back in another attempt?
I have to imagine a lot of the data that's "lost forever" is really just a caching issue or you're just flat-out not connecting.