Can't you start an invite only session? I know you can, I just don't remember the menu selection to get there. Rockstar has answered your prayers.
Can someone correct me if I'm wrong but there's no way to just host a lobby, have it closed until I've got my friends in and then let randoms in once they've joined, right?
I mean, there's no easy way. Best way I've found is to go onto one of the random markers around the free roam (races, deathmatches, parachuting, etc.) and hope it gives me an empty lobby, then quickly set the lobby to closed and invite my friends. Finish a race or whatever and then try to vote for a mission.
I just want to do missions with my fucking friends, Rockstar.
Remember online was probably developed by one person who knows nothing about online.
To start an invite only session (which works til you finish a mission/heist - you get put into a public session) you need to do this:
- Start/Load your Single Player
- Open the menu and scroll over to Online
- Click on start online
- Click invite only
That should do it til you do some missions/heists/anything that requires long loading.