Sorry to take so long in answering this, but last night being reset and e being on a new server... my attentions were there... then it was bedtime =)
Retro addressed most if not all of the things that I have witnessed and played thru over the past months. Its frustrating, at best. I do have another account on a Tier 1 server, where I belong to a hard core wvw guild and I love the fights, the bags, the strategies, and the competitive nature, so my fighting on SBI was a much more relaxing experience. Or at least it was SUPPOSED to be. It turned out to be stressful and not fun at all for me lately. (its supposed to be fun!!!! right??)
My leaving SBi was because I just didnt feel that anything was going to change ... either for the better or for the worse. There are several personal reasons as well, but I won't get into them... I just needed a change. And a "less toxic" environment to play in.
Ive moved to NSP and am playing with a small wvw centered guild and reset was amazing. Im sure part of that was truly the "honeymoon" phase, but seeing several comanders on each map, working together gives my in-game heart, the boost it needed.
I do TONS of wvw and tons of PvE as well, and truthfully, I struggled with the thought of moving. While GAF does have a core of wvw players, it was rare for me to party or play with them, with one or two exceptions. I am NOT leaving GAF nor my friends here.. I will still be running dungeons/fractals/missions and everything I can do with GAF... we just won't be on the same side of the wvw battlefield anymore. That being said.. .if you GAF WvW folks ever want to get a GvG organized.. hollar. =)