Playing peggle on my tablet is a casual for "fun" game, but even then, when I play Peggle, I'm still trying to "win" the game by using the least amount of balls possible.
Humans by nature are competitive people, and if you grew up playing sports, your competitiveness is probably going to be stronger than most non-sports playing people.
I'm like Ram, when I get on to play Halo, it's to compete online via matchmaking against players of similar skill or more...when that doesn't work, the game isn't fun anymore. Competitive player vs player isn't something to just dick around in...not saying you can't do that, but for most competitive people, that's boring as hell and I'd rather go do something else.
When I play Diablo 3 and do rift runs with randoms online...that's what I would call casual gaming, there isn't a pvp going on, and there isn't some time limit (unless you're doing greater rifts), so depending on your group, you can pace yourself through a rift, or you can try to clear it as fast as you can and move on to the next. Either way, I don't really know of anyone that just gets on Diablo and sits in their chair mindlessly clicking away because of boredom or whatever.
Halo has been plagued with a casual mindset for so long and for some reason, the moment someone mentions competitive play...out come all the torches and pitchforks, "HEY GUYS WE GOT A ESPORTS UBER PRO WANNA BE HERE, LETS SET HIM STRAIGHT, WE DONT WANT THAT COMPETITIVE PLAY BS IN OUR HALO! LEAVE OUR HALO ALONE!!"
I'm not trying to single you out Subzero but your reply to Ram is typical...it's been that way since the dawn of Bnet forums...every time someone wanted to offer a suggestion to make Halo more competitive...out come the typical replies of, "can't you just play Halo for fun?"
What's fun for you isn't fun for me, and likewise what's fun for me probably isn't fun for you judging by your reply. Moreover, 343 needs to seriously tune the matchmaking for MCC and make ranked playlists and unranked playlists so those who want to just dick around in Halo can stay in the unranked while us competitive players can be happy with our ranked playlists. Each side gets their share of the pot.
Have any of you ever heard of Fun Fair Positive Soccer? FFPS.
http://www.ffps.org/
Worse thing to ever be created for youth sports. Teaching kids that everyone is a winner and everyone gets a trophy. No scores are kept during the games. It's coed (which I'm fine with, girls and boys need to learn to play together) and everyone gets equal playing time.
Every time I see some forum poster mention casual or "play for fun", I always think of that disgusting youth soccer league.
Sorry for the novel of a reply Subzero...and seriously, I mean no qualms. Its just your reply to Ram got me going lol.