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[WrathOfOtaibah]

WHAT

Jesus, I need to quit GAF for a while, this place pisses me off now.

Your avatar and this comment go hand in hand.

As for me, I love big boobs on a small frame or any female frame for that matter. Girls who are titless and/or assless that are past puberty are kind of o.0 to me. I mean sexually of course. If we're friends, I don't give a shit what she looks like.

 

[lexy]

Your avatar and this comment go hand in hand.

As for me, I love big boobs on a small frame or any female frame for that matter. Girls who are titless and/or assless that are past puberty are kind of o.0 to me. I mean sexually of course. If we're friends, I don't give a shit what she looks like.

Exactly.

 

[etiolate]

I've always thought so too... I'm 5'4 when I stand up straight, small frame, skinny legs and arms, but when it comes to my chest, I have D-sized breasts. I've always found that it makes me look very disproportionate.

god damn

Actually this reminds me of a highschool gf who looked 12, so she could get into PG-13 movies at the ticket counter. She'd have to step back and then they'd see her big old chest and let her in. She was like only 5'3 or 5'4.

 

[siege]

I can't lie, I love big boobs. My wife is only 5'1" and is a 34B I believe. I'd be all for supporting a boob job if she wanted one, but I don't think the thought has ever crossed her mind.

 

[GhaleonEB]

I don't think I'd like implants.
They prevent from breast feeding too, right?

This is important. My wife is nursing our new daughter now, and I have to say - breasts are pretty but they have a pretty clear biological function. I no longer find breasts a 'turn on'. They're just part of the anatomy that does a job.

I was always a little miffed at the fascination with them, but actually getting a 'boob job' to make them bigger to me just sums up everything that's wrong with our culture.

 

[Mr Gump]

This is important. My wife is nursing our new daughter now, and I have to say - breasts are pretty but they have a pretty clear biological function. I no longer find breasts a 'turn on'. They're just part of the anatomy that does a job.

I was always a little miffed at the fascination with them, but actually getting a 'boob job' to make them bigger to me just sums up everything that's wrong with our culture.

Dont lie, you love you some titty.

 

[robertsan21]

i have had a couple of girls with their boobs done, but i would never ever tell my gf to get them done!

 

[Zaptruder]

I've always thought so too... I'm 5'4 when I stand up straight, small frame, skinny legs and arms, but when it comes to my chest, I have D-sized breasts. I've always found that it makes me look very disproportionate.

I demand pictures! Better yet porno pictures! Don't care if it's not you as long as it fits the description! gimme gimme gimme!

 

[Deleted member 4784]

I'm getting a boob job for sure someday; I look 15 instead of 20, I'm only 5'0" and 14-year-olds like Lemurs even have bigger boobies than me. I do wonder how safe implants really are, though. The safety issue has me more concerned than the money.

 

[EviLore]

I'm getting a boob job for sure someday; I look 15 instead of 20, I'm only 5'0" and 14-year-olds like Lemurs even have bigger boobies than me. I do wonder how safe implants really are, though. The safety issue has me more concerned than the money.

Looking young for your age is a benefit as you start to get older, and one not to be taken lightly. Breast implants are often obvious and a turn-off (not necessarily, but usually). When I've seen stuff like A-->C implants they looked really bad. Not enough there naturally to make it look like anything other than a balloon covered by skin. Suppose you might not be poorly off with something minor, but I'd suggest you just stay natural and be more confident with what you ended up with, rather than getting surgery when one of your body parts is so very slightly out of place with the girl standing next to you.

You can do other things besides point at your breasts to arouse guys anyway, and alternatives are usually more potent. Yeah, it's a contributing factor, but get over it ;b

 

[Koshiba]

The one thing I'd probably be most concerned about with getting a boob job is possibly messing up my boobs for good. As someone stated before, things can go seriously wrong. And things *can* go wrong even if you do have an excellent person doing the surgery.

Waychel, I've never seen a picture of you but I'm sure you look alright. You'll enjoy looking younger when you're older I'm sure.. Besides, some guys / girls do like girls that look younger.

As for implants being too obvious, I think the best thing to do would probably just to get your boobs a lift and filled out a bit. It'd probably be a lot better than getting cup upgrades.

 

[Daigoro]

speaking of boobs:

those avatars look funny next to eachother.

sorry, i got distracted 1/4 of the way through this thread.

 

[Mr Gump]

The one thing I'd probably be most concerned about with getting a boob job is possibly messing up my boobs for good. As someone stated before, things can go seriously wrong. And things *can* go wrong even if you do have an excellent person doing the surgery.

Waychel, I've never seen a picture of you but I'm sure you look alright. You'll enjoy looking younger when you're older I'm sure.. Besides, some guys / girls do like girls that look younger.

As for implants being too obvious, I think the best thing to do would probably just to get your boobs a lift and filled out a bit. It'd probably be a lot better than getting cup upgrades.

Shes saying she looks young because she is short and flat as a deck. Atleast through implants she can better one of them.

 

[Mr Gump]

*snip* How about you don't do that. ~Admin

 

[mrklaw]

its an interesting subject for sure.

I've seen some women with very small breasts - almost nothing there. And yet they are some of the sexiest women around, simply because of the way they carry it off. Sexuality is your entire body, and your 'aura' (sounds cheesy but you know what I mean)

You can have tiny boobs and be incredibly sexy
You can have huge boobs and be completely unsexy

This idea that big boobs = more sexy is just crazy. Yes, there is the obvious phyiscal attraction for blokes that is obvious, but for me at least, its the sum of the parts that counts.

 

[Koshiba]

Shes saying she looks young because she is short and flat as a deck. Atleast through implants she can better one of them.

Hell, I wish I was short and honestly, boobs get pretty annoying sometimes. Unwanted attention from guys when they're large.. Well, I guess some girls want that type of attention from guys. They seem to just get in the way sometimes, and they hurt when doing things sometimes. Meh, more trouble than they're worth usually. ;0

 

[WrathOfOtaibah]

I enjoy these threads because its about a bunch of guys trying to tell her not to go through with it because of self esteem or other reasons they remembered hearing when watching Ricki Lake. There are other reasons why women want bigger boobs outside of self esteem.

Thats like saying HDTV owners are just compensating for something else because they need to buy shit to compensate for their low self esteem. Is that true? Of course not.

As for me, if my girl asked me to get her boobs bigger, hell yeah I'd like her to but I would tell her that she looks fine now. Obviously, or else I wouldn't be with her. If she decides to, I would support her. Guys who are dead set against implants probably haven't actually felt them or knew anyone who got them. Too many people watching botched plastic surgery cases on Dateline.

I'm sure the women here considering it, and the female in the question at the beginning will take good care of them. Just because they leak because of negligence doesn't mean it will always be that way.

 

[Koshiba]

I've felt plenty of boob-job's and natural. Personally, I prefer the feel of natural. But that's just me I guess.

 

[EviLore]

Getting breast implants is akin to buying an HDTV now? Whew, I thought that was penis enlargement.

*Edit: all of the text I had in this spot was covered better by posts earlier in the thread (that I neglected to read until now).

Implants are one of many cosmetic surgeries, and some of us are going to pretty staunchly opposed to most/all of those procedures on people that are so far removed from ugly -- without the scalpel taken to their faces or tits or whatever.

You make the argument for implants, but then you come right back and say that you'd tell your partner that she's beautiful as she is and doesn't need to get implants. Draw some parallels to the posts here then.

Fuck off with the Rikki Lake comment, btw.

 

[lexy]

I was always a little miffed at the fascination with them, but actually getting a 'boob job' to make them bigger to me just sums up everything that's wrong with our culture.

Why do you hate freedom Ghaleon?

The most annoying thing about having large boobs is all the negative comments other women give you. Fair warning I guess.

You make the argument for implants, but then you come right back and say that you'd tell your partner that she's beautiful as she is and doesn't need to get implants. Draw some parallels to the posts here then.

What is so difficult to understand about his comment?

 

[WrathOfOtaibah]

Implants are one of many cosmetic surgeries, and some of us are going to pretty staunchly opposed to most/all of those procedures on people that are so far removed from ugly -- without the scalpel taken to their faces or tits or whatever.

I don't think you get it.

Its coming down to what you need vs. what you want. If she wants bigger boobs, let her. Thats like me telling everyone in this thread not to get a PS3 because you don't need a new gaming console. Thats like telling me not to go to the gym because I don't need to and am far from out of shape. Its what we want. If the person can do it responsibly (as many have), then they should.

Thats like saying "You don't need to go to college because its a waste of money and can ruin your life" but weird looks are given. In fact, what the fuck did the body do to receive these kinds of attacks?

Plus, why are you speaking for the forum?

You make the argument for implants, but then you come right back and say that you'd tell your partner that she's beautiful as she is and doesn't need to get implants. Draw some parallels to the posts here then.

I'm saying that I'm not going to tell her that her tits are too small/big/saggy whatever. Its a decision thats frankly up to her. I'll support her with her decision but I'm not going to steer her away or break up with her for wanting them because thats fucking stupid.

Fuck off with the Rikki Lake comment, btw.

I'm sorry. Oh wait, no I'm not. Go watch Lifetime.

Whew, I thought that was penis enlargement.

That too.

 

[sol5377]

I'm thinking guys dig boobs so much because 1) they desire them so much as a baby when breast feeding and that becomes ingrained, 2) they don't have breasts themselves (well, most guys, anyway) so it's kinda like female penis-envy, and 3) some built-in natural sexual inclination towards the curves on women.

I'm a big fan of the boobs; always have been, and always will be.

 

[human5892]

In addition to some of the other health risks mentioned, larger breasts can cause lots of neck, back, and posture problems. My girlfriend is a D cup, and she often complains of pain in her lower back because of it. She also has trouble shopping for bras and is more self-conscious of her chest than she is proud of it. In fact, she wants a reduction someday.

There's definitely a common line of thinking that equates implants to happiness or unquestionable good, but there are lots of potential detriments that go along with it.

 

[Aruarian Reflection]

I'm getting a boob job for sure someday; I look 15 instead of 20, I'm only 5'0" and 14-year-olds like Lemurs even have bigger boobies than me. I do wonder how safe implants really are, though. The safety issue has me more concerned than the money.

Why in the world would you want to look older?

I've felt plenty of boob-job's and natural. Personally, I prefer the feel of natural. But that's just me I guess.

Hot.

 

[Alyssa Hu$tle]

...It's also really hard to buy clothes -- my body takes an extra small size but the twins don't want to fit into that... they need a medium to large to squeeze in...

In my opinion I disagree. I am in the same situation as you, but I stick with the smaller size clothing. They stretch, and it accentuates your "best assets". Although good lingerie and swimwear can be a bitch I will admit when you start getting above the D mark.

And loxy is right, 90% of the problems mentioned in this thread can be avoided if you go to a board certified, reputable cosmetic surgeon in the first place. Sure, implants can reduce your chances of successful breast feeding, but it doesn't rule it out. And no, with the women I know, they are still sensitive.

And as far as how long until you can suck on her nipples, it depends on where they made the incision... some go in below the nipple, some via an incision under the arm (never under the breast itself these days) but it depends on how big you go. To a C-cup, I imagine it would be under the arm, so no worries. My best friend had hers done, and she was out clubbing and dancing (and more) 1 week post surgery.

Actually, the other week I saw the BEST set of boobs I ever have. This girl opted for these new tear-shaped implants, and man did they look (and feel) real.. not some unnatural look like you usually get. If she is serious, I suggest she look into these.

If I had small boobs, I'd get them done for sure. But this is not my issue. Although I did make it a condition of marriage that once we have had kids, I want a boob lift. I wouldn’t marry my husband until he agreed that I could do this. Forward thinking to avoid future conflict I say.

 

[Mr Gump]

In my opinion I disagree. I am in the same situation as you, but I stick with the smaller size clothing. They stretch, and it accentuates your "best assets". Although good lingerie and swimwear can be a bitch I will admit when you start getting above the D mark.

And loxy is right, 90% of the problems mentioned in this thread can be avoided if you go to a board certified, reputable cosmetic surgeon in the first place. Sure, implants can reduce your chances of successful breast feeding, but it doesn't rule it out. And no, with the women I know, they are still sensitive.

And as far as how long until you can suck on her nipples, it depends on where they made the incision... some go in below the nipple, some via an incision under the arm (never under the breast itself these days) but it depends on how big you go. To a C-cup, I imagine it would be under the arm, so no worries. My best friend had hers done, and she was out clubbing and dancing (and more) 1 week post surgery.

Actually, the other week I saw the BEST set of boobs I ever have. This girl opted for these new tear-shaped implants, and man did they look (and feel) real.. not some unnatural look like you usually get. If she is serious, I suggest she look into these.

If I had small boobs, I'd get them done for sure. But this is not my issue. Although I did make it a condition of marriage that once we have had kids, I want a boob lift. I wouldn’t marry my husband until he agreed that I could do this. Forward thinking to avoid future conflict I say.

SHOW US YER T-- WEDDING RING!

 

[Limedust]

My girlfriend has considered getting a boob job and I have lobbied against it.

When we met a year and a half ago, she was a D-cup. She stands 5’7” and at the time was about 160 lbs (don’t worry, I got permission to say that). Since then she has lost about 20 pounds from a lot of the exercise and team sports we play, and as a side-effect she has dropped to a C-cup. I think she’s always been beautiful no matter the size, but she’s become a little insecure from always having been rather big-busted.

She has had a preliminary exam with her doctor who says the procedure can be done under the arm to give a small lift and a one-size increase. This is apparently the safest and most successful procedure for a small increase, as opposed to going in through the stomach or cutting the nipple for a larger increase. The risk for loss of sensitivity is supposed to be lowest for this procedure.

One thing that has helped my cause against having it done has been catching a show on MTV called “I want a famous face”. It details all the procedures performed to people wanting cosmetic surgery, and what they go through before and after. To the show’s credit, it does a good job in displaying how shallow many of the young women are (I’ve not seen a guy on the show) and several disgusting and painful scenes of what actually happens. They also interview the women several months after surgery to ask if they are happy or not, and every last one has had something they didn’t like about their results, or something else they want to modify. The show also slips in a couple of minutes of interview footage from women who have had very bad side-effects.

I believe that all women have at least minor insecurities that come and go as a result of all the media hype and pressure to be beautiful. I used to be somewhat obsessive-compulsive about my BFP and lower weight, though I’ve grown out of that and become secure and self-confident in myself. Now it’s really just about health and well-being. I'm not too worried about my girlfriend now, as I believe she understands the perception that everyone always, ALWAYS has something they would like to change or improve about themselves and it’s just a matter of putting the big picture into perspective.

 

[Alyssa Hu$tle]

SHOW US YER T-- WEDDING RING!

HA!

 

[norinrad21]

My g/f has been mentioning getting them done to maybe a C cup, and I honeslty don't mind as i think it would make for exciting 'new' times under the sheets.
What does something like this cost?
And how long until i can resume biting on her nipples?

I wonder how long before she ditches you once she's all new and confident while other guys are checking her out.

Good Luck

 

[Mr Gump]

HA!

Nice rings :lol

 

[Baconäger]

I'm getting a boob job for sure someday; I look 15 instead of 20, I'm only 5'0" and 14-year-olds like Lemurs even have bigger boobies than me. I do wonder how safe implants really are, though. The safety issue has me more concerned than the money.

You're too fixated on physical appearences.

 

[norinrad21]

HA!

..........hehehehehe

 

[Alyssa Hu$tle]

Nice rings :lol

Thanks. I think so too.

 

[tedtropy]

I'm getting a boob job for sure someday; I look 15 instead of 20, I'm only 5'0" and 14-year-olds like Lemurs even have bigger boobies than me. I do wonder how safe implants really are, though. The safety issue has me more concerned than the money.

Eh, just eat more cheeseburgers or get knocked up. It's god's boob job!

 

[Mr Gump]

Thanks. I think so too.

Its rare when the term "the rock was as big as your fist" is downplaying the situation.

 

[Mr Gump]

Eh, just eat more cheeseburgers or get knocked up. It's god's boob job!

Free hip and bum implants as a pack in? Thats what i call a bargain!

 

[Mama Smurf]

HA!

:lol

You remind me of Mina. Which is a good thing for me, if others thought it they might not react the same way.

 

[Alyssa Hu$tle]

I'm getting a boob job for sure someday; I look 15 instead of 20, I'm only 5'0" and 14-year-olds like Lemurs even have bigger boobies than me. I do wonder how safe implants really are, though. The safety issue has me more concerned than the money.

If you make the right choices and do proper investigation Waychel, it can be very safe these days. Saline solution filled implants are the safest... even if they leak, no drama, no harm caused.

To be honest, if you see a good surgeon and do your research, the most harmful thing to you will be the general aesthetic.

I say do whatever makes you happy. To be honest, I actually saw someone today about a nose job. I don’t need one, but I want one and always have, and if it makes me feel good, why not?

Good luck to you my Dear. Whatever you decide.

 

[WrathOfOtaibah]

If you make the right choices and do proper investigation Waychel, it can be very safe these days. Saline solution filled implants are the safest... even if they leak, no drama, no harm caused.

To be honest, if you see a good surgeon and do your research, the most harmful thing to you will be the general aesthetic.

I say do whatever makes you happy. To be honest, I actually saw someone today about a nose job. I don’t need one, but I want one and always have, and if it makes me feel good, why not?

Good luck to you my Dear. Whatever you decide.

<gaf consensus>NO THATS NOT RIGHT. YOU MUST ACCEPT YOUR BODY AND NOTHING ELSE. IT DOESN'T MATTER IF IT FEELS GOOD BECAUSE YOU MUST HAVE SELF ESTEEM ISSUES OTHERWISE</gaf consensus>

Seriously though, good luck.

I believe that all women have at least minor insecurities that come and go as a result of all the media hype and pressure to be beautiful

If she wants big boobs, thats not media pressure. The new in thing is down to ridiculously low bodyfat levels. Big boobs are soooo late 80s/early 90s.

 

[pnjtony]

My GF plans on getting a small reduction and a "lift" after she's done squeezing out puppies. They were perfect C cups pre-baby and now they're D cups and a bit saggy...not old lady saggy, but compared to her previous perky self they're saggin a bit. She breastfed and that takes a lot out of them. Although with the proper bra and cleavage revealing shirt they're outstanding

 

[Alyssa Hu$tle]

<gaf consensus>NO THATS NOT RIGHT. YOU MUST ACCEPT YOUR BODY AND NOTHING ELSE. IT DOESN'T MATTER IF IT FEELS GOOD BECAUSE YOU MUST HAVE SELF ESTEEM ISSUES OTHERWISE</gaf consensus>

Why must you accept your body and nothing else, when you have choices? (particularly when if researched properly those choices are not necessarily so dangerous as made to believe at GAF).

As I said, I am getting a nose job. I don't have a bad self-esteem, rather I think I am rather great (if you haven't worked this out already). I don't need one, I just want one. I got a good bonus this year, and instead of paying bills and planning my future as I have every year, this year my bonus is about me. I am getting a nose job because I want to and I can. Good for me.

Whether I get one or not, I am still an awesome woman, I am beautiful, and I can comfortably walk into a room with confidence and pride.

Okay, so it's not a boob job (I want to still be able to stand up) but it is still cosmetic sugery. Do you really think I have self-esteem issues?

 

[Baconäger]

Yes.

 

[Mama Smurf]

Okay, so it's not a boob job (I want to still be able to stand up) but it is still cosmetic sugery. Do you really think I have self-esteem issues?

I didn't until you started talking about how good you are.

 

[WrathOfOtaibah]

Why must you accept your body and nothing else, when you have choices? (particularly when if researched properly those choices are not necessarily so dangerous as made to believe at GAF).

As I said, I am getting a nose job. I don't have a bad self-esteem, rather I think I am rather great (if you haven't worked this out already). I don't need one, I just want one. I got a good bonus this year, and instead of paying bills and planning my future as I have every year, this year my bonus is about me. I am getting a nose job because I want to and I can. Good for me.

Whether I get one or not, I am still an awesome woman, I am beautiful, and I can comfortably walk into a room with confidence and pride.

Okay, so it's not a boob job (I want to still be able to stand up) but it is still cosmetic sugery. Do you really think I have self-esteem issues?

I don't think you have any self esteem issues. The quote you have of mine was me making fun of the tools here that think all plastic surgery is bad because if you want it, you automatically have no self esteem. Keep in mind, these opinions come from people who sink thousands upon thousands on the perfect TV, perfect entertainment center, perfect DVD collection, who show off their new PSP and DS to their friends, and so on.

 

[Outcast2004]

Alyssa, your confidence is a refreshing change of pace. I really wish more women had that level of self esteem, it'd REALLY help us men out.

I love my wife, find her beautiful, but she's so self concsious about her large chest (among other things) it can really make things tough. I just wish I knew of a way to boost her confidence level and be proud of what she has. I love her the way she is, but she never seems happy with herself...... sigh, such is married life.

EDIT: For the record, I'm buying a 52 HDTV not because of penis size (or lack thereof, I'm quite ok in that department, thank you very much!), but because I'm getting a new job.

It's a B-day gift to myself and my wife, we love movies and it's about time we got with the current time. No more 27inch TV for us, no sir-e-bob

 

[Baconäger]

I bought a big TV becuase I have a small cock, not because of self esteem issues.

 

[Alyssa Hu$tle]

Yes.

Okay, so if I wanted to improve on my memory let's say and started doing memory exercises, or if I wanted to improve on my knowledge and started some form of education, does that mean I have self-esteem issues? Does that mean if I wanted to "improve" something, I must not like myself in the beginning?

And what is the difference if that "something" that I want to improve is appearance? Other than social stigma of course.

And before you answer, please don't say that education actually helps you in your life and improves your situation and attractive boobs do not, because TRUST me on this, it is not the case. There are many benefits, to both.

 

[Outcast2004]

Okay, so if I wanted to improve on my memory let's say and started doing memory exercises, or if I wanted to improve on my knowledge and started some form of education, does that mean I have self-esteem issues? Does that mean if I wanted to "improve" something, I must not like myself in the beginning?

And what is the difference if that "something" that I want to improve is appearance? Other than social stigma of course.

And before you answer, please don't say that education actually helps you in your life and improves your situation and attractive boobs do not, because TRUST me on this, it is not the case. There are many benefits, to both.

Sorry, but feminine wiles are not a valid form of currency

 

[Late Stage Marxist]

GAF on abortions: It's a woman's choice it's her body!!!

GAF on breast implants: Aw hell naw!

Fake breasts are better than no breasts, though I don't really have anything against flat-chested women. Many of them are quite attractive, it's just that curves are sexy. Anything above a C-cup just screams porn star, though.

 

[WrathOfOtaibah]

By GAF logic, we shouldn't even be talking now because improvements to ourselves are bad.