I have a small penis

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You straight guys are lucky cause girls are nice. But gay guys are often size sluts (where i live at least!) :p

Also a short penis can pretty much limit the positions you can afford. But that's not the end of the world!

The real trick anyway is to know the size of your penis and be used to it so you can make the better use of it!
 
ItAintEasyBeinCheesy said:
I need a ruler, where does one measure from.

If I go from the sack I get a few more inches, if I go from above the cock its less. Fuckin cock science.
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Proper way is to measure from the bottom of shaft, so the top side rather than underneath and from the sack. A lot of people measure it wrong ie. from the sack and then boast about their long 8 inch dicks when it's just a nomal 5.5-6 inch size.

Also the fat padding reduces the length a bit so you need to press on it a bit, not too heavily to measure.
 
I remember a friend used to boast about his 8 inch penis since I told him I was exactly average (5.5 motherfuckers, 5.5 of pure joy) and one day he somehow ended up in boxers and everyone proceed to look at his groin and see that there was definitely no 8 down there. We still make fun of him to this day.
OP, just be confident. Learn a few mouth tricks.
 
Relix said:
I remember a friend used to boast about his 8 inch penis since I told him I was exactly average (5.5 motherfuckers, 5.5 of pure joy) and one day he somehow ended up in boxers and everyone proceed to look at his groin and see that there was definitely no 8 down there. We still make fun of him to this day.
OP, just be confident. Learn a few mouth tricks.
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Eh that's not really an indication of size.
Some growers can get real big.
 
Relix said:
I remember a friend used to boast about his 8 inch penis since I told him I was exactly average (5.5 motherfuckers, 5.5 of pure joy) and one day he somehow ended up in boxers and everyone proceed to look at his groin and see that there was definitely no 8 down there. We still make fun of him to this day.
OP, just be confident. Learn a few mouth tricks.
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"I'm so confident in my 5.5 of pure joy I make fun of my friend!"
 
Penis size can have an impact, but I think technique is more important. There's lots of smaller Ds out there that do an outstanding job. Don't let size get you down.
 
MWS Natural said:
Only fair since there is already a Black GAF OT.
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#deadlift
 
hey_monkey said:
So, I'm sure in all these pages, this kind of thing has been said a million times, but it bears repeating again and again: fellas, your penis is not that important.

Okay, well, I mean, it's important. But the size is just not a tremendous deal. Sure, I guess it depends a little on lifestyle choices, but in the general, it shouldn't be a dealbreaker, and in a committed, loving relationship, it certainly shouldn't be.

I have experienced quite a few dongs in my day: short, long, skinny, thick, circumcised and not. Even fooled around for a while with a dude who had a micropenis, and though it didn't last long (the fooling, not the micropenis), that was more due to the fact that he was goddamned insane than due to the size of his dick. But the dick I like best is attached to my husband, not because it's particularly big or anything, but because we are 100% comfortable with each other and always do whatever needs to be done when we are having sexy times.

(Someday, my husband is probably going to find out how much I've discussed his dick on GAF and, I don't know, roll his eyes or something. I swear this is like the fourth time.)

My hubs has what can only be called a magical size-changing penis. The first time we made out we got very close, though clothed, and I thought he seemed on the small side. Whatever, thought I, it's fine, a peen is a peen. I've since learned that he takes being a grower to a whole new level, but it's always different. I never know what dick I'm gonna get when we go to bed. Sometimes it's a little below average in length. Sometimes that biz comes out swinging and he's well above average. I don't know. It's weird as hell, and the only one I've ever seen that's like that. I mean, I've seen some fluctuation, but we're talking about a span of 4.5 to just under 7 at different times, based sometimes on how long we fool around and sometimes on some mystical equation I haven't figured out. He's always about the same girth, but the length is wildly unpredictable.

And yet... the sex is always great. Always. And honestly, I prefer him somewhere in the middle, because when he's fully out there, it can get a little painful if we're not careful.

I've had plenty of bad sex and mediocre sex and great sex before this relationship, and the quality of the sex was never dependent on the size of the penis. The attitude, the approach, the moment, how into it (or not) we both were, these things all mattered. So if you're constantly worried about the size of your dick and freaking out about it, that might affect things, sure. And I'm not saying there aren't girls (and dudes) who don't care about the size of their partners. There are. But there are also girls (and dudes) who know that there's more to sex than a ruler measurement. Of course, you have to know it, too. And you have to be more than the size of your penis, whether it's big or small.

This totally turned into a feel-good PSA, I guess. Whatever. FEEL BETTER, GAF. ALL PENIS IS GOOD PENIS.

Everyone just worries so much. Am I good enough, am I big enough, am I hot enough, am I a good kisser, and we should all stop and relax and remember that sex is pretty glorious and if there's a naked willing person or two in the room with us, we should be pleased and try to please. The end.
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Great post!
 
hey_monkey said:
This totally turned into a feel-good PSA, I guess. Whatever. FEEL BETTER, GAF. ALL PENIS IS GOOD PENIS.

Everyone just worries so much. Am I good enough, am I big enough, am I hot enough, am I a good kisser, and we should all stop and relax and remember that sex is pretty glorious and if there's a naked willing person or two in the room with us, we should be pleased and try to please. The end.
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Would you say it's similar between the perception that females with big breasts will be more successful in bed? Both are primarily natural (though one is easier to get surgery through than the other) body parts that are usually judged by size and sexual appearance.
 
Hypothetical Question: Would you rather be Kelsey Grammer with a 1/4 inch penis or David Hayde Pierce with a 14 inch penis?
 
Penis size definitely matters to women. Don't believe otherwise for a second. Don't confuse what most women say when they say they don't care about the size of a penis and what they really mean. They all care, the majority just don't care enough that it becomes a huge deal to them.

Now, does penis size matter to women as much as men think it does? I don't have a definitive answer for that, but from my own personal experiences in life the answer is a resounding no.

Men make a much bigger deal about this shit than women do that's for damn sure. We really need to chill out with this shit too. The majority of women really aren't that jaded when it comes to penis size, guys...

edit- I'm definitely adding "I can pussy" to my vocabulary now btw. Thanks GAF.
 
Forceatowulf said:
Penis size definitely matters to women. Don't believe otherwise for a second. Don't confuse what most women say when they say they don't care about the size of a penis and what they really mean. They all care, the majority just don't care enough that it becomes a huge deal to them.

Now, does penis size matter to women as much as men think it does? I don't have a definitive answer for that, but from my own personal experiences in life the answer is a resounding no.

Men make a much bigger deal about this shit than women do that's for damn sure. We really need to chill out with this shit too. The majority of women really aren't that jaded when it comes to penis size, guys...
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I think it's safe to assume women care about penis size as much as men care about breast size. Some men greatly prefer smaller or bigger breasts while some women prefer smaller or bigger penises. There isn't a universal preference; it's subjective. Size isn't a huge factor in sexual pleasure until you reach extremes anyway (<4" & >8").

In short: "women don't care about penis size" is as inaccurate as "men don't care about breast size," in that it varies per person.
 
Forceatowulf said:
Penis size definitely matters to women. Don't believe otherwise for a second. Don't confuse what most women say when they say they don't care about the size of a penis and what they really mean. They all care, the majority just don't care enough that it becomes a huge deal to them.

Now, does penis size matter to women as much as men think it does? I don't have a definitive answer for that, but from my own personal experiences in life the answer is a resounding no.

Men make a much bigger deal about this shit than women do that's for damn sure. We really need to chill out with this shit too. The majority of women really aren't that jaded when it comes to penis size, guys...

edit- I'm definitely adding "I can pussy" to my vocabulary now btw. Thanks GAF.
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The way I think about it, it's like this: You may have an average dick size but great technique, and have great sex. Your girl will have no issues. But maybe if you had a slightly larger dick you girl will enjoy sex even more.

But yeah, men definitely care more about this. I think it's because of the perception that your penis defines your masculinity. So having a tiny dick would feel emasculating.
 
Yes, the breast size example is very accurate.

For instance, do I care about women's breast size? I do, in the sense that I prefer women with big phat titties. Now, if I met a girl who was not well endowed with tig o bitties but I liked pretty much everything else about her, would I dismiss her or think less of her as a woman? No. As a matter of fact, HELL NO. I love me some juicy phat titties, but I am not so jaded as to dismiss women who don't happen to meet this preference of mine.

A preference is not a requirement.
 
Forceatowulf said:
Yes, the breast size example is very accurate.

For instance, do I care about women's breast size? I do, in the sense that I prefer women with big phat titties. Now, if I met a girl who was not well endowed with tig o bitties but I liked pretty much everything else about her, would I dismiss her or think less of her as a woman? No. As a matter of fact, HELL NO. I love me some juicy phat titties, but I am not so jaded as to dismiss women who don't happen to meet this preference of mine.

A preference is not a requirement.
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It's a well known fact that if a woman finds anything she considers an imperfection in a man she loses all interest.

At least that's what I like to tell myself.
 
Buy an extender, wear it 6 hours per day. There's studies supporting their efficiency.

Do jelqs. Do stretches. There are dozens of beginner routines on the net.

Buy a bathmate hydropump and have a bit of fun at bath time. It will give temp girth gains but over time these will translate into permanent gains as the tunica deforms.

Do a kegel (and reverse kegel) routine. 50 a day is a good stating point. Try to reach the point of having multiple male orgasms.

Lose some fat.

If it hurts at any point, you are doing it wrong.

Don't buy pills or magic creams, they don't do anything except maybe improve erection quality.

Everyone is different so don't expect to become a monster. But I would be surprised if one was to do all this for a year and not gain even a centimetre.
 
I NEED SCISSORS said:
Buy an extender, wear it 6 hours per day. There's studies supporting their efficiency.

Do jelqs. Do stretches. There are dozens of beginner routines on the net.

Buy a bathmate hydropump and have a bit of fun at bath time. It will give temp girth gains but over time these will translate into permanent gains as the tunica deforms.

Do a kegel (and reverse kegel) routine. 50 a day is a good stating point. Try to reach the point of having multiple male orgasms.

Lose some fat.

If it hurts at any point, you are doing it wrong.

Don't buy pills or magic creams, they don't do anything except maybe improve erection quality.

Everyone is different so don't expect to become a monster. But I would be surprised if one was to do all this for a year and not gain even a centimetre.
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But you risk injuring your dick.
 
I have around five inches (of blue steel) and I'm seeing a girl that has seen most types and we're plenty good! One black guy she dated once was apparently *huge* and they couldn't go through with intercourse even after taking their time and trying a few times. Dude was sad because no Asians would bed him and only a couple of Caucasian girls could go through with it. Black chicks were fine apparently because it came with the territory.

PS. I'm 5'5" tall so it's proportionately good looking OK!? Jeez.
 
I NEED SCISSORS said:
Buy an extender, wear it 6 hours per day. There's studies supporting their efficiency.

Do jelqs. Do stretches. There are dozens of beginner routines on the net.

Buy a bathmate hydropump and have a bit of fun at bath time. It will give temp girth gains but over time these will translate into permanent gains as the tunica deforms.

Do a kegel (and reverse kegel) routine. 50 a day is a good stating point. Try to reach the point of having multiple male orgasms.

Lose some fat.

If it hurts at any point, you are doing it wrong.

Don't buy pills or magic creams, they don't do anything except maybe improve erection quality.

Everyone is different so don't expect to become a monster. But I would be surprised if one was to do all this for a year and not gain even a centimetre.
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You could become permanently impotent without ever feeling any pain.
 
IceCold said:
But you risk injuring your dick.
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"If it hurts at any point, you are doing it wrong."

And unless you have some vein disorder, it's very unlikely. Most people doing PE have healthier dicks (better erection quality) than when they started out. Extenders are even being used in medicine to treat curvature caused by Peyronie's Disease.

Besides, every major life change carries risk. If you are fat, you risk having a heart attack while exercising to lose it. If a woman wants bigger breasts, she risks dying in surgery. A person who has a small penis and cares enough to want to do something about it is going to be willing to take the risk.
 
I NEED SCISSORS said:
"If it hurts at any point, you are doing it wrong."

And unless you have some vein disorder, it's very unlikely. Most people doing PE have healthier dicks (better erection quality) than when they started out. Extenders are even being used in medicine to treat curvature caused by Peyronie's Disease.

Besides, every major life change carries risk. If you are fat, you risk having a heart attack while exercising to lose it. If a woman wants bigger breasts, she risks dying in surgery. A person who has a small penis and cares enough to want to do something about it is going to be willing to take the risk.
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I don't know man, seems pretty risky for some minimal gainzzz
 
I NEED SCISSORS said:
Buy an extender, wear it 6 hours per day. There's studies supporting their efficiency.

Do jelqs. Do stretches. There are dozens of beginner routines on the net.

Buy a bathmate hydropump and have a bit of fun at bath time. It will give temp girth gains but over time these will translate into permanent gains as the tunica deforms.

Do a kegel (and reverse kegel) routine. 50 a day is a good stating point. Try to reach the point of having multiple male orgasms.

Lose some fat.

If it hurts at any point, you are doing it wrong.

Don't buy pills or magic creams, they don't do anything except maybe improve erection quality.

Everyone is different so don't expect to become a monster. But I would be surprised if one was to do all this for a year and not gain even a centimetre.
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I'm glad GAF didn't think I was trolling when I said small & average dickdudes should just off themselves instead of living this life of misery.
 
I NEED SCISSORS said:
"If it hurts at any point, you are doing it wrong."

And unless you have some vein disorder, it's very unlikely. Most people doing PE have healthier dicks (better erection quality) than when they started out. Extenders are even being used in medicine to treat curvature caused by Peyronie's Disease.

Besides, every major life change carries risk. If you are fat, you risk having a heart attack while exercising to lose it. If a woman wants bigger breasts, she risks dying in surgery. A person who has a small penis and cares enough to want to do something about it is going to be willing to take the risk.
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By jelqing you are basically destroying you penis' tissue and blood vessels. That's the whole point behind it. By making micro tears, you are allowing more blood to flow to your penis, hence it becomes bigger. I don't know about you but that shit doesn't sound safe to me. Those PE guys have serious insecurity issues.
 
If most women care about height then I'm pretty sure they care about penis size. Think about it, most women like tall men, because taller = larger penis.
 
maxxpower said:
If most women care about height then I'm pretty sure they care about penis size. Think about it, most women like tall men, because taller = larger penis.
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I'm pretty sure there's no correlation between those two.

fake edit: oops. I wanted to edit my previous post.
 
Revoh said:
5 inches, but if I press down my fat pad it's 6 inches long. The thing is I probably need to go down to a very very low body fat percentage to begin losing fat in that area. And I have tried several times to lose more fat but my body just doesn't want to lose it anymore, even while doing intermittent fasting and stuff like that.
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You are complaining about 5 inches? Be thankful, there are dudes out there with dicks that are literally just the head, like an inch big. Maybe 1.5 hard.

5-6 inches isn't small. It's average if we are taking actual studies into account.
 
maxxpower said:
If most women care about height then I'm pretty sure they care about penis size. Think about it, most women like tall men, because taller = larger penis.
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Women are not attracted to tall men per se, most of them just don't want to be taller than the man, there's a difference.
 
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