Notice that out of all the logical outcomes, there is only 1 out of 4 where he stays happy with her
I think my girlfriend is cheating on me , should i just break up with her ?
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GymWolf
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If the girl is the flirty type and he can learn to trust her, there are 2 options.Notice that out of all the logical outcomes, there is only 1 out of 4 where he stays happy with her
Not saying that it is the right thing to do, but it is an option if being playful is coded in her dna and she is not a bitch, these people exist, not every playful woman is a bitch.
You believe in unicorns, don't you?
GymWolf
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My sister is that type, she is playful even with old, ugly clients just because it is in her nature and only a retard would think that she want to sleep with themYou believe in unicorns, don't you?
Most of times they are bitches, but sometimes it's just personality.
Old and ugly clients are the ones you CAN be playful with. It's the strapping younger guys that are the problem.My sister is that type, she is playful even with old, ugly clients just because it is in her nature and only a retard would think that she want to sleep with them
Most of times they are bitches, but sometimes it's just personality.
Bojji
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My sister is that type, she is playful even with old, ugly clients just because it is in her nature and only a retard would think that she want to sleep with them
Most of times they are bitches, but sometimes it's just personality.
And she is doing damage to some men that are stupid/desperate/lonely enough to to think that this is real.
Most men are not accustomed to smiles and compliments, lol.
GymWolf
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Nah, those old men know that she is just playful, they are smart enough to understand that.
Also, women are generally more handsy\playful here in sicily so men are used to it.
Sure it can happen that some rare dude can think otherwise but she is not gonna change her persona because some men haven't sniffed a pussy in years and are thirsty as fuck.
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Awwww shit, you shoulda said she was ITALIAN!!!!
Things different over here in the states. Can't let your women rub up on men, women have even been fired for calling people "hey honey" or "hello sugar", much less the cheek kissing nonsense you euros still do, ewww
I get flirty waitresses a lot, and even when you KNOW its just for the tips, there is a deep hardwired part of the male reptilian brain that says "go for it old man, you got a shot at her!!!"
Hell, the entire OF model is based on this male weakness.
GymWolf
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Sicilian, it's even worse, north italy are way more cold than us and not only for the weather...Awwww shit, you shoulda said she was ITALIAN!!!!
Things different over here in the states. Can't let your women rub up on men, women have even been fired for calling people "hey honey" or "hello sugar", much less the cheek kissing nonsense you euros still do, ewww
I get flirty waitresses a lot, and even when you KNOW its just for the tips, there is a deep hardwired part of the male reptilian brain that says "go for it old man, you got a shot at her!!!"
Hell, the entire OF model is based on this male weakness.
We are very playful and handsy people over here.
Greeting people with a semi hug with a fake kiss on both cheeks is basically a sicilian meme
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DeVeAn
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You got this man. It will sting, that's because you genuinely cared about her. You know yourself and trusted your gut. Not many can say the same. Things will get better.
Also, don't keep tabs, don't seek her out. You don't need to know what shes doing. Just my 2 cents.
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Signalis
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samoilaaa
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i already left her
man as a engaged woman if some dude bumps into you you dont say " are you trying to dominate me ? " and smile , you dont playfight with him , you dont let him grab you from behind your neck , you dont let him grab your ankle , women at my workplace are so respectful they never touched another man and never let another man touched them , i wouldnt dare because they have this aura that imposes respect
when we first started dating there were friends that told me she likes the attention , she is the party type girl , has a diamond gem in one on her front tooth , likes to wear leggings alot ( i went to her office to pick her up and she was coming from the gym in leggings , she dropped something and bend over to pick it up and 2 of her coworkers were staring like crazy , i would have starred too if i was them because she has an amazing round ass but the point is you dont dress to attract male gaze ) , always has to buy the newest iphone just because , always on snapchat , i didnt listen to them
she has this magnetic , outgoing personality that make you forget about everything
samoilaaa
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GymWolf
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I can definitely see the magnetic and outgoing personality in her.i would rather not but its something like this
demigod
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In USA, you get FIRED just for words. Touching is already a nono.
Donald mac Ronald
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Inspired by the heat 2 thread.
samoilaaa
Was actually gonna give you some level headed advice on it but you've already broken up.
But basically the age difference while isn't huge, but the years differe in maturity is. If she's in her 30s and you 40s you'd have no issue. But she's mid 20s still probably in that dip shit University age where she knows she's attractive and likes the attention. She doesn't realise even if it's harmless, an engaged soon to be married woman can't behave like that. An older woman probably would.
It would have been tricky because she'd insist it's harmless and not an issue and she loves you etc and why can't you accept it blah blah blah. You'd either have had to bite your lip or gloss over it. If you stuck to your guns, she'd end up pushing you away because in her brain she can't comprehend her behaviour is just completely unnecessarily.
When she hits her 30s she realise this shit. Many women do this.
Giallo Corsa
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Sicilian, it's even worse, north italy are way more cold than us and not only for the weather...
We are very playful and handsy people over here.
Greeting people with a semi hug with a fake kiss on both cheeks is basically a sicilian meme
Chittagong
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I'd say there is no shame in keeping ramming that until further noticei would rather not but its something like this
Donald mac Ronald
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True. He could have just mentally checked out, continued to drill and find other sources.
Harry stamper always hits his depth.
Tiago Rodrigues
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Just reading the OP...i don't think she's cheating on you yet OP.
But flirting the way she's flirting is disrespectful to you and your relationship.
Feels like she's at that stage right before something physical happens. Sexual tension building up, the teasing, etc...feels like it's a matter of time.
I know people too much to believe this will only stay this way. I'd casually bring up cheating as a topic of conversation, or mention her co-workers, how the job has been going and you check her body language, how she speaks about it all and see for yourself.
I'm just giving the benefit of the doubt here because this story came from someone else otherwise i'd just tell you to leave.
But flirting the way she's flirting is disrespectful to you and your relationship.
Feels like she's at that stage right before something physical happens. Sexual tension building up, the teasing, etc...feels like it's a matter of time.
I know people too much to believe this will only stay this way. I'd casually bring up cheating as a topic of conversation, or mention her co-workers, how the job has been going and you check her body language, how she speaks about it all and see for yourself.
I'm just giving the benefit of the doubt here because this story came from someone else otherwise i'd just tell you to leave.
Trilobit
Absolutely Cozy
Is she single?My sister is that type, she is playful even with old, ugly clients just because it is in her nature and only a retard would think that she want to sleep with them
Yeah, maybe we were too hasty.
Hope you got good video, OP, to get you through any upcoming poonanny droughts.
Most of my wild days were waaaaay before easy video recording, I just assume everyone is making vids these days.
nush
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In my experience women are mostly OK with pictures as long as they trust you not to post them, but vids way less so.
Gp1
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"Some guy was looking at a file and she pressed her chest to his arm to look too , when they were on a break they were joking and the guy put his forearm on her upper leg for a couple of seconds , he bumped into her and she asked him " are you trying to dominate me ? ", he was laying down on the floor and she was on the chair next to him shaking her leg and he grabbed her ankle and asked "you have too much energy ? " and she smiled and started shaking her leg faster
She does jokes with other guys too not just this one , she was walking in front him and stopped suddenly to make the guy bump into her , she did it a couple of times until the guy got annoyed and they started playfighting , he has the habit of grabbing her behind her neck when he want to say something to her"
Redneckerz
Those long posts don't cover that red neck boy
You think, so you dont know yet.
Instead of asking GAF if you are insecure (You are by asking GAF) do the logical and have a proper, adult conversation with her. I know, i know, communication is a scary thing these days esp. When none tell the whole story, but go ahead and have that talk.
Instead of asking GAF if you are insecure (You are by asking GAF) do the logical and have a proper, adult conversation with her. I know, i know, communication is a scary thing these days esp. When none tell the whole story, but go ahead and have that talk.
Trilobit
Absolutely Cozy
Best wishes to you, bro. It can't have been easy, but sooner or later you probably would have been heartbroken when she went the full length. You deserve someone who truly respects the relationship.
SHAKEZ
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I'll be real man, she ain't the one.
This is a huge amount of disrespect and she doesn't consider you at all when all of this happens.
Ask yourself this, if any woman approached you like this at work, would you consider your GF and stop them? If yes, then you should expect the same treatment from her here, it's called being considerate and respectful to each other, you're not teenagers anymore.
Edit: saw that you ended it man, it hurts now, but let me say this: I was in a similar situation and she ended up moving on a month later with the guy I didn't need to worry about because I was just jealous.
Always trust your gut, hopefully you'll find the one next brother.
This is a huge amount of disrespect and she doesn't consider you at all when all of this happens.
Ask yourself this, if any woman approached you like this at work, would you consider your GF and stop them? If yes, then you should expect the same treatment from her here, it's called being considerate and respectful to each other, you're not teenagers anymore.
Edit: saw that you ended it man, it hurts now, but let me say this: I was in a similar situation and she ended up moving on a month later with the guy I didn't need to worry about because I was just jealous.
Always trust your gut, hopefully you'll find the one next brother.
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Shifty1897
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You really can't know who will cheat on you and who won't. People are complex and all are different. I've known women who would never cheat have their mom die and get depressed and self destructive and start cheating on their husband.
If you're worried and can't get over it, you could be open and honest but know she may not react well.
If you're worried and can't get over it, you could be open and honest but know she may not react well.
samoilaaa
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it sucks but its for the better , she was mad when i broke up with her because in her head she didnt do anything wrong but now she kept texting me to take her back , thats not gonna happen
SlimySnake
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Well done OP. Finally a gaffer that listened to advice.
SHAKEZ
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If you take her back she'll just disrespect you even harder, it's done.
I wish strength for you brother, it'll come to pass.
Have her call me instead. I can't ride for the whole 7 seconds but I'll hang on for at least 5
IntentionalPun
Ask me about my wife's perfect butthole
I'm a hopeless flirt of the worst kind so I've generally been one to not get upset at a little bit of flirtation in whoever I'm with's life; I don't need to be the only person making my partner feel good in that simple kind of way.
But yeah your stories are red flag city lol
But yeah your stories are red flag city lol
Raven117
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First off, how old are you? This seems like a young person's issue.
But yeah, you probably need to say something. We are talking about your life here. We are talking about severe financial and mental problems if you go through with a marriage and have it fall apart. You will be livid with yourself if got snagged and knew it was coming.
When women are in the "going to get married" stage, this is typically where they are the LEAST receptive to other dudes, joking or otherwise. The fact she is doing this now is a bad sign.
But yeah, you probably need to say something. We are talking about your life here. We are talking about severe financial and mental problems if you go through with a marriage and have it fall apart. You will be livid with yourself if got snagged and knew it was coming.
When women are in the "going to get married" stage, this is typically where they are the LEAST receptive to other dudes, joking or otherwise. The fact she is doing this now is a bad sign.
Raven117
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There is a little charm, and then there is "flirting" As you said, this stuff is red flag.
nush
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I've learned the never go back rule the hard way. Whatever broke you up the first time will come back again.
Lambogenie
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Well that was a quick resolution, OP. Almost seems like you were leaning that way and just needed the confirmation push.
samoilaaa
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its not that i was leaning but its not the first time we had this type of arguments , she wanted to put a small diamond gem into one of her front tooth i told her that its something silly she did it anyway , she wanted to buy a motorcyle i told her that we just bought an apartment and now its not the time , she did it anyway , she made a video for tiktok dancing in tight pants and another one with slides of her in bikini , i told her not to post it because men will start making dirty comments , she said she doesnt care and posted them anyway and ofc the comments came "look at that ass shaking" , "how much for 1 hour of pleasure" etc. , always texting someone , always on snapchat
i got tired of it , its like no matter how much i rested i was always drained of energy
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GymWolf
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Diamonds on teeth is some retarded shit for cringe rappers with a name that start with lil or something, ngl.
Jinzo Prime
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When you cant get rest at your own house it's time to let them go. Good on you, mate.
samoilaaa
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Herbspiceguy
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You were doing yourself a huge disservice staying with her. You deserve better than that.
Stay strong bro.