Amiga
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You can choose how to respond, but that doesn't mean just walk away from every confrontation. Some people will not choose how they respond and will just act on instinct ripping your heart out of your ribcage as you try to reason with them. In those moments you have to show them the Dim Mak.
Taking a stand is a logical decision. you can be forceful and calm. it's better actually. this is what martial arts are about. force from anger is chaotic and turns bad situations worse.
Certain situations you can't just take your time to reason away the anger before deciding to move away.
yah it's difficult. had my issues when I was younger. learned from regrettable experiences. just hope advice means people need fewer lessons.