When you're using that terminology the only thing you achieve is giving the JIDF members (#NotAllJews) an easier point to argue.
Their main goal in these threads is to talk about anything besides the civilian death count, so spending a couple of pages arguing about semantic definitions of words fits their agenda perfectly.
Same goes to holocaust references.
And on topic, arguing about the intent of individual attacks kinda misses the point anyway, it's safe to say that Israel can kill much more civilians if it wanted, if Israel really wanted to just kill civilians it could've murdered a whole lot more, but at the same time, Israel has been doing these types of mini-wars for a while now, and they know with statistical certainty that those type of attacks would lead to hundreds of civilian casualties, but they do it anyway.