That's just life, I suppose.That's rawVaquilla . Raw Af.
I don't like lying to women.Pro-Tip: add PHD to your bio
You don't have a phd?
Fixed it for you.
Everyone dies alone.
Maybe you dodged a couple of bullets
RIP, legend.
I guess you never read psychology books. These are the three main principles of attraction I read about in a university psychology textbook: 1) physical appearance; 2) similarity (interests, hobbies, even body language, etc.); 3) living location proximity.
These sites don't benefit women any more than they benefit men who don't just want to shop for hookups. The only way you could think that is if the goal is getting as much notifications as possible and endless shallow complements based on nothing.
This is incorrect and kind of nonsense. i have never given a fuck about attention or likes nor do i care about how many people are interested in me nor do i care if you ring that bell and subscribe. Im going to guess you are from a younger generation to even think about those things. I used apps a few times sometime back because when you speak a different language then where you live, its more convenient. Especially in a country where you HAVE to be the one to be forward., Now if i wanna meet someone i just walk up to them. However i have many friends who had experiences in the past and still are. Many such apps are absolutely bent towards it. Getting people to stop using your app as soon as possible is not a good business model. Even Bumble realized it was Pushing too hard down that alleyway. Pairs and many such apps often cost nothing for women and only men have to pay. And yes they do have LIKES, why do you think even having a popularity show up in numerical value even exists. https://edition.cnn.com/2024/04/30/tech/bumble-relaunch-men-make-first-move
Doesn't it more come down to the old saying that the grass is always greener on the other side? You don't know how life would have turned out if you've ended up going multiplayer. I certainly know a lot of people who are not better off in their relationship. It's just that solitude is/can be it's own kind of hell and many people can't deal with it and would rather suffer through a bad relationship. That doesn't make one side better though, just a different.
It does free me up to be very available for the folks I have in my life. I have been able to shape my nieces and nephews lives in ways that would not have been possible had I a family of my own.
.lTrue, I know all that too well but the point I'm trying to make is that you have other cons on the other side as well. And who can guarantee that you wouldn't be sitting here and writing those instead of what you do now if your life had went differently? Especially with how many families work these days. You can only know if you like a way when you actually walked it.It does free me up to be very available for the folks I have in my life. I have been able to shape my nieces and nephews lives in ways that would not have been possible had I a family of my own.
As I get older it's all the little shit that starts erroding at me. Holiday's kind of of suck, as my limited friend group gets older and have family's of their own I have less and less people to enjoy stuff (read games/technology) with.
Don't get me started on the day to day bullshit...cooking for 1 sucks, chores and general upkeep are always my responsibility, and even social events which are typically limited social events (watching TV shows, going to movies or concerts) looses its luster when you are by yourself all the time.
Also...sometimes you just want to lay in that greener grass and bang
Well said. We are more connected to the people on the other side of the world than with the people around us. Being in or out of an intimate relationship doesn't change that.
So my usual pickup line "Would you say your ass is bigger than your tits?" is no good?
