I think I understood what you are staying, you can quote me, some time ago I said "what we are calling feminism right now it's no feminism at all, it is just hating all men, feminism was about women. Pseudo feminism is about spending all your energy on hating men"
American culture got so out of control that it went to extremes. believe ALL women, ALL men are trash, ALL drag queens are imposing fake ideas of feminism etc.
It is time everyone in America calms down and some people need to realize that everything is not a war and nothing is black and white. We in Portugal has this discussion years ago about men also being victims of domestic abuse and the stigma society imposes on them, so bad that 99% of them did not even reported to authorities. We had tv channels and society talking about this issue and yes domestic violence happens but neither does the public or the police etc takes sides unless they have evidence. This is how we advance society, exposing facts, talking... not with mass hysteria, biased media etc.