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LGBThread |OT3| Friends of Dorothy!

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Trigger

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Would you guys consider it gross to sleep with a cousin?

I mean people just a few decades back were marrying and having kids with their cousin, then in the US it suddenly became illegal and socially unacceptable.

I've made out with a cousin before, but I don't think I'd ever do it with her. I think the change was an attempt to discourage incest as a whole. Nothing good comes from inter-family lovin'.
 

RatskyWatsky

Hunky Nostradamus

Eeehh...

I'm just thinking about my relationship with my first cousins and how weird it'd be to sleep with one of them. Of course, your relationship with your first cousin must be very different than mine if you're actually considering sleeping with one of them, so I don't really know what to say.

Go for it, I guess, if you don't think it'd be weird. #YOLO

I think the main problem that people have with cousin-cousin relationships is the fear of pregnancy and the ensuing birth defect/nephew-son/niece-daughter drama/dynamic, but that isn't really going to be a problem for you since I'm assuming your cousin is also male. And now that I think about it, that's actually one of the best things about being gay/bi - you don't have to worry about any the negative aspects of incest. You can just follow your heart wherever it leads.
 
Eeehh...

I'm just thinking about my relationship with my first cousins and how weird it'd be to sleep with one of them. Of course, your relationship with your first cousin must be very different than mine if you're actually considering sleeping with one of them, so I don't really know what to say.

Go for it, I guess, if you don't think it'd be weird. #YOLO

I think the main problem that people have with cousin-cousin relationships is the fear of pregnancy and the ensuing birth defect/nephew-son/niece-daughter drama/dynamic, but that isn't really going to be a problem for you since I'm assuming your cousin is also male. And now that I think about it, that's actually one of the best things about being gay/bi - you don't have to worry about any the negative aspects of incest. You can just follow your heart wherever it leads.


Well I wouldn't ever actually because it would be incredibly awkward, and because he is straight.

But jeez I almost feel guilty for finding him attractive in that way.
 

Cosmic Bus

pristine morning snow
Used to have a thing for a second cousin maybe ten years ago, but I imagine that was mostly because she was pretty tomboy-ish and had a really short pixie haircut.
 

Sagitario

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... And now that I think about it, that's actually one of the best things about being gay/bi - you don't have to worry about any the negative aspects of incest. You can just follow your heart wherever it leads.

The real Ratsky would have said: "Twins porn is totally justified <insert GIF here>" or something...
WHO ARE YOU?! D:
I ALMOST WANT MAH OLD RATSKY BACK...
almost
 

RM8

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Everything that happens between two consenting adults is fine I guess, but I know I wouldn't act on it, personally. There's a strong DNW factor for me if it involves family :S But I second that it depends on your relationship with your cousins, maybe? I still wouldn't. Going from brother-like to sex, ugh, nope nope nope. But hey, he's straight anyway :p Nothing wrong with finding anyone attractive.
 

RatskyWatsky

Hunky Nostradamus
I think it's fine so long as you don't act it.

That's exactly how I feel about homosexuality!

The real Ratsky would have said: "Twins porn is totally justified <insert GIF here>" or something...
WHO ARE YOU?! D:
I ALMOST WANT MAH OLD RATSKY BACK...
almost

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mantidor

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Would you guys consider it gross to sleep with a cousin?

I mean people just a few decades back were marrying and having kids with their cousin, then in the US it suddenly became illegal and socially unacceptable.

eeeewww.

A few decades back women were still frequently sold into marriage, just to put things in perspective :p

I think it depends a lot on culture and how close families are, as far as I know in the US families are more isolated from their cousins/aunts/uncles, so it becomes more likely, here in Latinamerica families are extremely close, to the point I see my cousins as brothers and sisters, I grew up with them, so it just makes me feel "eeww" the thought of anything with them.

In reality, incest is not a 100% ticket to birth defects, and it can actually lead to extremely brilliant individuals, probability is still considerable between siblings, but with first cousins the chances are very, very minimal. I'm not sure it should be illegal, but people being grossed out by it is nothing surprising.
 
My first ever "sexual experiments" with another guy were with my cousin during sleepovers when we were teens. Nothing crazy just taking turns touching/caressing the other's dick and butt with our hands. We only did it on a few occasions and it never escalated (I hadn't even discovered masturbating at that point, although I was definitely more than old enough to).

We never spoke of it afterwards and he's been married with kids for many years now.
 

RM8

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Guys. I might have a thing for Mark from Classic Game Room. I want a guy with that voice and sense of humor, please.
 

DR2K

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You ever had bad sex and think to yourself it could never get worse from that point? Then it gets worse.

Soo bad. . . Never say never.
 
Ugh. How do people manage to work out during the summer? Even with the extra free time I have, it feels way too hot to do anything. Not that I don't do anything, but I feel like I'm getting tired way faster.
 
I swear I'm starting to feel crazy. My self-esteem and sexual frustration seem to come and go in cycles, sometimes in the same day, making me question my sanity. Hormones fucking suck.
 
Ugh. How do people manage to work out during the summer? Even with the extra free time I have, it feels way too hot to do anything. Not that I don't do anything, but I feel like I'm getting tired way faster.

Yeah, I always feel sorry for those guys who have outdoor jobs. I'd die of heat stroke if I had to do it. That and I don't tan, I burn like toast.

edit: lol and now I see you meant work out as in like exercise. Feel stupid now.
 
Ugh. How do people manage to work out during the summer? Even with the extra free time I have, it feels way too hot to do anything. Not that I don't do anything, but I feel like I'm getting tired way faster.

I'm the exact opposite. I always have much less energy in winter, and in fact I almost completely stop working out in winter and resume in summer.

Winters have always been shitty times in every conceivable way in my life. If I could live in summer all year long I'd take that in a heartbeat (I know that thought is anametha to many people, no need to castrate me)
 

Mark1

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Anyone getting Animal Crossing: New Leaf when it's released? I'll be getting it thanks to the So Many Games promotion. Can't wait
 

daripad

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I swear I'm starting to feel crazy. My self-esteem and sexual frustration seem to come and go in cycles, sometimes in the same day, making me question my sanity. Hormones fucking suck.
Just keep trying. You're very cute.


Also, I would love to live in really cold place. I prefer doing exercise when is not very hot. I hate 35°+ temperatures, unfortunately here it is the standard, and it is rarely less than 30° here.
 

Alrus

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Anyone getting Animal Crossing: New Leaf when it's released? I'll be getting it thanks to the So Many Games promotion. Can't wait

Still too busy with MH3G to start out another game. I never played an Animal Crossing game so I'm interested in it though. I'm afraid it might not be for me though :/
 

Mr_Zombie

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Ugh. How do people manage to work out during the summer? Even with the extra free time I have, it feels way too hot to do anything. Not that I don't do anything, but I feel like I'm getting tired way faster.

I don't mind wokring out at gym during the summer, because it's a closed space with air conditioning so the heat doesn't affect me. But my god, I was running today and it was hot (and it's not even that hot yet, just mere 22°C); by the end of the run I could barely see anything because I had sweat all over my eyes :|
 

Menaged

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Ugh. How do people manage to work out during the summer? Even with the extra free time I have, it feels way too hot to do anything. Not that I don't do anything, but I feel like I'm getting tired way faster.

Workout at home, turn on AC - problem solved!

Just keep trying. You're very cute.


Also, I would love to live in really cold place. I prefer doing exercise when is not very hot. I hate 35°+ temperatures, unfortunately here it is the standard, and it is rarely less than 30° here.

Where do you live?
It's around 35 celsius in Israel as well at the moment and I'm dying!
The ridicilous thing is that I carry a jacket in my backpack since the AC is freezing some of the class rooms.
 
The nohomo thread... I just cannot on gaf mobile right now. It's so stupid. Someone says something not only stupid, they sound unprofessional being an athlete in entertainment. Why the hell are people thinking that shit is alright for him to say smh
 
Where do you live?
It's around 35 celsius in Israel as well at the moment and I'm dying!
The ridicilous thing is that I carry a jacket in my backpack since the AC is freezing some of the class rooms.

I'm right next door in Jordan and yeah it's 35 (95 F) here too, and I don't have AC! I don't really mind it very much though, I live alone and can stay in only boxers the whole day
 
The nohomo thread... I just cannot on gaf mobile right now. It's so stupid. Someone says something not only stupid, they sound unprofessional being an athlete in entertainment. Why the hell are people thinking that shit is alright for him to say smh

I don't find the phrase "No Homo" bigoted or homophobic. What I do find is how sad het men feel so insecure that they can't compliment a guy without worrying if someone will think they're gay.
 

Ty4on

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What the fuck... I have slept through 28C!? I have never experienced higher air temp than 26C up here. I remember a friend saying once he had observed 27 when I was on holiday.
Glad it ain't 35, it's 30 inside and that's too hot for me even without clothes :p

I'm right next door in Jordan and yeah it's 35 (95 F) here too, and I don't have AC! I don't really mind it very much though, I live alone and can stay in only boxers the whole day
Problem is I want cool air in, but I don't want people to look in...
Not just me, my room is a fucking mess.
 

MarkusRJR

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I don't find the phrase "No Homo" bigoted or homophobic. What I do find is how sad het men feel so insecure that they can't compliment a guy without worrying if someone will think they're gay.
Yeah these are basically my thoughts as well. I used to know guys that meant it 100% seriously.
 
Problem is I want cool air in, but I don't want people to look in...
Not just me, my room is a fucking mess.

Ah, I live in a roof apartment and the only higher buildings in the neighborhood are on one side (North), so I only have to worry about people looking in in two rooms, the rest of the flat I can prance around naked with windows ajar. I even often go out on the terrace naked.
 

daripad

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Where do you live?
It's around 35 celsius in Israel as well at the moment and I'm dying!
The ridicilous thing is that I carry a jacket in my backpack since the AC is freezing some of the class rooms.

South of Mexico. It's been terrible this month, but right now I think we're at 28-30. At least there is some wind at home, good thing I live in the country. The town is a mess due to hot temperatures, no wind, lots of noise, etc.
 
I don't find the phrase "No Homo" bigoted or homophobic. What I do find is how sad het men feel so insecure that they can't compliment a guy without worrying if someone will think they're gay.

I don't find the term exactly bigoted either, More just stupid and ignorant. But the guy who said it as a professional person in the business, on air don't they think that it does not make them sound unprofessional? That's really my thing. You just don't go on air in television and act a fool
 

Menaged

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Ah, I live in a roof apartment and the only higher buildings in the neighborhood are on one side (North), so I only have to worry about people looking in in two rooms, the rest of the flat I can prance around naked with windows ajar. I even often go out on the terrace naked.

I have a roomate so naked is a no no. I usually walk around with shorts and no shirt, but it's still so freaking hot. For some reason, during the day it's reasonable, but when the sun goes down it gets hotter in my apartment and I have to turn on the AC (weird, I know...).

I miss the spring :(
Hate the summer in this area. It's so long...

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On another note, I'm so lazy. I need to read a 28 pages paper about feminisem and Zionism but I can't seem to start. I've been doing nothing in the past few hours, just avoiding it. I finished MGS4 yesterday (sooooo good) so I have nothing to run to :(
 

RM8

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I'm part of the "screw hot weather" crowd. Luckily even on hot days, it's usually cold in the morning and night around here. Honestly the worst part is having to marinate myself in sunscreen if I don't want my weak-ass skin to roast.
 

mantidor

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You people and your seasons.

I lived all my life without them, now that I moved to Rio and got to experience mild changes makes me wonder how you people keep up in the more southern/northern regions, it must feel like being almost bipolar :p Luckily I'm very tolerant of heat, but I prefer the cold weather of my native Bogota, even if I need layer upon layer of sweaters and coats to keep me warm.
 

Menaged

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That's crazytalk


I... I don't think I like you :(

MGS4 was the worse thing to happen this generation for me.


Crazy beacuse It's short (no way...) or because you love sweating? :p

Yeah, I know MGS4 is kinda divisive (I think that's the word I'm looking for). I just completed an MGS marathon and loved it much more than I did first time - 5 years ago. I guess it's beacuse I didn't take it too seriously and I knew what to expect plot wise. I just enjoyed the great gameplay, and I know I'm in a minority, but I loved each and every act of this game.

Made me want to order MGS Rising, but my backlog is huuuuge.
 
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