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Bladenic

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Down that sounds bad but I hope it all works out, aka you get to keep dating him and stay friends with that guy. I kinda have a similar story but don't feel like typing, but losing a new group of friends sucks as I did over the course of the summer
 
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DOWN said:
Android problems

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Sucks about your guy and your friend. I agree with you. Just be yourself. You're a nice guy, so don't change because of your guy.

Also, yes lol.

I had lost my faith in Android phones for a little bit. I was so frustrated and mad. I was seriously considering getting an iPhone 6S but I saw the light and decided to stay with Android phones.

I was able to reason in time. God bless. o/
 
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DOWN

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Seath said:
Sucks about your guy and your friend. I agree with you. Just be yourself. You're a nice guy, so don't change because of your guy.

Also, yes lol.

I had lost my faith in Android phones for a little bit. I was so frustrated and mad. I was seriously considering getting an iPhone 6S but I saw the light and decided to stay with Android phones.

I was able to reason in time. God bless. o/
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Thanks Seath :)

And while customer ratings suggest you simply can never be as satisfied by the Android platform as you can be by iPhone, I am glad you feel at peace.


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lol this got me:
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Vatican: Kim Davis visit with Pope is not a show of support, she was just a guest among others for a brief visit
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The Vatican @ Kim Davis:

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KiN0

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Monocle said:
It couldn't hurt to start a conversation. Comment on how you see him a lot, or compliment his clothing or something. Try to find out if you're involved in any of the same school activities. If there's an upcoming event, ask him if he'll be there and maybe try to meet up. See if you can get his gamertag, lol. Anything works. All you're doing is showing your interest and giving him the opportunity to reciprocate. If he really is interested, he'll probably take you up on any invitation to do something social.

Or: take out your dick and stare him down.

Sorry if it seems that I'm treating you like some sort of socially inept person. I'm just suggesting stuff I would try myself. (Well, maybe not the dick thing. That can be your adventure.)
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Heh, thanks for the advice. Honestly, I am pretty socially inept so overcoming that initial awkwardness is difficult for me. I'm probably overthinking things, worst case scenarios would honestly be no different than the way things are now.
Zalasta said:
Start with a hello would be nice. Then next time maybe a how are you doing. And after that try some small talk. A simple greeting is enough, if he reciprocates, then you can build on that.

Honestly, unless you are confident enough to just ask someone out, you should treat it like the start of any platonic friendship instead of a potential date, expecting anything more is just setting yourself for possible disappointment and unnecessary anxiety.
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I figured I went into this the wrong mind set. Seeing it in writing is kind of a wake up call. I think I just got really excited because this is my first crush that actually turned out to be gay.
 
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kitchenmotors

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It's October 3rd

HAPPY MEAN GIRLS DAY

I had a fantastic day at Universal and Islands of Adventure with my friends. My date wouldn't join us because the group was me and the usual friends including the one he just ditched the friendship with and honestly I think it's silly. The guy he got mad at is sweet as heck and no way am I seeing a reason to not be friends with him. My guy says he felt like the friend was not invested in being friends because he doesn't have a car and so when he hangs out he usually needs to be dropped off somewhere else and I'm not fazed by that I guess because I know what it's like to be around this age without a car and think the ex-friend needs rides and probably feels a hell of a lot more comfortable being friends with the people he asks. Rather than just asking for a ride and not spending any time at all. They have hung out lots of times without anywhere to go.

and then my guy says that ex-friend would never invite him to things and I'm thinking BS honestly because I've never invited my guy to a thing ever and he let that slide. Heck, I didn't even invite him to universal or tell him I was going at all. Ex-friend is the one who reached out and told him to come by with us in the first place and my guy backed out.

My guy tried to list a bunch of things that frankly aren't my business and don't have anything to do with my friendships or interactions. He claimed ex-friend has cheated on his boyfriend and makes people feel used a lot. Does he though??? You the only one that didn't come hang with us today who we told to come.

I never feel secure that I'll get invited again to see these friends but I'll always say yes if I do. They're great. I had a blast today.
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Sounds like a lot of unnecessary drama. That's a shame.
 
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Vazra

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Thinking where to move next year is proving to be a big pain in the ass. Either I don't like the weather of the place, I don't like how similar it might be to my island, too expensive, too boring, no beach, dirty beach, crazy people,etc.

I'm pretty sure Im leaving this island anyway.
 
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umop_3pisdn

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Bayonetta said:
Thinking where to move next year is proving to be a big pain in the ass. Either I don't like the weather of the place, I don't like how similar it might be to my island, too expensive, too boring, no beach, dirty beach, crazy people,etc.

I'm pretty sure Im leaving this island anyway.
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Prioritize your criteria? Nothing is going to fulfil all of it, and climate is basically something you're always going to adjust to anyways.
 
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Vazra

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umop_3pisdn said:
Prioritize your criteria? Nothing is going to fulfil all of it, and climate is basically something you're always going to adjust to anyways.
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Mostly going for job opportunities which seems Seattle and Texas are the most recommended ones. Seattle might be the best atm since I do want a drastic change.
 
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Monocle

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KiN0 said:
Heh, thanks for the advice. Honestly, I am pretty socially inept so overcoming that initial awkwardness is difficult for me. I'm probably overthinking things, worst case scenarios would honestly be no different than the way things are now.
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Good luck!

Charles Foster Kane said:
It's official. I can't have sex.

It works for a bit, but I easily lose my boner if something turns me off and can't get it back up. I've never had a good experience.
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I'm pretty sure I read a sex advice column where the recommendation was to not make sex all about the D. There's a lot you can do that doesn't require a consistent boner. Maybe look into incorporating more toys and oral stuff? Employ your god-given ability to fingerbang?

It could be that putting less focus on staying hard will eventually cause the issue to take care of itself.
 
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Charles Foster Kane said:
It's official. I can't have sex.

It works for a bit, but I easily lose my boner if something turns me off and can't get it back up. I've never had a good experience.
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A lot of sex (and staying up) is psychological. I came across an article for people who can't stay hard while using condoms, and it surprised me that it's often a psychological problem. Perhaps your past experiences are making your recent and future ones worse because you're afraid something might go wrong? Just a thought.

I hope you find a way to do what you enjoy. I like the suggestions about exploring other means of having sex.
 
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Vazra

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I kinda wish I could cut people off my mind (and things) as easily as some people do. 4am and still no sleep. FML
 
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Vazra

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scarlet said:
This, I'm that kind of person that can't let go of anything. Even the smallest thing
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Since June my sleep has been really fucked up and more things keep piling up. I need to let go of things. I think I have but they decide to always show up when I want to sleep. It sucks but at least I shall be going to the beach today to change things a bit.
 
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Symphonia

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scarlet said:
This, I'm that kind of person that can't let go of anything. Even the smallest thing
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I'm glad I'm not alone. It irks me when people say to just 'drop it' as if it were an easy thing to do. If I could, I would. Trust me. But I just can't. Putting something to the back of my mind is something I just cannot do.
 
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Kater

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Bayonetta said:
I kinda wish I could cut people off my mind (and things) as easily as some people do. 4am and still no sleep. FML
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Truth is, most people can't really cut people out of their mind just like that. They very likely do the same thing as you do, push it to the side and vent it on the internet or go visit a therapist.

Don't think you are alone in that.

And have fun at the beach!
 
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scarlet

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Bayonetta said:
Since June my sleep has been really fucked up and more things keep piling up. I need to let go of things. I think I have but they decide to always show up when I want to sleep. It sucks but at least I shall be going to the beach today to change things a bit.
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I'm glad I'm not alone. It irks me when people say to just 'drop it' as if it were an easy thing to do. If I could, I would. Trust me. But I just can't. Putting something to the back of my mind is something I just cannot do.
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Charles Foster Kane said:
i can't do it either.
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Hugs

Even losing my pen could irritate me for whole day.
 
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Bladenic

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I asked my mom if she "believes" in evolution, thankfully she does. Of course she continued with god is real and i wanted to say "where's the evidence" but I refrained

I'm going to hell aint I
 
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Symphonia

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If someone can show me concrete evidence that God is real, I may start to believe them. Until then, I believe we're here because we're here. There is no greater purpose in our lives other than to be here.
 
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Rayis

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I have found out I'm incompatible with nearly everyone on hook up apps, I don't have anything against hooking up but I want to do it under very specific criteria, the way these guys go at it is a such a turn off, horny is never a fucking appropriate answer to how are you doing?

I'm not a normal gay gawddammit, where can I find me an abnormal gay such as me?
 
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Phreaker

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Charles Foster Kane said:
It's official. I can't have sex.

It works for a bit, but I easily lose my boner if something turns me off and can't get it back up. I've never had a good experience.
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What turned you off?

Rayis said:
I'm not a normal gay gawddammit, where can I find me an abnormal gay such as me?
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You are not alone. My gay friends say I'm am enigma...oh well. I'll be single until the right guy comes along and it really doesn't bother me.
 
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Vazra

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Rayis said:
I have found out I'm incompatible with nearly everyone on hook up apps, I don't have anything against hooking up but I want to do it under very specific criteria, the way these guys go at it is a such a turn off, horny is never a fucking appropriate answer to how are you doing?

I'm not a normal gay gawddammit, where can I find me an abnormal gay such as me?
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I turn everyone off cause I respond good or bored or just say what Im actually doing instead of glamorizing stuff like others do. Meh
 
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Vitanimus

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Bayonetta said:
I turn everyone off cause I respond good or bored or just say what Im actually doing instead of glamorizing stuff like others do. Meh
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that depends if you're blocking conversation. if I asked how someone was, just saying "i'm good" or just "bored" is a block

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Vazra

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Vitanimus said:
that depends if you're blocking conversation. if I asked how someone was, just saying "i'm good" or just "bored" is a block
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Well I usually respond and ask stuff back but when the profile guy has no face picture and no information I can be pretty cold about it with those answers and no follow up. Also It's kinda tiresome to be responding the same thing over and over to most people who end up asking right after that if I want to fuck instead of keeping a normal conversation before going there.

The sex talk is fine if it gets there in the right time but I don't like dealing with desperate guys. I still get some decent conversations here and there but when most people are sex oriented pretending that they want to be friends to some point you just start running in automatic tbqh.

Why are most of the gays so thirsty?
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halfbeast

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Rayis said:
I have found out I'm incompatible with nearly everyone on hook up apps, I don't have anything against hooking up but I want to do it under very specific criteria, the way these guys go at it is a such a turn off, horny is never a fucking appropriate answer to how are you doing?

I'm not a normal gay gawddammit, where can I find me an abnormal gay such as me?
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eh, there's this unwritten rule in gay apps that you MUST talk about sex 24/7 for some reason. sometimes you can redirect the conversation with a little bit of effort. there was this dude just throwing genital related words at me, like some sort of tourettes. I asked him if there was anything else in my profile that caught his eye and he said Game of Thrones. so, we ended up talking about this. :3
 
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Vazra

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halfbeast said:
eh, there's this unwritten rule in gay apps that you MUST talk about sex 24/7 for some reason. sometimes you can redirect the conversation with a little bit of effort. there was this dude just throwing genital related words at me, like some sort of tourettes. I asked him if there was anything else in my profile that caught his eye and he said Game of Thrones. so, we ended up talking about this. :3
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When I ask that question is usually just my face or that I look geeky and shy. I think realistically speaking about 2/10 read my profile since I get nude pics as hi messages often -_-
 
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Vazduh

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halfbeast said:
I'm really curious, what it is, that pushes them over the edge (pun not intended).
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Stigma that comes with doing porn (I'm not sure how many get to crossover successfully to something else), loneliness, depression, drugs... I'm generalizing, of course, but I'd bet it's hard for most people who get stuck with doing porn. There are always exceptions, as with everything in life, but that lifestyle is anything but glamorous.
 
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Rayis

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Bayonetta said:
I turn everyone off cause I respond good or bored or just say what Im actually doing instead of glamorizing stuff like others do. Meh
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See, that's actually not a turn off for me, those responses I can work with and could lead to a nice conversation before the whole heavy talk, I also find the strict bottoms and tops who are perpetually thirsty to be so yawn-worthy, No, I don't want to eat their hole like a pancake nor be fucked so hard I go blind. But I'll keep trying cuz I want a sexual encounter of some kind.
 
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Symphonia

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halfbeast said:
Eh, there's this unwritten rule in gay apps that you MUST talk about sex 24/7 for some reason. Sometimes you can redirect the conversation with a little bit of effort. There was this dude just throwing genital related words at me, like some sort of tourettes. I asked him if there was anything else in my profile that caught his eye and he said Game of Thrones. So, we ended up talking about this. :3
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In all fairness, it's not just gay apps that play host to the thirstiest people on Earth. The straight side of Tinder has a fair few girls looking to either sext or meet up for a shag. Like, I know Tinder is primarily a hook-up site, but some people use it as a genuine way to meet new people. That said, OKCupid has its fair share of horny women. And men, of course, as my little incident the other day proved. The internet, in general, is a pretty goddamn horny place.
 
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Rayis

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halfbeast said:
eh, there's this unwritten rule in gay apps that you MUST talk about sex 24/7 for some reason. sometimes you can redirect the conversation with a little bit of effort. there was this dude just throwing genital related words at me, like some sort of tourettes. I asked him if there was anything else in my profile that caught his eye and he said Game of Thrones. so, we ended up talking about this. :3
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I find the great majority of those guys to not be worth the effort tbh, they might look good but while sex is all great and fantastic, I don't want my encounter to be just about that, I prefer quality over quantity
 
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Vazra

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Rayis said:
See, that's actually not a turn off for me, those responses I can work with and could lead to a nice conversation before the whole heavy talk, I also find the strict bottoms and tops who are perpetually thirsty to be so yawn-worthy, No, I don't want to eat their hole like a pancake nor be fucked so hard I go blind. But I'll keep trying cuz I want a sexual encounter of some kind.
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Exactly its alright to talk like you talk with everyday life people cause they are that but the whole desperation for sex is too much for them to be able to hold a normal conversation before going for the sex talk. My favorite conversations on the apps has been mostly music and current events talk with some random innuendos here and there for laughs.

EDIT: Also I'm bored of the cock and ass pics cause at one point they all start looking the same. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

Also let me go to the beach and catch some sun. Later guys. XOXO
 
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Rayis

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Bayonetta said:
EDIT: Also I'm bored of the cock and ass pics cause at one point they all start looking the same. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
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YES, oh my goddd, I fuckin loathe those types of pics so much, I don't find them attractive in the slightest, send me a pic of your hot furry torso, or of you doing silly faces while lying on bed, that is actually sexy, not a disembodied dick or a poophole.

I could rant about this all day, being gay is hard *sobs*

also, enjoy the beach and sun~
 
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