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Kater

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Does that only apply to people who can cook well, or is overspiced amateurish flailing also acceptable, to a lesser degree?
The only way to learn anything is by repeating something until you really get it. So yes, it's definitely acceptable.



Ohhhh, it's RPJ already right.

I need to find a good selfie! 😱
 
RPJ time. Good-bye Mueller Avatar, by the time this month is over, I'll probably be done with Trails in the Sky. You had a good run.

mullervander_6808.jpg

Also, the full pic of the avatar. For the record I'm technically not posing, it was taken before I was ready.

 

Arcipello

Member
i enjoy cooking for others more than myself actually, its very satisfying when you get everything right and you can just relax and enjoy the food. i've had my share of disasters in the past and its always down to bad timing.
 

Golnei

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Oh my, this page.

Real-pic-january-lgbtqia-ot is off to a good start I see.

Absolutely. Which is another reason for me to hold myself back from ruining it.

i enjoy cooking for others more than myself actually, its very satisfying when you get everything right and you can just relax and enjoy the food. i've had my share of disasters in the past and its always down to bad timing.

I feel the same way - for the most part, I only really enjoy cooking at all if it's for others. Though even then, I can't really relax until I'm absolutely sure I haven't grievously disappointed or harmed anyone - especially when it's for family, I'm more paralysed by anxiety than anything. Still, it is a great feeling when things go well. And at least I've got a pretty good track record when it comes to not setting things on fire, unlike most of my friends.
 

Jacqli

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Happy New Year to all of you (well, Neogaf in general)!

I haven't said anything since my last post because… I haven't done any progress either. :(
But I feel like this might be MY year: I am going to end my degree as a translator (well, you know, internship) in a video game localization company! I am really really excited about it, I was not expecting to be hired because there was only one vacant post and we had to go through a test that consisted of translating some dialogues and menu texts. And as well as focusing my final year dissertation (is that correct?) on video games.

So, in order to take a step further in my life, I think it is time to create the damned account in one of those sites. It makes me feel uneasy though because it frightens me that, perhaps, somebody from where I live might be on that website and recognise me (and, due to my dog, I see a lot of people everyday). I thought of creating an account without photos and relevant information, just to test the waters, and then I could create another one or fill that one in if I feel more confident. The problem is, in my opinion, that I will still be delaying the inevitable.

I do not know… I guess I should stop giving too much thought and
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZXsQAXx_ao0

Anyway, as to the last pages, I like threads like RPJ, even though I will never be capable of doing it, it is great to see the face behind those accounts.
 
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Happy New Year to all of you (well, Neogaf in general)!

I haven't said anything since my last post because… I haven't done any progress either. :(
But I feel like this might be MY year: I am going to end my degree as a translator (well, you know, internship) in a video game localization company! I am really really excited about it, I was not expecting to be hired because there was only one vacant post and we had to go through a test that consisted of translating some dialogues and menu texts. And as well as focusing my final year dissertation (is that correct?) on video games.

So, in order to take a step further in my life, I think it is time to create the damned account in one of those sites. It makes me feel uneasy though because it frightens me that, perhaps, somebody from where I live might be on that website and recognise me (and, due to my dog, I see a lot of people everyday). I thought of creating an account without photos and relevant information, just to test the waters, and then I could create another one or fill that one in if I feel more confident. The problem is, in my opinion, that I will still be delaying the inevitable.

I do not know… I guess I should stop giving too much thought and
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZXsQAXx_ao0

Anyway, as to the last pages, I like threads like RPJ, even though I will never be capable of doing it, it is great to see the face behind those accounts.

Congrats on the internship! And good luck with the dating site! It'll be scary at first, but I think things will get better. :) Keep us posted!

Regarding your question: it's a bit hard to comment on "dissertation" because, from an American English perspective, I know that the American education system is quite different from others in other countries. In the US, "dissertation" is the term used to describe the final work of a Ph.D. program (also known as a doctoral program or described by saying "getting a/my doctorate"); these programs typically last 3-7 years and are the highest level of education. For an undergraduate (4 years) or Master's degree program (1-2 years), the final project is typically called a "thesis."

In the US, higher education typically goes undergraduate => Master's (this step may be skipped) => Ph.D., with most people stopping after the undergraduate or Master's (if they didn't already stop after high school).

Also, since you're in translation work, I guess I should say that "Master's" is also often written as "Masters." I don't know if there's a definitive answer to which spelling is correct.

Sorry if I went way overboard with the explanation. You might have known all of that, but I figured that if you didn't, explaining the difference between "thesis" and "dissertation" wouldn't make sense without a quick overview of how higher education works in the US.
 
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At least one person in here likes Colton Haynes. That someone (and others) should be happy with this tumblr news:

A fan said:

when I found out colton haynes had a secret gay past i got so excited even though i know it makes absolutely no difference in my life

Colton Haynes quoted that and responded:

Was it a secret? Let’s all just enjoy life & have no regrets :) [emojis]

[source]

Our family continues to grow. Happy 2016 everybody.
 

Monocle

Member
At least one person in here likes Colton Haynes. That someone (and others) should be happy with this tumblr news:

A fan said:



Colton Haynes quoted that and responded:



[source]

Our family continues to grow. Happy 2016 everybody.
Colton Haynes has a permanent place on my highly exclusive top hunks list, so this means a lot to me.

Still waiting for him to come back to Teen Wolf and show the class all the lovely ways two men can't make babies. And also do some werewolf stuff or whatever.

Or he could come to my house for a private lesson. I'd even waive my tutoring fee!
 
Happy New Year guys! Wasn't sure if anyone would be interested, but I put together my best of 2015 music list. Thought maybe some people might find some new music through it. It really was a great year for some stand out albums and pop influence.

01. Miley Cyrus - Miley Cyrus and Her Dead Petz
https://youtu.be/dN2d5zhgknk
02. Grimes - Art Angels
https://youtu.be/Xi-V06al_h4
03. Carly Rae Jepsen - E•MO•TION
https://youtu.be/TeccAtqd5K8
04. HEALTH - Death Magic
https://youtu.be/G1qvEr9bC6c
05. Sufjan Stevens - Carrie & Lowell
https://youtu.be/lJJT00wqlOo
06. Jamie xx - In Colour
https://youtu.be/S-C-pOR6QP4
07. Madonna - Rebel Heart
https://youtu.be/0bsUz5Ejgqg
08. Peaches - Rub
https://youtu.be/4MYtFKp0chk
09. Bjork - Vulnicura
https://youtu.be/MWHpoJT3qK4
10. Neon Indian - VEGA INTL. Night School
https://youtu.be/c0WtwtOCC1g
11. Susanne Sundfør - Ten Love Songs
https://youtu.be/Bd4jT4zcdHg
12. Empress Of - Me
https://youtu.be/iwo_HeW4G-Q
13. Shamir - Ratchet
https://youtu.be/10Kc7RK2rOs
14. Justin Bieber - Purpose
https://youtu.be/PfGaX8G0f2E
15. Twenty one pilots - Blurryface
https://youtu.be/nky4me4NP70
16. Beach House - Depression Cherry
https://youtu.be/GfITojs_mNg
17. Alison Wonderland - Run
https://youtu.be/Qc-aNL6egpY
18. Son Lux - Bones
https://youtu.be/GL35e5mwD5I
19. Hot Chip - Why Make Sense?
https://youtu.be/lfH5LmhvQQk
20. Kelela - Hallucinogen
https://youtu.be/py6PgXq0yDM
 

Vitanimus

Member
Happy New Year guys! Wasn't sure if anyone would be interested, but I put together my best of 2015 music list. Thought maybe some people might find some new music through it. It really was a great year for some stand out albums and pop influence.

01. Miley Cyrus - Miley Cyrus and Her Dead Petz
https://youtu.be/dN2d5zhgknk
02. Grimes - Art Angels
https://youtu.be/Xi-V06al_h4
03. Carly Rae Jepsen - E•MO•TION
https://youtu.be/TeccAtqd5K8
04. HEALTH - Death Magic
https://youtu.be/G1qvEr9bC6c
05. Sufjan Stevens - Carrie & Lowell
https://youtu.be/lJJT00wqlOo
06. Jamie xx - In Colour
https://youtu.be/S-C-pOR6QP4
07. Madonna - Rebel Heart
https://youtu.be/0bsUz5Ejgqg
08. Peaches - Rub
https://youtu.be/4MYtFKp0chk
08. Bjork - Vulnicura
https://youtu.be/MWHpoJT3qK4
10. Neon Indian - VEGA INTL. Night School
https://youtu.be/c0WtwtOCC1g
11. Susanne Sundfør - Ten Love Songs
https://youtu.be/Bd4jT4zcdHg
12. Empress Of - Me
https://youtu.be/iwo_HeW4G-Q
13. Shamir - Ratchet
https://youtu.be/10Kc7RK2rOs
14. Justin Bieber - Purpose
https://youtu.be/PfGaX8G0f2E
15. Twenty one pilots - Blurryface
https://youtu.be/nky4me4NP70
16. Beach House - Depression Cherry
https://youtu.be/GfITojs_mNg
17. Alison Wonderland - Run
https://youtu.be/Qc-aNL6egpY
18. Son Lux - Bones
https://youtu.be/GL35e5mwD5I
19. Hot Chip - Why Make Sense?
https://youtu.be/lfH5LmhvQQk
20. Kelela - Hallucinogen
https://youtu.be/py6PgXq0yDM

the flawless taste

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Monocle

Member
you liked every open eye?

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It was exactly what I was hoping it would be.

People who say they should have changed their sound need to take a damn seat. They have their whole careers to experiment. I wanted more of the same, because "the same" is flawless.

The Bones of What You Believe is a timeless album. Or at least it stands up to my dozens and dozens of replays. Every Open Eye proves CHVRCHES know their strengths and won't allow trends or expectations to dick up their art. I say good for them.
 
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Yay! BB-8 is the king.

This is the truth. The biggest disappointment of the film is that I don't have my own personal BB-8 to be friends with.
And I mean a real BB-8, so nobody suggest that toy one.

I took a Star Wars Episode VII personality quiz yesterday and got BB-8 as the result. I screencaptured that and saved it as A Winner is Me. I took it as a sign that 2016 is going to be my year.
 

RatskyWatsky

Hunky Nostradamus
This is the truth. The biggest disappointment of the film is that I don't have my own personal BB-8 to be friends with.
And I mean a real BB-8, so nobody suggest that toy one.

I think you can buy one but they're really expensive...

I took a Star Wars Episode VII personality quiz yesterday and got BB-8 as the result. I screencaptured that and saved it as A Winner is Me. I took it as a sign that 2016 is going to be my year.

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Happy New Year GAF!!!

These were the first holidays after my mom passed earlier last year, I didn't travel or anything, just stayed in Mexico and "celebrated" with friends. Holidays have always been pretty boring to me anyway, though I missed spending Christmas morning with my mom, taking her out to the movies or anything. In 2013 I took her to see Frozen, so many feels when I watch the movie now! In 2014 I went to visit her and we just stayed at her place.

Anyway, I'm definitely not ready to go back to work though I have to on Monday, last year was crazy packed with work and this year will probably be even more so, so I'm a little scared for my physical and mental health (
not
kidding). Looking forward to seeing Madonna this week! First time I will see her, I'm not her biggest fan but I've been following her since the Music days.

Also the guy I have a crush on is coming back on Monday. I talked about him on my last few posts, I couldn't resist and actually told him that I liked him and wanted to hang out with him, get to know him better. His reaction wasn't bad at all but he was mostly like: let's just hang out and see how it goes (which is what I want, but my head is my own worst enemy so often I just need to say it out loud otherwise it drives me insane thinking about the possibilities). According to my stalking abilities I've come to the conclusion that he was brokenhearted recently. We have a date next Saturday!!! (though he didn't 100% confirm yet). I've sort of started giving him space since that talk, I hope he misses me, though I'm doing fine anyway.

So hopefully this will be a great week! Wish me luck :)
 

Jacqli

Member
Congrats on the internship! And good luck with the dating site! It'll be scary at first, but I think things will get better. :) Keep us posted!

Regarding your question: it's a bit hard to comment on "dissertation" because, from an American English perspective, I know that the American education system is quite different from others in other countries. In the US, "dissertation" is the term used to describe the final work of a Ph.D. program (also known as a doctoral program or described by saying "getting a/my doctorate"); these programs typically last 3-7 years and are the highest level of education. For an undergraduate (4 years) or Master's degree program (1-2 years), the final project is typically called a "thesis."

In the US, higher education typically goes undergraduate => Master's (this step may be skipped) => Ph.D., with most people stopping after the undergraduate or Master's (if they didn't already stop after high school).

Also, since you're in translation work, I guess I should say that "Master's" is also often written as "Masters." I don't know if there's a definitive answer to which spelling is correct.

Sorry if I went way overboard with the explanation. You might have known all of that, but I figured that if you didn't, explaining the difference between "thesis" and "dissertation" wouldn't make sense without a quick overview of how higher education works in the US.
Thank you for the kind words and for the explanation! It was a great insight, although I learnt a bit of how US and UK educational systems work, I have this doubt stuck in my head for a long time and, every time I checked a dictionary, it only gave me a headache.

I might conclude, after reading it, that thesis is one of those "false friends" given that the direct translation, "tesis", refers to those post-graduate studies or investigations in Spain rather than just a final project of a degree. Really interesting.

By the way, do you, Amerrrrricans :p, have an official dictionary? Similar to our RAE: http://www.rae.es/ where you can find not only word meanings, but also grammatical rules, uses and such.

So this probably isn't the right place to post this and I'm gonna spoiler it because it might bother someone in some way, but I don't know what else to do and I need to get it off of my chest.

I had a sexual encounter with someone a little over a month ago, while we were both very drunk (about equally so), that I would not otherwise have consented to had I been sober. I didn't black out, I was cognizant, and I did consent - I don't believe I was taken advantage of, exactly - and yet it was an unpleasant experience during and after and thinking about it makes me sick to my stomach, like I wanna throw up. I've been able to hide it to greater or lesser degrees since then but it's made me kind of... emotionally unstable lately. If I weren't as robotic about it I'd probably be crying right now. I know I'm probably taking this harder than I should, which only makes me feel worse about it. It's certainly not a position I'd ever imagined myself being in, given that I'm normally very choosy about who I have sex with.

I should probably get professional counseling for this, I realize, but that has more implications for someone in my line of work than I'm super comfortable with. Anyway, I didn't know what else to do, and semi-anonymous internet confession seemed like as good an idea as any. Sigh.
I would recommend to follow your own advice and seek professional help. I perfectly understand how you feel about it, I do not feel comfortable about opening to "a stranger" and narrating my personal issues (and, as you said, it is not the same under a nickname) but, some times, we are too deep in our own thought to see the situation as it is. And just forget about any stigma or whatever (just in case, because in my country we still have it), you and your mental state are more important than any of that.

In any case, do not use this as a weapon to feel worse or attack yourself. We make mistakes and, even in your state, you still remained sober enough (I want to remark this, really, because I heard of many stories). From what I gathered before, in my first post, you are a great and well-balanced person. Don't be hard on you because of this. :)
 
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Thank you for the kind words and for the explanation! It was a great insight, although I learnt a bit of how US and UK educational systems work, I have this doubt stuck in my head for a long time and, every time I checked a dictionary, it only gave me a headache.

I might conclude, after reading it, that thesis is one of those "false friends" given that the direct translation, "tesis", refers to those post-graduate studies or investigations in Spain rather than just a final project of a degree. Really interesting.

By the way, do you, Amerrrrricans :p, have an official dictionary? Similar to our RAE: http://www.rae.es/ where you can find not only word meanings, but also grammatical rules, uses and such.

As far as I know, an official dictionary and/or guide for American English does not exist. As a result, there are lots of grammar blogs and sources online that discuss American English grammar and word usage to help people with the confusing parts and provide suggestions.

For unofficial sources, the most prestigious dictionaries I can think of are the Oxford American English Dictionary and Merriam-Webster English Dictionary.

Regarding grammar, I think the closest things I can think of are style guides; for example, The Chicago Manual of Style (general English and citations), the AP Stylebook (an English guide for journalism), and the MLA Style Manual (a formatting guide for research work). These are guides that essentially give you rules for how to format your writing and in some cases explain how certain rules of grammar should be followed. Although many of these guides are highly respected and considered authorities in various fields, none of them are nationally sponsored, and as a result, there is no "correct" guide or national authority. This is especially true when it comes to how to format papers, as different styles have been adopted by different disciplines and conflict with each other (for example, MLA, Chicago, and APA citation styles are all different). As a result, I don't think there's any definitive source for American English grammar and language rules like there is for Spanish (or French, from what I know).
 
So, this is kind of a weird thought but today I realized that it's now been 9 years since my family moved to the US. Holy shit... I was 9 when we moved :") time flies by lol. I still like it here more after all this time since I basically grew up and made my actual friends here in the US.
 

Grakl

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So, this is kind of a weird thought but today I realized that it's now been 9 years since my family moved to the US. Holy shit... I was 9 when we moved :") time flies by lol. I still like it here more after all this time since I basically grew up and made my actual friends here in the US.
Noice, the US is pretty awesome
 
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