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[Escape Goat]

If someone you dated for less than a month asked you out to a fancy steakhouse on Valentines Day create pressure? Pressure to treat the relationship more seriously or advance it faster than it was? Im often too stuck inside my own head to see things how they really are, but I feel like Valentines is for the lovey dovey couples and we are not that. I plan to go and treat it as any other dinner. No oversized stuffed animal or boxes of chocolate.

 

[Deleted member 465307]

If someone you dated for less than a month asked you out to a fancy steakhouse on Valentines Day create pressure? Pressure to treat the relationship more seriously or advance it faster than it was? Im often too stuck inside my own head to see things how they really are, but I feel like Valentines is for the lovey dovey couples and we are not that. I plan to go and treat it as any other dinner. No oversized stuffed animal or boxes of chocolate.

I'd say yes, but I think it depends on people's perspective. If it were that early for me, I'd think, "Why are they making such a big deal about it? I'm scared." But I also think some people view the holiday as an event that "if you're with someone and going to celebrate it, you have to do something special." Like, it's an all or nothing kind of event. But I'm definitely not that kind of person and would feel weird about it.

 

[umop_3pisdn]

If someone you dated for less than a month asked you out to a fancy steakhouse on Valentines Day create pressure? Pressure to treat the relationship more seriously or advance it faster than it was? Im often too stuck inside my own head to see things how they really are, but I feel like Valentines is for the lovey dovey couples and we are not that. I plan to go and treat it as any other dinner. No oversized stuffed animal or boxes of chocolate.

Treat it as a normal dinner, maybe make a light-hearted joke about it being Valentine's day to set the tone (a more friendly, less 'overt romanticism' tone I mean).

 

[Dead Prince]

So a member of a boyband I follow ,who arent really that relevant but still,Union J recently came out. His name is George Shelley and he decided not to put any labels on his sexuality. I kinda feel sad for him tho cause this sudden video came right on the heels of his nudes being leaked by some guy catfishing him on skype.

https://youtu.be/uAft5E4YUOc

It was me.

 

[Delio]

It was me.

Stop catfishing people! You get enough pics!

 

[Dead Prince]

Stop catfishing people! You get enough pics!

I cant..its an addiction. ;(

 

[RM8]

the latter. but i still rub you <3

I'm bad even at dreaming &#128556;

 

[Delio]

I cant..its an addiction. ;(

A addiction that will get you in trouble with your gym men.

 

[Dead Prince]

A addiction that will get you in trouble with your gym men.

Thank god my current one is Brazilian with limited English.
I can show him things. (Y)

I'm bad even at dreaming &#128556;

You're just a realist.

 

[_Isaac]

He doesn't do anything for me. I wouldn't mind seeing more from the guy on the left, though.

Also, ¡hola!

Agreed on the left guy. Also, hola que tal?

 

[3phemeral]

I'd say yes, but I think it depends on people's perspective. If it were that early for me, I'd think, "Why are they making such a big deal about it? I'm scared." But I also think some people view the holiday as an event that "if you're with someone and going to celebrate it, you have to do something special." Like, it's an all or nothing kind of event. But I'm definitely not that kind of person and would feel weird about it.

I think of it like the latter half. I'd feel honored they'd want to spend Valentines with me and I'd treat is as a normal date, maybe a little more formal, but I wouldn't let it get to me unless during the dinner itself it became more uncomfortably intimate. I've been in a few situations where the date became weirdly obsessed or attached after a single date but they reveal themselves rather quickly, in my experience.

 

[Salbug]

Just needed a place to vent, but over the last few days I've been having weird identity issues lately that have me somewhat placed in The Q (Questioning) camp of LGBTQIA+. To an extent I've been questioning both my gender, and to an even smaller extent my sexuality. Though I do identify myself as a genderfluid (he/she/they, they/them used most often though) pansexual, I've been slightly confused about myself for a while now. Honestly, I've been confused for years, but only now do I feel like I can come out. It's nice to know things have been getting more progressive, and I have a place to talk about these things, and explore things now.

 

[umop_3pisdn]

I think of it like the latter half. I'd feel honored they'd want to spend Valentines with me and I'd treat is as a normal date, maybe a little more formal, but I wouldn't let it get to me unless during the dinner itself it became more uncomfortably intimate. I've been in a few situations where the date became weirdly obsessed or attached after a single date but they reveal themselves rather quickly, in my experience.

Yeah, if there's that much pressure it's going to leak out, or at least be hard to contain.

 

[Aarglefarg]

Yes I've wanted to move there for the last I'd say 6 years. I'm excited but it's a scary step. Basically starting over against half way across the world.

I understand. I think these worries seem to go away once it's actually happening.

Just needed a place to vent, but over the last few days I've been having weird identity issues lately that have me somewhat placed in The Q (Questioning) camp of LGBTQIA+. To an extent I've been questioning both my gender, and to an even smaller extent my sexuality. Though I do identify myself as a genderfluid (he/she/they, they/them used most often though) pansexual, I've been slightly confused about myself for a while now. Honestly, I've been confused for years, but only now do I feel like I can come out. It's nice to know things have been getting more progressive, and I have a place to talk about these things, and explore things now.

Welcome.

 

[Sibylus]

One of my friends is moving to Vancouver today (we're from Ireland) and I'm heading over later this year and it's hitting me now that I'm going across the world now that he's gone. Terrified.

I've never lived there, but I've visited and lived my whole life about 5-6 hours by car out. BC's beautiful, and you won't be hurting for diversity and LGBT support in Vancouver. It's quite a bit more liberal than the province's interior. You'll be fine

 

[Mostmanlyman]

Just needed a place to vent, but over the last few days I've been having weird identity issues lately that have me somewhat placed in The Q (Questioning) camp of LGBTQIA+. To an extent I've been questioning both my gender, and to an even smaller extent my sexuality. Though I do identify myself as a genderfluid (he/she/they, they/them used most often though) pansexual, I've been slightly confused about myself for a while now. Honestly, I've been confused for years, but only now do I feel like I can come out. It's nice to know things have been getting more progressive, and I have a place to talk about these things, and explore things now.

Welcome, yeah feel free to talk about it here.
You can also do the little question thing if you want to.

Your gender?
Your sexual orientation?
Where Do You Live?
How Old Are you?
Favorite Type of Music?
Profession or Career interest?
Favorite video game(s)?
What are your hobbies (other than gaming)?

 

[Salbug]

Welcome, yeah feel free to talk about it here.
You can also do the little question thing if you want to.

Oh! I actually did this already a couple of months back, but I need to update it for accuracy, and I haven't been too active here since then. Thanks for the warm welcome regardless!

**Your gender? Genderfluid, He/She/They (They/Them used most often though.)

**Your sexual orientation? Pansexual

Where Are You From? USA

Where Do You Live? Louisiana, USA

How Old Are you? 21

Favorite Type of Music? Primarily metal, but I've been branching out into all sorts of genres over the past years, and finding more things that I like. Well except country. >.>

Profession or Career interest? I was a roofing laborer, and now I've moved on to the sheet metal making, and installing which is a lot better then what I was doing before. As for a career interest I'm not even sure to be honest.

Favorite video game(s)? Super Mario RPG, Majora's Mask, Undertale, The Binding of Isaac: Rebirth, etc, etc... The list goes on.

What are your hobbies (other than gaming)? Not much besides listening to music, and browsing the webs. I've... never been a much sociable person to be honest, and I've only been able to keep in touch with a few people from school since almost everyone seems to have gone their separate ways, but really that's about it.

** Updated for accuracy.

 

[RatskyWatsky]

i kept it clean by asking if they would pull my head back, spit on my face and slap me. LOL

are you actually into that

 

[Pamplemousse]

Who isn't into that. *Drools*

 

[Vazra]

are you actually into that

Would it surprise you if he isnt?

 

[Deleted member 465307]

Just needed a place to vent, but over the last few days I've been having weird identity issues lately that have me somewhat placed in The Q (Questioning) camp of LGBTQIA+. To an extent I've been questioning both my gender, and to an even smaller extent my sexuality. Though I do identify myself as a genderfluid (he/she/they, they/them used most often though) pansexual, I've been slightly confused about myself for a while now. Honestly, I've been confused for years, but only now do I feel like I can come out. It's nice to know things have been getting more progressive, and I have a place to talk about these things, and explore things now.

Feel free to use this space for those kinds of questions and exploration.

 

[Dead Prince]

are you actually into that

Spoiler

only if they don't object to the idea. And is cute.

 

[Salbug]

Feel free to use this space for those kinds of questions and exploration.

Thanks! I'll try my best to cool down on my shyness, and ask sometime.

 

[Henchmen21]

Who isn't into that. *Drools*

Me. No offense to those that are, but I just don't see the appeal. Grosses me out when they do that kind of stuff in porn.

 

[Pamplemousse]

Spoiler

only if they don't object to the idea. And is cute.

That's interesting. I took you for a dom guy considering you're a gym bro.

 

[Dead Prince]

That's interesting. I took you for a dom guy considering you're a gym bro.

I'm fem.

 

[Kevyt]

That's interesting. I took you for a dom guy considering you're a gym bro.

Dead prince a gym bro? lol

Well, I guess he is.

I'm fem.

You must certainly are.

 

[Soulscribe]

If someone slapped me in bed (or near one) I'd probably get really turned off tbh. Biting I can do as long as it doesn't feel like you're trying to get to something underneath. Some people take that way too far and it's not cute...

 

[Pamplemousse]

Slapping doesn't really do it for me, but it's a step in the right direction.

Spoiler

I'm a masochist, so outright punching and choking are my thang.

 

[CornBurrito]

Slapping doesn't really do it for me, but it's a step in the right direction.

Spoiler

I'm a masochist, so outright punching and choking are my thang.

Fuck...

I don't quite want to be punched or chocked, but I'm more of a sub than a dom too. Man, we're like two magnets of the same charge.


On an unrelated note, I mayyyyyyy get to try mushrooms in the future. Any tips/advice? umop?

 

[Dead Prince]

Slapping doesn't really do it for me, but it's a step in the right direction.

Spoiler

I'm a masochist, so outright punching and choking are my thang.

We should hang out
Edit: lol nvm. Cornburrito got this one

 

[DOWN]

Not into pain or spitting tbh

 

[Grazzt]

Slapping on my face - hell no
Slapping on my butt ( not too hard) - well ok

 

[CornBurrito]

I enjoy being pinned down. I could never join a wrestling team.

 

[Delio]

Butt slapping = yes please.

 

[Dead Prince]

My other comment on grindr is to claw my back until I'm bleeding.

Spoiler

i only said it to get these people away from me rather than put them on block since they can create a new account lol

 

[Vazra]

Grabbing butt hard while making out? Yes
Butt slapping? Yes
Spooning? Yes
Grinding? Yes
Butts? Yes

 

[Salbug]

Grabbing butt hard while making out? Yes
Butt slapping? Yes
Spooning? Yes
Grinding? Yes
Butts? Yes

All of this actually.

 

[umop_3pisdn]

Grabbing butt hard while making out? Yes
Butt slapping? Yes
Spooning? Yes
Grinding? Yes
Butts? Yes

Yeah that's all on the menu. A bit of arm pinning/playfighting too.

 

[Haly]

Biting is good.

 

[umop_3pisdn]

Biting is good.

Tru

 

[Sai-kun]

Aaahhhhh another successful day at the gym. I haven't had too much physical change in the month I've been going, but I am literally stronger than I was when I started. Feels good, man!

Yeah that's all on the menu. A bit of arm pinning/playfighting too.

Pinning someone's arms behind their back or having it done to me is just....whew. I'm about it

I've definitely acquired an interest in spanking/leaving marks in the past few months. There's something very satisfying about seeing your hand print on someone's skin.

Biting is good.

Truuuuuuuu

 

[Vazra]

Yeah that's all on the menu. A bit of arm pinning/playfighting too.

I like being the dominant one so I'll be the one pinning whoever ends up being my partner but at the moment Im saving myself to Jesus. As for biting I think soft bites are fine and depending where and how. Now dont mess with my ears in any way, shape or form or my chest. (Belly is fair game)

Thoughts on making out after finishing the deed? I find it kinda hot

Spoiler

and more if there is a bit of cum swapping but never done it cause my luck sucks

 

[Rayis]

I'm a total top because I found out I don't enjoy being overpowered at all, but I enjoy doing the overpowering.

 

[RM8]

Uh...

I'm the vanillaest among the vanilla.

 

[Veeboy]

Buy Digimon Cyber Sleuth tomorrow, support ending Pokemon's career

Slapping on my face - hell no
Slapping on my butt ( not too hard) - well ok

Grabbing butt hard while making out? Yes
Butt slapping? Yes
Spooning? Yes
Grinding? Yes
Butts? Yes

Yeah that's all on the menu. A bit of arm pinning/playfighting too.

Yes. Just Yes to all of the above.

I like being the dominant one so I'll be the one pinning whoever ends up being my partner but at the moment Im saving myself to Jesus.

Going down to the courthouse to change my name to Jesus, BRB.

 

[Vazra]

I'm a total top because I found out I don't enjoy being overpowered at all, but I enjoy doing the overpowering.

Power Bottoms exist tho.

Going down to the courthouse to change my name to Jesus, BRB.

Are you this Jesus?

 

[Dead Prince]

Uh...

I'm the vanillaest among the vanilla.

Spoiler

let's experiment until we find something you like. I'll let you pick first

 

[Rayis]

Power Bottoms exist tho.

You know, you're right, I might be part that, I use versatile to describe myself usually with others

 

[Soulscribe]

I'm a total top because I found out I don't enjoy being overpowered at all, but I enjoy doing the overpowering.

Same, though being aggressively dominant isn't in my playbook atm.