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LGBTQIA+ | OT7 | ~First comes love, then comes marriage~
- Thread starter Kater
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Hey, I just met you, and this is crazy, but here's my number, so call me maybe
marry me
Probably not a good idea to announce that they exist anyway. Unless you just mean it's likely to exist rather than having actually seen them reposted elsewhere.
Another one to add to the queue.
You Know Nothing
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Goddammit, want to play XCOM 2 so bad. But I only have a surface pro 3 and it definitely can't run the game
I still have to play the first one. I really suck at finishing games. Damn Steam sales.
Hey, I just met you, and this is crazy, but here's my number, so call me maybe
Carly's impact.
I know. I've yet to finish Skyrim. I only accidentally finished Fallout 3.
Steam gamer these days, bb.Bethesda games?
Oh, and I've only done Civ games recently too. I need to finish Dark Souls. My backlog is so tediously huge.
Mostmanlyman
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Well i just went to my first college party at the age of 16, i guess i can check that off the list of things to do.
My ID is in my profile. I don't have access to my computer right now.
You Know Nothing
Member
Child, I'm glad you survived.
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Deleted member 465307
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You better shower and wash off that nasty filth. The stickiness of frat house floors still haunts me.
Mostmanlyman
Member
Lol
Lol yeah basically it was one of my brother friends birthday, so i tagged alot with him. It was what i expected a bunch of people drinking some people smoking pot. I got ofter both didnt take either same as my brother. We didnt stay that long, it was fun though.
Nah it wasnt a frat house, just a little apartment i would hate one of those parties.
Pamplemousse
Member
You're only 16?! Whaaat. Crazy. Parties aren't my thing, but I hope you had fun. Any news on chemistry boy?
Blood Diamonds
Banned
omg i remember when i was 16 :') throwback
That was 2 years ago thot so it hasnt been that long.
You Know Nothing
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Mostmanlyman
Member
Yeah i was the youngest one there for sure, same thing with gaf. Yeah it was cool because i guess my brother had talked about me and they probably seen videos of me from his snap chat and stuff, so i got to meet some new people. Then im going to see a concert tomorrow with some of the same people so it will be fun, its also my first concert so im excited.
Nope i havent talk to him because i dont get really any time to and i dont know to go about it also because we sit on different sides of the room.
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"HOW ARE YOU TODAY CHEMISTRY BOY? DO YOU LIKE THIS CLASS? DON'T MIND ME TEACHER I'M JUST TALKING WITH CHEMISTRY BOY. TELL ME YOUR DREAMS."
Blood Diamonds
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Pamplemousse
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Mostmanlyman
Member
Lol i wish i was that out going but when i usually first meet people im shy and quite. But once i get to know them im more out going. Like some people say im funny i just dont know if some people would like my jokes and understand them because they are usually weird and not always the most clean and pc. Alot of the time closer friends are always surprised about how loud and how much i can talk when they get to know me. I have been trying to be more outgoing but it tough
Lol. Like 90% of school i just dont talk and just kinda keep my head down and work. He is kinda the opposite of me he has a bunch of friends and it alot more outgoing. Im more of the person who just listens to music and work on school work.Get his number and text him. Or pass notes...
You Know Nothing
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Get his number and text him. Or pass notes...
I wonder if high schoolers still exchange notes. Or do they just text on their iPads.
I feel old.
Blood Diamonds
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Mostmanlyman
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No one passes notes.
Yep this. I really should get a snapchat, i dont like taking pictures of my self so it probably would just be pictures of other things.
I have never liked social media, i dont have any of them.
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Deleted member 465307
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Don't sweat it too much. I consider myself pretty social and outgoing (with a dose of social anxiety) and I find it hard to meet people unless the circumstances call for it (being lab partners, for example). Technically, you can create your circumstances. If you see him outside of class, you could ask him about something related to it and start an ongoing relationship from there.
But don't let my joking suggestions be any kind of pressure or expectation. If you actually think you might be interested and want help, though, then I'm sure some of us would be more than happy to help you figure out approaches that take into account any shyness or anxiety you have.
You Know Nothing
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This is genuinely fascinating. I grew up right on the cusp of the technological revolution. So we had laptops in school but not much else at our disposal (limited to certain times and without the ability to communicate with each other) and physical notes were still a thing. Also flip phones but no one ever used them in class.
Mostmanlyman
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Oh yeah no i get your joking.Don't sweat it too much. I consider myself pretty social and outgoing (with a dose of social anxiety) and I find it hard to meet people unless the circumstances call for it (being lab partners, for example). Technically, you can create your circumstances. If you see him outside of class, you could ask him about something related to it and start an ongoing relationship from there.
But don't let my joking suggestions be any kind of pressure or expectation. If you actually think you might be interested and want help, though, then I'm sure some of us would be more than happy to help you figure out approaches that take into account any shyness or anxiety you have.
Yeah like i dont really have social anxiety i would say, more that i just dont really care to talk to that many people and usually rather not speak unless i have something to say. During school im usually tired and just kinda wanting to take things my speed. During atleast like 3 of my classes i dont have to talk to anyone some days which is nice. I have been a quite person for as long as i can remember and i like it. Also me being weird is a double edged sword because when you meet someone with the same likes as you it is great, but then meeting normal people makes it hard. Like most of my jokes in my friend group are long running jokes or references to dumb shit and it makes it fun to try to get people into our group of friends. Like i can make jokes and be funny outside of those but it is just a bit harder and i dont know what there sense of humor is like.
Also valentines day is coming up and and already a few people i know started dating, and i dont know if this girl that im friends with is into me. She might be but i dont know. Im pretty bad at all this dating stuff because i havent dated anyone before. Lol
Oh yeah growing up with smartphones and internet and everything is really weird and different. It is funny seeing how different it is from other people. If i wasnt growing up with the internet i would be way different, 90 percent of my hobbies and stuff are related to that stuff.
I got to get to sleep talk more tomorrow.
Aeriscloud
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You Know Nothing
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Blood Diamonds
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Um.. these results... Rip
You Know Nothing
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Drag ha
Blood Diamonds
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actuallY that's one of the lowest in my list huntyDaddy/Mommy probably near 100% for you. Mess.
degradee is #2 and submissive is #3 yikes
You Know Nothing
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actuallY that's one of the lowest in my list hunty
degradee is #2 and submissive is #3 yikes
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Blood Diamonds
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it's all hypothetical anyway i haven't even had sex
Aeriscloud
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Welp... This makes me want to bring up another topic, which I will do so tomorrow. Goodnight everybody.
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84% Primal (Hunter)
83% Switch
83% Primal (Prey)
82% Pet
76% Owner
73% Experimentalist
73% Master/Mistress
72% Submissive
71% Voyeur
68% Dominant
67% Vanilla
66% Masochist
66% Slave
65% Exhibitionist
62% Non-monogamist
58% Rigger
55% Brat
54% Sadist
52% Rope Bunny
52% Brat Tamer
50% Degrader
48% Degradee
47% Daddy/Mommy
34% Girl/Boy
32% Ageplayer
See my results online at http://bdsmtest.org/result.php?id=1423789
84% Primal (Hunter)
83% Switch
83% Primal (Prey)
82% Pet
76% Owner
73% Experimentalist
73% Master/Mistress
72% Submissive
71% Voyeur
68% Dominant
67% Vanilla
66% Masochist
66% Slave
65% Exhibitionist
62% Non-monogamist
58% Rigger
55% Brat
54% Sadist
52% Rope Bunny
52% Brat Tamer
50% Degrader
48% Degradee
47% Daddy/Mommy
34% Girl/Boy
32% Ageplayer
See my results online at http://bdsmtest.org/result.php?id=1423789
VICTORsaurio
Member
I think I'm quitting my job. I got into an argument with the owner of the company over the phone earlier today where he basically told me that he doesn't give a shit about what's best for me, only what's best for his company. So I told him that there was no point in talking anymore since nothing would come out of it and hung up on him.
I know probably most companies are like this, but I've been busting my ass for about two years now without expecting much back and they proven time after time that they don't really care about our mental and physical well being. The argument was because he's refusing to renew my work visa, instead he wanted to do the whole paperwork over as if it was the first time, because the new layers he hired are shit and let my visa expire, while having all the documents to do the renewal.
So he decided it was the better thing to do for the company, because he wants me on a plane tomorrow. Which means I will/would lose the year I've been working in this company towards the total required for changing my migratory status from temporary to permanent. The truth is actually I can do the same work from abroad than if I stayed here while they fix my migratory status.
It's scary as hell being unemployed abroad and without legal papers. I'm gonna talk to my lawyer (who did my papers the first time and they called just today to try and fix the mess they made by not renewing my papers and a couple of friend's too) and see what he advises. I think I can change my status to independent worker somehow. The other option I'm considering is going to visit my father in Colombia and then coming back here as a tourist again and start looking for a job.
I know all jobs have their downsides but I'm just expecting a little reciprocity instead of just a pat in the back. I really don't wanna go back there, they're just awful people and have an history of workers leaving the company in bad terms and the same applies to some of their clients. It's just a very toxic place to work at. I never saw myself staying there after the 4 years I needed to get my permanent visa.
Maybe I'm making a big mistake but I just feel like there's gotta be something better than this. Thank God I have savings which would last me for a few months including rent/food and also my roommates are coworkers from Venezuela as well and they're really nice people. I talked to my dad earlier and he supports me as well in my decision and obviously offers me to stay with him as long as I want/need in Colombia.
It was really scary to move from Venezuela to Mexico but taking this leap of faith is way scarier. I really hope things turn out well. Wish me luck!
PS. Thanks for reading, you're awesome if you read the whole thing!
I know probably most companies are like this, but I've been busting my ass for about two years now without expecting much back and they proven time after time that they don't really care about our mental and physical well being. The argument was because he's refusing to renew my work visa, instead he wanted to do the whole paperwork over as if it was the first time, because the new layers he hired are shit and let my visa expire, while having all the documents to do the renewal.
So he decided it was the better thing to do for the company, because he wants me on a plane tomorrow. Which means I will/would lose the year I've been working in this company towards the total required for changing my migratory status from temporary to permanent. The truth is actually I can do the same work from abroad than if I stayed here while they fix my migratory status.
It's scary as hell being unemployed abroad and without legal papers. I'm gonna talk to my lawyer (who did my papers the first time and they called just today to try and fix the mess they made by not renewing my papers and a couple of friend's too) and see what he advises. I think I can change my status to independent worker somehow. The other option I'm considering is going to visit my father in Colombia and then coming back here as a tourist again and start looking for a job.
I know all jobs have their downsides but I'm just expecting a little reciprocity instead of just a pat in the back. I really don't wanna go back there, they're just awful people and have an history of workers leaving the company in bad terms and the same applies to some of their clients. It's just a very toxic place to work at. I never saw myself staying there after the 4 years I needed to get my permanent visa.
Maybe I'm making a big mistake but I just feel like there's gotta be something better than this. Thank God I have savings which would last me for a few months including rent/food and also my roommates are coworkers from Venezuela as well and they're really nice people. I talked to my dad earlier and he supports me as well in my decision and obviously offers me to stay with him as long as I want/need in Colombia.
It was really scary to move from Venezuela to Mexico but taking this leap of faith is way scarier. I really hope things turn out well. Wish me luck!
PS. Thanks for reading, you're awesome if you read the whole thing!
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I don't think I have anything I can say because I have absolutely no personal experience with work visas and moving between countries, but I wish you luck! Keep us posted.
BlueBadger
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It sure is!!
<3 so beautiful. I'd say it's probably more like a scale! The pitch probably changes based on how much cartilage they remove and whether or not they actually augment the thickness of the vocal folds.
== Results from http://bdsmtest.org/ ==
87% Vanilla
69% Switch
68% Submissive
67% Rigger
65% Rope Bunny
57% Voyeur
51% Dominant
49% Experimentalist
31% Brat
29% Primal (Prey)
28% Brat Tamer
26% Primal (Hunter)
25% Master/Mistress
24% Degradee
22% Girl/Boy
20% Daddy/Mommy
18% Degrader
17% Sadist
17% Non-monogamist
16% Masochist
13% Slave
10% Ageplayer
7% Exhibitionist
5% Pet
4% Owner
See my results online at http://bdsmtest.org/result.php?id=1423831
I dont know I'm into submissive so much...
87% Vanilla
69% Switch
68% Submissive
67% Rigger
65% Rope Bunny
57% Voyeur
51% Dominant
49% Experimentalist
31% Brat
29% Primal (Prey)
28% Brat Tamer
26% Primal (Hunter)
25% Master/Mistress
24% Degradee
22% Girl/Boy
20% Daddy/Mommy
18% Degrader
17% Sadist
17% Non-monogamist
16% Masochist
13% Slave
10% Ageplayer
7% Exhibitionist
5% Pet
4% Owner
See my results online at http://bdsmtest.org/result.php?id=1423831
I dont know I'm into submissive so much...
BlueBadger
Banned
I did the quiz too
Monocle
Member
I did that BDSM test once last year... I think it indicated that I'm a vers sorta-nonmonogamist with dominant tendencies and that I'm super into brat play and light-ish bondage, which is totally me. Actually, more of an even split between dom/sub is good.
Absolute no-nos: total submission or domination, ageplay, serious sadism or degradation. I could never be part of one of those extreme 24/7 master/servant scenarios where one person gives up all control.
Absolute no-nos: total submission or domination, ageplay, serious sadism or degradation. I could never be part of one of those extreme 24/7 master/servant scenarios where one person gives up all control.
Decided to do the test.
== Results from http://bdsmtest.org/ ==
92% Submissive
91% Vanilla
78% Switch
52% Brat
48% Ageplayer
47% Voyeur
46% Dominant
46% Daddy/Mommy
46% Girl/Boy
30% Rope Bunny
25% Masochist
13% Master/Mistress
12% Brat Tamer
8% Primal (Prey)
8% Pet
7% Sadist
7% Rigger
7% Primal (Hunter)
7% Exhibitionist
5% Slave
2% Degradee
2% Owner
2% Non-monogamist
1% Degrader
0% Experimentalist
See my results online at http://bdsmtest.org/result.php?id=1424067
Heh well i'm a lot more submissive than I figured I was.
== Results from http://bdsmtest.org/ ==
92% Submissive
91% Vanilla
78% Switch
52% Brat
48% Ageplayer
47% Voyeur
46% Dominant
46% Daddy/Mommy
46% Girl/Boy
30% Rope Bunny
25% Masochist
13% Master/Mistress
12% Brat Tamer
8% Primal (Prey)
8% Pet
7% Sadist
7% Rigger
7% Primal (Hunter)
7% Exhibitionist
5% Slave
2% Degradee
2% Owner
2% Non-monogamist
1% Degrader
0% Experimentalist
See my results online at http://bdsmtest.org/result.php?id=1424067
Heh well i'm a lot more submissive than I figured I was.
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