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LGBTQIA+ | OT7 | ~First comes love, then comes marriage~

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Monocle

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So the guy I dated briefly a while ago and spent a few days with in Houston readded me on skype. He hasnt said anything since doing that but now I'm really curious why he readded me in the first place. He's the one that broke it off then seemed to not want to be friends so im confused. Guess I need to wait till he messages me back.
Let's not jump to conclusions, but he definitely wants the D.

The great thing about my advice is it's always exactly the same regardless of the situation: Get it, stud!
 
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Someone close to me just told me I shouldn't be so quick to react negatively to people who have the "hate the sin, love the sinner" belief regarding homosexuality. All I said was that it felt condescending and that I didn't like it but was willing to accept it if that's the best I could get. While I agree that I should not judge anyone before I get to know them and fundamentally agree with this philosophy, I would be lying if I didn't feel miserable after hearing them repeatedly defend this sin/sinner belief out of principle.

It's been a long day. Hopefully it's better in the morning. Happy Friday, lettersGAF! I hope you have great weekends ahead of you.
 

Delio

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Let's not jump to conclusions, but he definitely wants the D.

The great thing about my advice is it's always exactly the same regardless of the situation: Get it, stud!

Hahaha I admit I really miss the guy as he was everything I like ( cept for some of his social issues) But I'm not going to get any hopes up. I'm assuming he is just messaging me to find out how I am haha.
 

Kevyt

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The female actor that plays Lexa?? Humanity has been blessed with a precious gift and her name is Alycia Debnam-Carey. Along with returning for season 3 of The 100, she'll be starring in Fear the Walking Dead premiering August 23rd on AMC. TUNE IN. Clexa lives!


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That episode where she is first introduced and revelead to be the commander... I was like woah no way, this is some Shamalayan plot twist!

She's also the reason why I'll be watching the walking dead spinoff.

As an actor she has so much potential.

Hahaha I admit I really miss the guy as he was everything I like ( cept for some of his social issues) But I'm not going to get any hopes up. I'm assuming he is just messaging me to find out how I am haha.

I second monocle, go and get him!

There's a saying in Spanish that goes "where there was fire, there are still ashes." Or something like that, I'm not sure what the exact English phrase equivalent would be.

The idea is that even though you are no longer with someone, you still have feelings for him/her and vice versa.

Best of luck!
 

Kevyt

Member
Not sure if this would count but my friend looks really good in her yoga pants.

I know I'm terrible for thirsting after my friend.
 

Shokifer

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a little NSFW, but
I always feel like my emotions get really dulled after ejaculation. i can't enjoy things like i was able to prior and i almost feel empty inside. It's a pretty good deterrent for bothering at all really.
 

mantidor

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After seroconversion it doesn't show symptoms for a while. How long varies from person to person, but usually a few years afaik. Some people may still have mild symptoms during that "silent" period as the virus is damaging the immune system. No need to freak out if you haven't had sex, but getting tested is always the best thing to do if you suspect you may have been exposed. Not getting tested is the real danger tbh. Some people think ignorance is bliss, but in this case it means the exact opposite.


Oh for sure, I had a test already and I'm planning to do them each six months at least, even if I'm not that sexually active to be honest.

A distant friend actually died and it really makes me angry and sad, he was hospitalized for a pneumonia but things got complicated, no one knew, his family didn't know, he didn't know! it was another friend who found out when he practically interrogated the doctors, but it was too late and since he had no treatment at all he passed away, the disease was too advanced. It's so saddening that it could have been prevented by just doing the damn test, knowing you are positive must suck but at least you have a chance with modern treatments.
 
Did LettersGAF become StraightGAF overnight or something?

Have y'all found Jesus?
Well, I'm Bi so either way it works for me.

a little NSFW, but
I always feel like my emotions get really dulled after ejaculation. i can't enjoy things like i was able to prior and i almost feel empty inside. It's a pretty good deterrent for bothering at all really.
Same thing man
. I've always wondered if it was just me. I find that even when I like someone very much, after I've ejaculated, I feel much less strongly about them. Sometimes I wonder if I'm just horny or if it's something else.
 

Shokifer

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Same thing man
. I've always wondered if it was just me. I find that even when I like someone very much, after I've ejaculated, I feel much less strongly about them. Sometimes I wonder if I'm just horny or if it's something else.

Kind of makes me realise I'm just a machine and all my feelings are ultimately fragile and irrelevant.

(Everyone: "Oh not this shit again")
 

Razmos

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Or you are just really horny and that's swaying your opinion towards the other person.

I've talked to guys on Grindr who I thought were the hottest, nicest guys ever who I'd really want to meet... while I was horny, then I'd jack off to the pics they send, go "what the fuck am I doing?" and cancel the meet up.
 

Shokifer

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Or you are just really horny and that's swaying your opinion towards the other person.

I've talked to guys on Grindr who I thought were the hottest, nicest guys ever who I'd really want to meet... while I was horny, then I'd jack off to the pics they send, go "what the fuck am I doing?" and cancel the meet up.

Gah, my spoiler tags are ruined.

It'd be one thing if all i felt was a lack of attraction. Hell that'd actually make me more productive
 

VegiHam

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Sup gang. Just sorta broke up with a guy I was kinda seeing cus I wasn't really feeling it. But I now regret it, cus I never meet guys who like me and I figure I've blown my only chance. Urgh.
 

Vorg

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Oh for sure, I had a test already and I'm planning to do them each six months at least, even if I'm not that sexually active to be honest.

A distant friend actually died and it really makes me angry and sad, he was hospitalized for a pneumonia but things got complicated, no one knew, his family didn't know, he didn't know! it was another friend who found out when he practically interrogated the doctors, but it was too late and since he had no treatment at all he passed away, the disease was too advanced. It's so saddening that it could have been prevented by just doing the damn test, knowing you are positive must suck but at least you have a chance with modern treatments.

It's not "at least you have a chance" with modern treatments. With modern ART medication people can have completely normal lives as long as they take a few pills a day (like 2 or 3). These meds can still have side effects, but serious side-effects are rare. They lower the viral load to an undetectable level, allowing the body to rebuild its defenses. I think years of stigma and watching popular media in the 80's and 90's made people unaware of how advanced treatment has become. Some people will watch Philadelphia today and still think that's what happens when you get hiv.

Sorry about your friend :(
 

VegiHam

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Sort of broke up? Kinda seeing?

Long distance, we'd hang out when I was in town. He was really in to me, wanted to be boyfriends, I was being hesitant to really commit. Today I was in town again and we agreed to just quit bothering cus it wasn't going anywhere.
 

Monocle

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Someone close to me just told me I shouldn't be so quick to react negatively to people who have the "hate the sin, love the sinner" belief regarding homosexuality. All I said was that it felt condescending and that I didn't like it but was willing to accept it if that's the best I could get. While I agree that I should not judge anyone before I get to know them and fundamentally agree with this philosophy, I would be lying if I didn't feel miserable after hearing them repeatedly defend this sin/sinner belief out of principle.

It's been a long day. Hopefully it's better in the morning. Happy Friday, lettersGAF! I hope you have great weekends ahead of you.
That sort of thing makes me boil. Anyone who's morally confused enough to say they hate a fundamental part of me but also love who I am earns a spot on my shitlist. Their broken, unexamined reasoning is none of my business, and I truly can't be bothered to explain for the thousandth time why attractions aren't a choice or a lifestyle.

Hahaha I admit I really miss the guy as he was everything I like ( cept for some of his social issues) But I'm not going to get any hopes up. I'm assuming he is just messaging me to find out how I am haha.
Lol, maybe. But you never know!

when you realise what you've done after you finish

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How I watch all of my porn.
 

Shokifer

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That sort of thing makes me boil. Anyone who's morally confused enough to say they hate who I am but also love who am I earns a spot on my shitlist. Their broken, unexamined reasoning is none of my business, and I truly can't be bothered.

The fact we allow "moderate" beliefs like this to fester is the reason we're still in the shitter in so many ways.
 

Monocle

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The fact we allow "moderate" beliefs like this to fester is the reason were still in the shitter in so many ways.
Honestly, it's such a sore point for me that I don't really trust myself not to explode at anyone who expresses those views to me in person, if I try to challenge that nonsense rather than walk away.
 

Monocle

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on the subject of the cast of Hannibal, not that anyone but me was, did you all know that actual goddess Gillian Anderson is only 46? your girl crush faves honestly could never

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okay, okay, I'm done, back to your regularly scheduled dosages of beefcake my bbs
Right up there with Lucy Lawless in the tower of preternaturally youthful goddesses.
 

Shokifer

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Honestly, it's such a sore point for me that I don't really trust myself not to explode at anyone who expresses those views to me in person, if I try to challenge that nonsense rather than walk away.

These days I treat people with such contempt that I consider it par for the course.
 
Long distance, we'd hang out when I was in town. He was really in to me, wanted to be boyfriends, I was being hesitant to really commit. Today I was in town again and we agreed to just quit bothering cus it wasn't going anywhere.

Probably for the best. Find someone more available!
 

VegiHam

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Probably for the best. Find someone more available!

No but Goat you don't understand! Nobody else will like me everyone thinks I'm ugly I'm going to die alone and be eaten by cats!

...I don't actually think so, but I'm getting that regret that comes from making a choice and going from many options to none.
 
No but Goat you don't understand! Nobody else will like me everyone thinks I'm ugly I'm going to die alone and be eaten by cats!

...I don't actually think so, but I'm getting that regret that comes from making a choice and going from many options to none.

Better no guy than the wrong guy. Use that extra cash and time to go have fun. Being single isnt a burden unless you want it to be!
 

VegiHam

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Better no guy than the wrong guy. Use that extra cash and time to go have fun. Being single isnt a burden unless you want it to be!

Entirely true! Right now I'm eating chocolate and playing Animal Crossing but I'll totally go do something worthwhile tomorrow.
 

garyBig

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u no ugly Vegi, u many options!

and never settle for the unsatisfactory. not worth it unless you're feeling really desperate. good choice, move on!
 

VegiHam

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u no ugly Vegi, u many options!

and never settle for the unsatisfactory. not worth it unless you're feeling really desperate. good choice, move on!

Well I mean I've really just been killing time waiting for you Gary, Hobo prophecy and all.

Yeah well I figured it's not really fair on him either right? Why both of us be, not unhappy but unenthusiastic; when we can look for more?
 

Kevyt

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My girl crush is fellow The 100 alum
and never should have died
, Dichen Lachman.

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I was sad when she died too!

The fact that Lexa was her second just made her an even more interesting character. I wish the producers wouldn't have killed her.

We need like a 100 OT, especially when season 3 comes closer to release date.
 
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