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[Leona Lewis]

I can't wrap my head around spending more than $5 for a single pair of trunks.

Maybe it's because I'm such a manlet, but the best things I've ever felt on my junk are Dimore 5-pack boxer briefs in large.

Perhaps I'm missing out

 

[Escape Goat]

The secret is, he has no abs, that's just his chest and torso hair shaved that way to look like abs.

fake it til you make it.

 

[Kevyt]

ive only crushed on two guys, don't think either one is strictly hetero even though its just my gaydar telling me. i don't really have feelings towards people i know are straight

Spoiler

doesn't mean i don't think about fucking them though

Is it the brothers you told us whose booty you thirst about?

 

[Elitist1945]

ive only crushed on two guys, don't think either one is strictly hetero even though its just my gaydar telling me. i don't really have feelings towards people i know are straight

Spoiler

doesn't mean i don't think about fucking them though

My problem is even though I know someone is straight, I'll develop massive feelings for them even though I don't want to and it sucks lol.

 

[Astral Dog]

Ah high school crushes, i remember giving him chocolates in class , it was as akward as it sounds! He was really handsome and a very nice guy i even got a bit jealous once, of his girlfriend when i found they were dating.

Elementary school crush was a cutie with a very cheerful smile and i got to be his best friend when he was new!


But yeah, not really worth it to like a normal person

 

[Dead Prince]

I can't wrap my head around spending more than $5 for a single pair of trunks.

Maybe it's because I'm such a manlet, but the best things I've ever felt on my junk are Dimore 5-pack boxer briefs in large.

Perhaps I'm missing out

Are you a happy boy

 

[Pamplemousse]

My problem is even though I know someone is straight, I'll develop massive feelings for them even though I don't want to and it sucks lol.

This is why I can't befriend straight guys. Ever. I always develop feelings for them. Well, unless they're hideous.

 

[Dead Prince]

This is why I can't befriend straight guys. Ever. I always develop feelings for them. Well, unless they're hideous.

Lol stop bb

 

[daripad]

Now that the subject has been brought up, why do some guys not like flowers? I think they're a cute gift when you fancy someone and you're dating but you're not officially a couple. What do you think?

 

[Kevyt]

Ah high school crushes, i remember giving him chocolates in class , it was as akward as it sounds! He was really handsome and a very nice guy i even got a bit jealous once, of his girlfriend when i found they were dating.

Elementary school crush was a cutie with a very cheerful smile and i got to be his best friend when he was new!

But yeah, not really worth it to like a normal person

Story time!

How did you give him the chocolates and what was his reaction?

This is why I can't befriend straight guys. Ever. I always develop feelings for them. Well, unless they're hideous.

Same.

 

[unity of the void]

I think the young ones will stop having straight crushes after they have a "real" connection with another gay person. There is a big distinction in the quality of the feelings and once you "feel" it you won't mistake it for anything else.

 

[Deleted member 465307]

I think the young ones will stop having straight crushes after they have a "real" connection with another gay person. There is a big distinction in the quality of the feelings and once you "feel" it you won't mistake it for anything else.

Huh. Reflecting on my own experiences, I think you might be right about this. Or at least, the problem of crushing on straight guys has steadily gotten smaller and smaller since coming out and meeting more gay guys.

 

[Dany]

Bby and I today. Amazing day

 

[Elitist1945]

I think the young ones will stop having straight crushes after they have a "real" connection with another gay person. There is a big distinction in the quality of the feelings and once you "feel" it you won't mistake it for anything else.

Makes sense to me. I await this day.

 

[Kevyt]

I think the young ones will stop having straight crushes after they have a "real" connection with another gay person. There is a big distinction in the quality of the feelings and once you "feel" it you won't mistake it for anything else.

Not at all.

you can have deep meaningful connections with straight guys even after the same has happened with other gay/bi/pan non straight guys.

That is especially true if most of your friends are straight.

 

[Dead Prince]

Now that the subject has been brought up, why do some guys not like flowers? I think they're a cute gift when you fancy someone and you're dating but you're not officially a couple. What do you think?

For me in general I dislike getting things from others but prefer giving.

 

[Blood Diamonds]

Bby and I today. Amazing day

cuties good to hear you had a fun day!

 

[Veeboy]

Now that the subject has been brought up, why do some guys not like flowers? I think they're a cute gift when you fancy someone and you're dating but you're not officially a couple. What do you think?

I mean, it depends on the guy. Some guys don't like it because flowers are typically a feminine symbol (not a great reason, but its there). Some guys do like flowers.

I don't really like the idea of flowers as gifts (although I do love to take pictures of flowers) since they just sit there until they die. I'm not one for decoration. I prefer chocolate. Its cheaper and I can eat it.

 

[Pamplemousse]

Bby and I today. Amazing day

You guys are a cute couple. ❤️

For me in general I dislike getting things from others but prefer giving.

Even in the bedroom? You don't like GETTING anything?

 

[Grakl]

Flowers are expensive af and useless unless you really need to decorate a place

Giving a nice plant is much smarter

 

[Dead Prince]

You guys are a cute couple. ❤️

Even in the bedroom? You don't like GETTING anything?

I mean material things.

 

[Astral Dog]

Story time!

How did you give him the chocolates and what was his reaction?



Same.

Meh its not really interesting, was a brief thing, we were doing some "give candy,feel good, hug" excercise and i had three bags, as most people gave me their candy (i was newish, only there a few months on that class and shy)
I only thought about giving two at first, but after the girls i got nervous ,ended up giving him the last bag,it was embarrassing as everyone laughed, but was kinda moment of weakness, at least i shocked him.
He was just like "me!?"

 

[Kevyt]

For me in general I dislike getting things from others but prefer giving.

Uh huh...

 

[unity of the void]

Huh. Reflecting on my own experiences, I think you might be right about this. Or at least, the problem of crushing on straight guys has steadily gotten smaller and smaller since coming out and meeting more gay guys.

Yeah, I should have clarified that it was the case with me also. I'm not talking about solely sexual experiences per sé, but the connection that happens when someone else is both physically and mentally attracted to you. It's a different quality than the imaginary feelings that are born out of unrequited straight fantasies. At least I think so!

Not at all.

you can have deep meaningful connections with straight guys even after the same has happened with other gay/bi/pan non straight guys.

That is especially true if most of your friends are straight.

Were those deep connections you have with other gay/bi/pan guys romantically reciprocal? Not just great friends. I feel like that's an important distinction.

 

[Pamplemousse]

I mean material things.

You're so deep, DP.

 

[CornBurrito]

I think the young ones will stop having straight crushes after they have a "real" connection with another gay person. There is a big distinction in the quality of the feelings and once you "feel" it you won't mistake it for anything else.

How are we defining a "crush" here? I define a crush as sexual attraction. You don't stop being sexually attracted to straight men just because you've been with a gay man.

 

[Pamplemousse]

How are we defining a "crush" here? I define a crush as sexual attraction. You don't stop being sexually attracted to straight men just because you've been with a gay man.

I agree.

 

[CornBurrito]

Also Dany has the cutest BF.

Pample and I can make that "had the cutest BF" though.

 

[Veeboy]

How are we defining a "crush" here? I define a crush as sexual attraction. You don't stop being sexually attracted to straight men just because you've been with a gay man.

I would define it as an emotional attraction likely with physical attraction added on. I've been sexually attracted to a ton of dudes who happen to be straight, but I can only say I've crushed on one.

 

[Dead Prince]

You're so deep, DP.

That's what he said

 

[Elitist1945]

How are we defining a "crush" here? I define a crush as sexual attraction. You don't stop being sexually attracted to straight men just because you've been with a gay man.

Yeah this is how I view "crush". I was more talking about getting emotionally attached to somwone.

 

[unity of the void]

How are we defining a "crush" here? I define a crush as sexual attraction. You don't stop being sexually attracted to straight men just because you've been with a gay man.

I wasn't defining it as sexual attraction - wouldn't that just be people you find hot? Crushes are an infatuation - so it's a sexual attraction combined with a mental fixation.

edit: beaten by Veeboy

 

[Pamplemousse]

Also Dany has the cutest BF.

Pample and I can make that "had the cutest BF" though.

Really? I think Dany is the cuter one imo. Also, you're so sweet. 😘

I would define it as an emotional attraction likely with physical attraction added on. I've been sexually attracted to a ton of dudes who happen to be straight, but I can only say I've crushed on one.

I've never been emotionally attracted to anyone. To me a crush is purely a "wanna bone?" situation.

 

[CornBurrito]

Really? I think Dany is the cuter one imo. Also, you're so sweet. 😘

I've never been emotionally attracted to anyone. To me a crush is purely a "wanna bone?" situation.

You never answered me btw. Besides sex stuff (or if sex stuff doesn't work out) would you be interested in hanging out non-sexually in Ohio? Do you like board games at all?

 

[Alrus]

I've never been emotionally attracted to anyone. To me a crush is purely a "wanna bone?" situation.

That's not what a crush is in general tbh.

 

[Deleted member 465307]

How are we defining a "crush" here? I define a crush as sexual attraction. You don't stop being sexually attracted to straight men just because you've been with a gay man.

I agree.

Huh, I'd always thought of it as a mix of emotional and sexual, kind of like the first seeds of a potential relationship. For me personally, if it's purely sexual, I'd use a word like "lusting" or "attracted to." Interesting. Using the word in your sense, I think you're right and that not many would say they stopped crushing on straight men.

EDIT: Interestingly, this how my computer dictionary defines it:

a brief but intense infatuation for someone, especially someone unattainable or inappropriate

where "infatuation" is defined it as

an intense but short-lived passion or admiration for someone or something

With this definition, in particular with the "unattainable or inappropriate" meaning, I'd say straight men are highly eligible for crushing. I still see it as how I defined it above, however, as I think that's how it's used in most of my social circles.

 

[CornBurrito]

Huh, I'd always thought of it as a mix of emotional and sexual, kind of like the first seeds of a potential relationship. For me personally, if it's purely sexual, I'd use a word like "lusting" or "attracted to." Interesting. Using the word in your sense, I think you're right and that not many would say they stopped crushing on straight men.

Idk I could be wrong, but whenever I've talked about having a crush, I meant it in a "wow I'd trade a pinky finger to be able to sleep with this dude for a couple weeks."

 

[Pamplemousse]

You never answered me btw. Besides sex stuff (or if sex stuff doesn't work out) would you be interested in hanging out non-sexually in Ohio? Do you like board games at all?

Umm, we could play vidya games? So I'm too ugly to bone? You can tell me it's ok.

That's not what a crush is in general tbh.

I guess you guys are right. It just makes me sad bc then I've never had a real crush in my whole my life then, only guys I wanted do. :-/

 

[irrefleumas]

I hate to be a pain in the ass, but would you guys mind subbing to my YouTube channel? I'd really appreciate it. It's 'no commentary' videos at the moment while I wait for my mic to be delivered, but I will be doing commentary videos, as well as live streams, etc.

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCe9PBt0La7afzmD4tsj7SJQ

Done

 

[unity of the void]

Found this:

crush
informal
a brief but intense infatuation for someone, especially someone unattainable or inappropriate.
"she did have a crush on Dr. Russell"
synonyms: infatuation, obsession, love, passion; informalpuppy love
"a teenage crush"

That's been my understanding of the word anyhow. I'll be the first to admit though I'm not especially current with popular morphology. ^__________^

 

[CornBurrito]

Umm, we could play vidya games? So I'm too ugly to bone? You can tell me it's ok./

No. I'd have stopped talking about boning if I found you not to my liking. Trust me, I'm down for some fun time with you. I'm more worried I wont be to your liking. But that doesn't mean I wouldn't want to hang out even if that ended up being the case.

 

[Veeboy]

I've never been emotionally attracted to anyone. To me a crush is purely a "wanna bone?" situation.

I guess I always view crushes as a more emotional situation and 'wanna bone' situations as just lust. I lust after half the hot guys I see, but crushes tend to be more long lasting and less purely about looks. The only guys I've ever crushed on weren't even all that conventionally attractive if I'm being honest, but I didn't really care about that.

 

[CornBurrito]

Actually I guess with that definition of a crush, I did absolutely crush on a straight guy. That college friend I mentioned. I still 100% believe that if he had been gay, I'd be a married man. I really think I loved him.

 

[Pamplemousse]

No. I'd have stopped talking about boning if I found you not to my liking. Trust me, I'm down for some fun time with you. I'm more worried I wont be to your liking. But that doesn't mean I wouldn't want to hang out even if that ended up being the case.

I'm not picky at all, CB. I like anything with a dong who doesn't look deformed or something.

Actually I guess with that definition of a crush, I did absolutely crush on a straight guy. That college friend I mentioned. I still 100% believe that if he had been gay, I'd be a married man. I really think I loved him.

Sad. 😢

 

[Dead Prince]

If sexual isn't that more lusting. Crushing for me is more emotional and tingly feeling.
I had so many girl crushes growing up.

 

[CornBurrito]

I'm not picky at all, CB. I like anything with a dong who doesn't look deformed or something.

I mean my face isn't deformed, but I really am incredibly fuckin thin without clothes on.

 

[Pamplemousse]

If sexual isn't that more lusting. Crushing for me is more emotional and tingly feeling.
I had so many girl crushes growing up.

You're pretty straight, DP. It worries me.

I mean my face isn't deformed, but I really am incredibly fuckin thin without clothes on.

I'm thin too! You saw. We'll be like two skeletons clacking together.

 

[Deleted member 465307]

Thinking about it, I don't think I've ever really lusted/sexually crushed on someone. I mean, I've certainly found people handsome/hot/attractive, but my mind typically goes to, "What if they were into me and took me on a wonderfully romantic date where hours of conversation slipped by as if it were moments and we got along SOOOO well and then we ended up married???" My first thought has never been "let's just have sex."

But I guess that's why my current identification as demisexual might be a good one. Unless this is normal?

I'm not picky at all, CB. I like anything with a dong who doesn't look deformed or something.

Alas, I've been DQed. Oooooooh well.

 

[CornBurrito]

You're pretty straight, DP. It worries me.

I'm thin too! You saw. We'll be like two skeletons clacking together.

No.... thinner.

edit: Btw you implied you weren't up for anal because of some physical condition. That's fine, because I don't care much for it. But are you sure you wouldn't be up for being the top? Cause like, I'd try it if you wanted.

 

[Pamplemousse]

But I guess that's why my current identification as demisexual might be a good one. Unless this is normal?

Alas, I've been DQed. Oooooooh well.

What's demisexual? I tried Googling but would rather hear from you directly. Also, I'm sure that you're attractive. 😊

No.... thinner.

Thinner than I am? Do you think it's a problem yourself? Do you have a medical issue?

EDIT- Yes. (To your edit.) lololol