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That's a perfectly reasonable motivation.Confession:
I recently hooked up with a guy just because he looked like Littlefinger from GoT.
And I...feel good about it. Cut a potential dry-spell off at the pass.
That's a perfectly reasonable motivation.Confession:
I recently hooked up with a guy just because he looked like Littlefinger from GoT.
And I...feel good about it. Cut a potential dry-spell off at the pass.
Tomorrow night! Just a small fake one. Home decorations go up, too - stockings, garland, lights. Nothing major, but it'll still make things a bit more festive.Who put up their Christmas tree?
We did.
I mean, your mileage may vary and all that, but a regular ol' dating site like Okcupid or whatever is going to get you many more dates that are about meeting and getting to know a guy than all the gay hookup apps combined.
To treat gay dating as some impossible and offputting test of endurance is a bit naive when the experiences are based off Grindr interactions.
Who put up their Christmas tree?
We did.
Who among us would pass up that chance tbh? Littlefinger isn't even my type, but you can't deny that charisma. And what a sharp dresser.Confession:
I recently hooked up with a guy just because he looked like Littlefinger from GoT.
And I...feel good about it. Cut a potential dry-spell off at the pass.
Oh Chris, why must you undermine your hunksome charms by cosplaying a dumpy frat boy? Clean yourself up, sir.![]()
DAMN
Anna Faris is so luck
(he could do without the Seahawks jersey tho)
Who put up their Christmas tree?
We did.
Looks like it smoked some pot. 😄That M&M looks suspicious. D:
Welcome to Steam! 😎The steam Exploration Sale is insanely good. Just got 11 games for $43. Thinking back to my console days when I would spend $60 on just a game, and well, not anymore. lol
This man has spoiled me...
Those glasses...
Welcome to Steam! 😎
Though I still like Nintendo but it's not comparable in investment. I bought a couple Wii U games and a few more 3DS games (plus a handful of eShop games for both) but it's not comparable with how much and how long I've played and bought games through Steam. Also, keep in mind that you can trade the trading cards for Steam Wallet credit. I bought a couple games already just with the money I made with trading cards.
Just watched a video explaining his skill tree, he seems OP lolGo with Zero, it's a fun class.
Christmas is one of my favorite holidays as a Jew- it means nothin to me so I always used to work for either time and a half or double time when I was younger, and now that I'm older, it's just the laziest day ever and I don't have to deal with family obligations.
I did so much appreciating back when that was released. Mikkel Jensen, unf. That video is a gift to gay men everywhere.
A pagan one, I'd hope, but Christians do enjoy the sin of cultural appropriation.I'm under the impression that a lot of Christians treat it the same. Maybe 4 of my 20 or so friends over the years actually celebrate it in a religious context.
Name?
Well, the URL says "DJ Egu Gato a.k.a. Evgeny Nesterkov"
Yep. Nice face but I'm really not into everything else he has going on...Wow. Handsome man, awful picture.
Yep. Nice face but I'm really not into everything else he has going on...
Well obviously, yeah. But the muscles aren't for me. Don't mean to rain on you guys' parade though we all have different tastes.Not even the bulge?
Unconsciously, we seek healing of these wounds in our intimate relationships. But that means we're most attracted to people who can wound us in just the way we were wounded in our childhood! Our psyche seeks to recreate the scene of the original crime, and then save us by changing its ending. The child in us believes that if the original perpetrators -- or their current replacements -- finally change their minds, apologize, or make up for that terrible rupture of trust, we can escape from our prison of unworthiness. Our conscious self is drawn to the positive qualities we yearn for, but our unconscious draws us to the qualities which hurt us the most as children.
Attractions of deprivation draw us in like an undertow, and almost always get us hurt. We keep feeling we have to do something to win our partner's love, approval, or care. We spend way too much time worrying about what we've done wrong, or what we can do differently to make things right. These relationships can trigger a sense of need and longing that robs us of our sense of balance. In some essential way, they leave us feeling inadequate.
If they cause so much pain, then why are they so hard to break free from? Because they activate one of the most primordial human emotions: Fear of abandonment. There are other reasons why these relationships keep trapping us, and we'll explore them in future posts. For now, it's worthwhile to note that many attractions of deprivation are what behavioral theorists call "intermittent reward systems." In these systems, you get rewarded only sporadically and you can't control when the reward will come. They are the most compelling system of reinforcement-and the hardest to break free from. Gambling is a perfect example of intermittent reward-and the parallels are obvious!
Treat 'me mean, keep 'em keen.I've been reading about attractions of deprivation lately, now I know why I love jerks so much lol
http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/finding-love/201104/recognizing-your-attractions-deprivation
http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog...tions-inspiration-and-attractions-deprivation
Well obviously, yeah. But the muscles aren't for me. Don't mean to rain on you guys' parade though we all have different tastes.
Treat 'me mean, keep 'em keen.
But what do you do when you really don't want someone around?