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[BlueBadger]

Please visit a psychiatrist if you think there's a need for it. Mental diseases, just like physical ones, can get worse if you don't treat them.


Mine are not all that strong, I probably should be glad about that.
Sorry that you have to endure all that.


Oh, I see that I forgot to name which personality disorder I have. It's called BPD, which is short for Borderline Personality Disorder.

It's okay.. Those aren't super frequent, and I sometimes have ways of dealing with it !

Ohh.. I think I remember reading about that in psychology. I'm sorry to hear that . Is it a severe case?

 

[Kater]

It's okay.. Those aren't super frequent, and I sometimes have ways of dealing with it !

Ohh.. I think I remember reading about that in psychology. I'm sorry to hear that . Is it a severe case?

Glad that you found a way to live with it.

I dunno how severe it really is, and neither does any of my psychiatrists.

You may have already heard about the delusions from which people with BPD suffer. Losing the sight of what is real and what not.
Then there is the problem with balance, like, you can't control yourself and always fall from one extreme to the other.
There is even more to it but I can't really explain it all too well at the moment. I have made a blog entry once that I wrote a few years ago which may give you a little more insight on this disorder from someone who suffers it. I would have to translate it first though since I wrote it in German.

 

[BlueBadger]

Glad that you found a way to live with it.

I dunno how severe it really is, and neither does any of my psychiatrists.

You may have already heard about the delusions from which people with BPD suffer. Losing the sight of what is real and what not.
Then there is the problem with balance, like, you can't control yourself and always fall from one extreme to the other.
There is even more to it but I can't really explain it all too well at the moment. I have made a blog entry once that I wrote a few years ago which may give you a little more insight on this disorder from someone who suffers it. I would have to translate it first though since I wrote it in German.

Thank you Well.. Sometimes I can deal with them! LOL! I find that I'm much better at finding ways to prevent them from happening. But when they happen, I'm screwed X__X!

Everything you just explained is essentially what I know about BPD so far, yes . There are also certain traits of impulsiveness in some cases, right?

 

[Kater]

Thank you Well.. Sometimes I can deal with them! LOL! I find that I'm much better at finding ways to prevent them from happening. But when they happen, I'm screwed X__X!

Everything you just explained is essentially what I know about BPD so far, yes . There are also certain traits of impulsiveness in some cases, right?

Yes! Like, I sometimes stole stuff from stores. I stopped that thankfully years ago. Could have gotten me into terrible trouble... :|

 

[BlueBadger]

Yes! Like, I sometimes stole stuff from stores. I stopped that thankfully years ago. Could have gotten me into terrible trouble... :|

Indeed! I'm so sorry to hear that. I'm glad you've stopped that for a while now

 

[SoraanTribal]

It was one of my favorites too!! I enjoyed it so much when I was playing it. But.. New 3DS.. Money.. Goodbye money ;___;

ALSOOOOOOO PICKING UP MY PREORDER OF LAYTON VS WRIGHT TODAY I'M GOING TO CRY :') :')

ALSOOOOOO PAX THIS WEEKEND. CRYING EVEN HARDER.

Are you looking forward to Xenoblade X for the Wii U? It's probably my most anticipated game right now along with Zelda U.

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Dammit, I need to avoid the comment sections on Youtube. I know that's common knowledge, but sometimes I get curious so I scroll down. Like on that video with the kid coming out to his horrific parents... so many comments make me angry/upset. Need to just avoid comments from now on.

 

[BlueBadger]

Are you looking forward to Xenoblade X for the Wii U? It's probably my most anticipated game right now along with Zelda U.

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Dammit, I need to avoid the comment sections on Youtube. I know that's common knowledge, but sometimes I get curious so I scroll down. Like on that video with the kid coming out to his horrific parents... so many comments make me angry/upset. Need to just avoid comments from now on.

Yessss I'm so excited for both of those Wii U releases!!! <3 <3 <3 I can't wait!!

2015 needs to come right meow :')


Also yes Youtube commenters can be quite cruel. I avoid them now! LOL! Although just the other day one of my singing videos hit 10,000 views.. My first singing video to do that o____o! And the comments are almost all very nice :3

 

[Christopher]

I don't know what possesses people to be so nasty on YouTube...its really something readying those comments

 

[Monocle]

This is an awesome resource, thanks for sharing!

Wow this is an awesome resource.. Thank you so much for sharing this with me :') I really appreciate it!

Happy to help!

Homoeroticism? In my Smash Bros.?

Linked in case people are on blackout from Smash Bros. spoilers.

Nice! But he looks too young. I need a costume like this for Ike and Little Mac, unf.

 

[Kater]

Nice! But he looks too young. I need a costume like this for Ike and Little Mac, unf.

He's 18 though.

 

[Ty4on]

Also yes Youtube commenters can be quite cruel. I avoid them now! LOL! Although just the other day one of my singing videos hit 10,000 views.. My first singing video to do that o____o! And the comments are almost all very nice :3

Videos that are only known to a smaller group of people have much better comments. The more viral the video the worse the comments usually.

There are some genres that for whatever reason lack bad comments, but usually small, engaging fanbases are the best. That way haters don't know about it

 

[terrisus]

He's 18 though.

And all those lolis in all those other games are 5,000 >.>

 

[Kater]

And all those lolis in all those other games are 5,000 >.>

He looks like 18 though, unlike someone like Nowi from FE:A. :/

 

[terrisus]

He looks like 18 though, unlike someone like Nowi from FE:A. :/

But mai waifu... (´&#65381;&#969;&#65381;`)

 

[Kater]

But mai waifu... (´&#65381;&#969;&#65381;`)

Hehehe

Yeah, that's how a discussion about that would go like on the Gaming side.

 

[terrisus]

Hehehe

Yeah, that's how a discussion about that would go like on the Gaming side.

Yeah... >.>
"would" go on the "Gaming side" >.>

 

[CornBurrito]

Man I don't recognize any of you fuckers.

 

[Dany]

Man I don't recognize any of you fuckers.

They change their avatar too frequently

 

[daripad]

Fortunately I don't have any mental ilness but I have a COPD so I'm fucked too. Though it has not been as bad as it was when I was a child, I still have trouble breathing at times.

 

[Kater]

Man I don't recognize any of you fuckers.

I had a Link avatar before. Don't you know me.

Fortunately I don't have any mental ilness but I have a COPD so I'm fucked too. Though it has not been as bad as it was when I was a child, I still have trouble breathing at times.

Fuck, why do you have COPD.

 

[TheAbsolution]

Fortunately I don't have any mental ilness but I have a COPD so I'm fucked too. Though it has not been as bad as it was when I was a child, I still have trouble breathing at times.

Dude, what the hell?
You're way to young to have COPD. Fuck.
Why?

 

[BlueBadger]

Fortunately I don't have any mental ilness but I have a COPD so I'm fucked too. Though it has not been as bad as it was when I was a child, I still have trouble breathing at times.

Oh no That's rough!! How? ;_____;

 

[daripad]

Fuck, why do you have COPD.

Dude, what the hell?
You're way to young to have COPD. Fuck.
Why?

Oh no That's rough!! How? ;_____;

I haven't talked about it? I got it diagnosed as a child (don't know exactly when but I think I was 3, according to my mother). It is Chronic Bronchitis and I my nose gets obstructed by mocus. It used to happen very frequently, I even had to be taken to the hospital many times until I was 12, when it started to be less frequent until I was around 16. It has only happened like twice or once a year in the last few years and it isn't as bad as it used to be, so I guess I have improved my condition. Still I get some periods of light dyspnea once in a blue moon but I don't notice them and some people always ask me why do I breath like that, I think I bother them with the noise ;__;

 

[Kater]

I haven't talked about it? I got it diagnosed as a child (don't know exactly when but I think I was 3, according to my mother). It is Chronic Bronchitis and I my nose gets obstructed by mocus. It used to happen very frequently, I even had to be taken to the hospital many times until I was 12, when it started to be less frequent until I was around 16. It has only happened like twice or once a year in the last few years and it isn't as bad as it used to be, so I guess I have improved my condition. Still I get some periods of light dyspnea once in a blue moon but I don't notice them and some people always ask me why do I breath like that, I think I bother them with the noise ;__;

Fuck. This was one of the many things that killed my sister. Why do you have it?

 

[RatskyWatsky]

I have ocd and anxiety someone hold me

That would't work with asexual people! See, I found someone! I won!

Spoiler

I'm joking obviously

Spoiler

and you too, right? lol

ive been known to turn a few asexuals sexual in my time

SI want some more friends here.

ill be ur friend

 

[daripad]

I don't know, my mother was the one who was there when I got it diagnosed but she is dead. I'll ask my father one of these days but apparently I had recurrent infections when I was a baby.

 

[Kater]

I have ocd and anxiety someone hold me

I'll hold you. *Internet Hug*

I don't know, my mother was the one who was there when I got it diagnosed but she is dead. I'll ask my father one of these days but apparently I had recurrent infections when I was a baby.

Daripad, I know one of your parents is dead.

WTF. I mean, I hope you develop to be a strong personality and beat the odds.

 

[terrisus]

ive been known to turn a few asexuals sexual in my time

Always hated it when people would try to take that approach with me when I was dating.

I would make very clear to them I wasn't going to have sex until I was married, and they would date me anyway, apparently of the thought that they could "get me to change my mind."
Then, after a month or so, and a whole bunch of wasted time and aggravation later, they would realize I was serious and break up with me.

 

[Henchmen21]

I have ocd and anxiety someone hold me

*Hugs*

 

[TheAbsolution]

I have ocd and anxiety someone hold me



ive been known to turn a few asexuals sexual in my time



ill be ur friend

Aww thanks Ratsky. You're awesome.
*hugs*

 

[RatskyWatsky]

I'll hold you. *Internet Hug*

yey

Always hated it when people would try to take that approach with me when I was dating.

I would make very clear to them I wasn't going to have sex until I was married, and they would date me anyway, apparently of the thought that they could "get me to change my mind."
Then, after a month or so, and a whole bunch of wasted time and aggravation later, they would realize I was serious and break up with me.

i guess they didnt try hard enough, eh?

 

[terrisus]

i guess they didnt try hard enough, eh?

(¬&#65380;¬)

 

[Haly]

Someone's forgetting about the A in the thread title~

 

[hidys]

Always hated it when people would try to take that approach with me when I was dating.

I would make very clear to them I wasn't going to have sex until I was married, and they would date me anyway, apparently of the thought that they could "get me to change my mind."
Then, after a month or so, and a whole bunch of wasted time and aggravation later, they would realize I was serious and break up with me.

TBH I've never really tried to pursue a real relationship as things get awkward quickly at least for me.

 

[RatskyWatsky]

Aww thanks Ratsky. You're awesome.
*hugs*

*Hugs*

so many hugs in here my god

TBH I've never really tried to pursue a real relationship as things get awkward quickly at least for me.

do they have dating sites for asexual people?

 

[terrisus]

do they have dating sites for asexual people?

Even if they did, I'm sure it would get its share of people in there "trying to convince people to change their mind."

Just like lesbian chats always have guys in them trying to get the women to "change their mind."

 

[RatskyWatsky]

Even if they did, I'm sure it would get its share of people in there "trying to convince people to change their mind."

Just block those people

Just like lesbian chats always have guys in them trying to get the women to "change their mind."

are you not supposed to do that?

 

[terrisus]

Just block those people

Well, it's not like they always make things clear up front. Sometimes you don't find out until like a month or two later, after you think that you found someone and are dating, when they're constantly badgering you about sex, and then eventually break up with you over it.

are you not supposed to do that?

 

[Henchmen21]

so many hugs in here my god

Mine was an internal hug.....with my penis.

 

[hidys]

do they have dating sites for asexual people?

Yeah they do I'm not really into the idea.

are you not supposed to do that?

It's considered "inappropriate" apparently.

 

[Kater]

Just mailed my my Mum that I'm gay, lol. I'm so drunk.

 

[Delio]

Man I don't recognize any of you fuckers.

I say that every time I come into the thread now

 

[terrisus]

Just mailed my my Mum that I'm gay, lol. I'm so drunk.

Hope she responds well =)

 

[joseranulfo]

Just mailed my my Mum that I'm gay, lol. I'm so drunk.

Well, no matter how she responds now please don't say anything else until you are sober.

This could go from a relationship breaking deal to sharing pointers on how to best suck cock and you don't want either of those things to happen between you and your mother.

 

[hidys]

Just mailed my my Mum that I'm gay, lol. I'm so drunk.

Congratulations.
Hopefully it goes well.

 

[Kater]

Hope she responds well =)

Well, no matter how she responds now please don't say anything else until you are sober.

This could go from a relationship breaking deal to sharing pointers on how to best suck cock and you don't want either of those things to happen between you and your mother.

Congratulations.
Hopefully it goes well.

Thank you

And joseranulfo, it won't go wrong since she is a Conchita Wurst supporter and probably knows that I'm gay since April from my Grandma. (I told my Grandma that when I was drunk in April)

 

[chronos4590]

My sis was trying to call me in the house earlier and i didnt hear so she messaged me telling me " Booty man come forth! " shes a mess as much as me lol. I thought it was funny and random to share lol

Thank you

And joseranulfo, it won't go wrong since she is a Conchita Wurst supporter and probably knows that I'm gay since April from my Grandma. (I told my Grandma that when I was drunk in April)

Nice congrats of course tell us when she responds.

 

[Dead Prince]

Just mailed my my Mum that I'm gay, lol. I'm so drunk.

Mail like email or old time mail? Good luck. She might respond back with a wink

 

[terrisus]

Mail like email or old time mail?

Should've gone with a singing telegram.

 

[RatskyWatsky]

Well, it's not like they always make things clear up front. Sometimes you don't find out until like a month or two later, after you think that you found someone and are dating, when they're constantly badgering you about sex, and then eventually break up with you over it.

well in the end at least youve made a new friend out of it

Mine was an internal hug.....with my penis.

oh

Yeah they do I'm not really into the idea.

how come

btw...question to an asexual:

Spoiler

do you have wet dreams and if so, what are you dreaming about when it happens

It's considered "inappropriate" apparently.

none of the lesbians ive fucked have ever complained *shrug*