Hopefully they do back off and take a look at their crash grabbing situation. I've had Magneto but have been holding off on really leveling him due to the upcoming nerf, I did decide to level post-nerf Spider-Man as I feel a 141 Spidey will be a great replacement for OBW (Who i bet gets some sort of nerf in the future, how I don't know) and a better detractor in PVP. Personally if I see a 141 Spidey in place of an 85 OBW i'll be skipping that match.
neither black widow nor spidey has any effect on me when it comes to skipping... heck I think the only character I actively skip anymore is hood because he is annoying... I might skip lazy daken at max level too though... those 100 in strike damage from each green match becomes painful fast.