I can't help but smile at all the bullshit surrounding this "art or not art" business, or the gaming journalists being dicks, or whether or not DLC is going to resolve this issue.
Really, at the end of the day, Bioware fucked up major. Fuck the story for a minute and consider this: As gamers, how satisfying was the closure to relationships we were lead to believe were important by the end of the game? We built relationships and spent time making decisions over these relationships for 3 Entire Games. Five Fucking Years. It would take a moron to not see the common sense behind the idea that the resolution of these characters and relationships was a fucking joke.
Why did we hate but at the same time enjoy the deaths of Mordin and Thane? Well first, we were shocked and sad (emotions that may seem hyperbolic, but I'm speaking in terms of how much an individual can emote over a videogame) over their deaths. But we were satisfied at how they went out. Their characters got a proper ending, and it was well done, and for that, even though we hated that they were no longer with us, we were satisfied by how it happened. Now, consider everyone else, how did that end? It doesn't matter if they died or not. That's not what it's about. It's about the fact that Bioware did a shit job of giving us any kind of resolution with the shit we care about.
Was anyone happy when they saw their love interest get out of the ship and was ALIVE? No. Fuck no.
Bioware fucked up. I'm over it now.