Already been cutting ties. I immediately collected all the stuff from her I had here. All of that is going out tomorrow. Her plushies I already gave to the kids that live below me. I know that's probably for the best. Still have her as a Facebook friend but only until I know the shit I am sending her arrives. No interest in meeting again.
And yeah this has been my longest relationship ever so far with plans of marriage. So extra sucky. I thought I had a big part of my life figured out and now that's gone. Also just thinking about the prospect of dating again in the future gives me anxiety.
Don't worry about dating, stay single for a while. It can be pretty satisfying.
Aiii gives good advice. Unless you're just dating for random sex, I personally wouldn't be looking at starting up a new relationship any time soon.
You're single...you've been in a relationship for 3.5 years. Being single should feel pretty liberating overall now. Not having all of those ties can be pretty freeing. Go on a trip, visit a friend, watch a movie, see family...lots of things you can do now without needing to "check" with someone else. There are pluses and minuses to all things, and the freedom to do pretty much anything you want when you're single is a HUGE one.
YOU DON'T ANSWER TO NO ONE, MAN. MY GOD, THINK OF THE POSSIBILITIES.