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Moral Question! Would You Ever Have Sex With A Girl Already In A Relationship?

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GDGF

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Mix and match the words to make it less gender specific, if you want.

Just wondering how noble the forum is, on a whole :)

Edit: Let's make it more difficult! What if you knew the significant other?
 
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AlphaSnake

...and that, kids, was the first time I sucked a dick for crack
If I knew him well enough to call him a friend: No.

If I knew *of* him and maybe seen him once or twice: Yes.

If it's obviously a relationship that's going nowhere*: Yes.

*Which is moot because if there's someone willing to cheat and you decline, she'll just find someone else. I'd do it.
 
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Deleted member 1235

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If the guy was a friend no.

otherwise, without a doubt absolutely yes, every single time.
 
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ItalianStallion

Banned
Yes. If she's willing to fuck me, she's obviously not satisfied with how he performs, or she just doesn't like him. When you think about it, relationships can NEVER be too good the second the thought about seriously cheating on someone crosses their mind more than once.

So I would do it, yes. And I'd probably give her the time of her life.
 
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Triumph

Banned
No. I've had it done to me multiple times, and it sucks. Shit, I've even had a chick cheat on me with another chick. That was emasculating as all hell but oddly less objectionable than hooking up with another dude.
 
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OG_Original Gamer

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No. It would be setting myself for drama, that may become fatal. Trust me love can be deadly. Also what goes around comes around, an ex of mine cheated on me. She ended up getting pregnant, lost her job, lost her apartment and now have three children by three different men. Oh, she also wants me back.

The guy was fired for sexual harassment, and now has to deal with my ex's bullshit for the rest of his life.

Isn't life grand.
 
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ItalianStallion

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OG_Original Gamer said:
No. It would be setting myself for drama, that may become fatal. Trust me love can be deadly. Also what goes around comes around, an ex of mine cheated on me. She ended up getting pregnant, lost her job, lost her apartment and now have three children by three different men. Oh, she also wants me back.

The guy was fired for sexual harassment, and now has to deal with my ex's bullshit for the rest of his life.

Isn't life grand.
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Her's sure isn't, but you sound like your doing good.
 
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Semjaza Azazel

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No.

It's not always something as "simple" as he's no good or she doesn't like him. Some people are vindicitive, some people have lapses of judgement, some people just get fucked up. I'm not putting myself into that situation.

There's plenty of girls out there that aren't with anyone. Go after them.
 
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OG_Original Gamer

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ItalianStallion said:
Her's sure isn't, but you sound like your doing good.
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Yeah, I'm as right as rain. People need to think before they act, or you find yourself living for a solution. Respect needs to be given without personal knowledge, friend or not you would do best to not disrespect him as a man.
 
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miyuru

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Do you guys find a girl more attractive if she's with someone?

Anyway, I probably wouldn't unless I totally didn't know the guy. Like totally, one night stand thing.
 
aparisi2274

aparisi2274

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Lost Weekend said:
Mix and match the words to make it less gender specific, if you want.

Just wondering how noble the forum is, on a whole :)

Edit: Let's make it more difficult! What if you knew the significant other?
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If the opportunity presented itself, I'm hittin that shit.
 
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ballhog

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miyuru said:
Do you guys find a girl more attractive if she's with someone?
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No, but most of them are, with someone, that is. Its all in the past now any way, I'm well behaved nowdays.
 
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BuddyC

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Lost Weekend said:
Moral Question! Would You Ever Have Sex With A Girl Already In A Relationship?

Mix and match the words to make it less gender specific, if you want.

Just wondering how noble the forum is, on a whole :)

Edit: Let's make it more difficult! What if you knew the significant other?
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...you mean like, if she was my manager's wife and I was dating someone else? I did once, but I'd like to think I'm a different person now.

Would I do it again? Depending on the circumstances, perhaps. It would require the S.O. to be alright with swinging, and all that jazz. Once I'm in a relationship though, the answer is a definite no.
 
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GDGF

Soothsayer
BuddyChrist83 said:
...you mean like, if she was my manager's wife and I was dating someone else? I did once, but I'd like to think I'm a different person now.

Would I do it again? Depending on the circumstances, perhaps. It would require the S.O. to be alright with swinging, and all that jazz. Once I'm in a relationship though, the answer is a definite no.
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That's pretty hardcore. I'm about the same way myself, principle wise. I wouldn't have sex with a new girl if I myself am in a relationship. I would have sex with a girl if she is in a relationship, though. For some freaking reason, I do find women whom are 'taken' to be all the more attractive. Not saying it's right, but it's me.
 
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BuddyC

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Lost Weekend said:
That's pretty hardcore. I'm about the same way myself, principle wise. I wouldn't have sex with a new girl if I myself am in a relationship. I would have sex with a girl if she is in a relationship, though. For some freaking reason, I do find women whom are 'taken' to be all the more attractive. Not saying it's right, but it's me.
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The story is crazier than you'd imagine. I told it once on old GAF. Maybe I'll tell it again, someday.
 
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Incognito

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I've cheated on five of my past GF's, and I think karma has caught up to me. :( I lost the only girl I've ever truly loved(not because of cheating), and I dunno what to do...

I've dated other girls since, (cheated on one), but none of them hold a candle to the girl I loved. I'd cheat on them in an instance, whereas the thought never reached my mind before.
 
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bjork

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I say no now, but only because I've actually done this in the past. Didn't know about the other guy until we'd already gotten that far, but it didn't make me feel any better about it.
 
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J2 Cool

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If I'm also in a relationship, hell no.

if she's in a relationship with someone I know, hell no

If she's in a relationship and im open, dont know the guy.. not a chance

I just wouldn't cheat period. Especially if I was in a relationship. I'd have no business being in one if my priorities are that weak when tested and I'd know I dont love the girl if I did it. As far as not having any tie but the guy the girl's with, screw that. The guy may be fucked over later by her cheating but it wouldnt be by me. Wouldnt want it to happen to me so
 
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sc0la

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BuddyChrist83 said:
The story is crazier than you'd imagine. I told it once on old GAF. Maybe I'll tell it again, someday.
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It would be just as fantastic the second time around I would imagine :)
 
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aoi tsuki

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If the girl was unhappy, i probably would without hesitation. The real question is, would you become a couple if she left her boyfriend, knowing what she did with you? i'd like to think i wouldn't, although there's no telling what would happen.
 
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JackFrost2012

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bjork said:
I say no now, but only because I've actually done this in the past. Didn't know about the other guy until we'd already gotten that far, but it didn't make me feel any better about it.
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God, women!

"Oh, by the way ... I have a boyfriend!"
"...once again, something which could have been brought to my attention YESTERDAY!!!"
 
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snaildog

Member
No. I only sleep with a girl if I'm in a serious relationship with her, so definitely not if she's in one with someone else.
 
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robertsan21

Member
if i knew the guy well i would not hit it!
if he is a guy i just say hi to when i see him out partying then hey man i would hit it!
 
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robertsan21

Member
snaildog said:
No. I only sleep with a girl if I'm in a serious relationship with her, so definitely not if she's in one with someone else.
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whoo snaildog whas up with that?

your a serious dude, respect this man!

its not alot of good men left like you in this world filled with dirty porn!
 
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Mumbles

Member
Nope. It's exhausting enough having to deal with the woman, why would I want a woman who's attached to another guy. And yes, this applies to single women with children by other guys, too.
 
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lordmrw

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Zilch said:
No, definitely not. I wouldn't want it to happen to me; I wouldn't do it to someone else.
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Thats pretty much exactly how I feel. When my friends say I'm an idiot, I tell them how would you feel if it were you it were happening. They never have an answer.

Now if this were 6 years ago, when I was a horny teenager, then I probably would have said yes.
 
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