oh yeah. not so much a story as I need to just lay it all out and organize my thoughts about what my dad told me today.
so the other day, my grandma called my dad. there has been a standing offer to go live with my dad's brother and his kids in utah. apparently, they also have a job lined up for me that would probably pay much better than anything I'd find here.
at first glance, this seems like a great idea.
- I'd get out of my parents house
- I'd be closer to the rest of my family (we're the only ones that live east of utah + hot cousin)
- I'd be in utah (which while utah in general sucks I love being outside and mountains and shit)
- I have a lot of friends from college in utah
- I could go to some really good colleges for cheap
- I'd be free from certain distractions and thus able to buckle down and get shit done
- Jazz games. finally a pro basketball team.
I just don't see why I shouldn't go, just looking at that list. it would be great for me and everyone involved.
but then you gotta think of the other side, the shitty part about it. this is all assuming I go.
- I'd be leaving behind a great place in Kansas City that I love
- I'm comfortable here, although I do really want to change my life - scenery might need to be the first thing to happen
- I don't want to participate in the religious aspects of living in utah - temple trips, baptisms for the dead, having a calling (which honestly I can just say no to this one), etc. church activities would be fine and maybe even the young single adult dances to pick up some honeys.
- I don't have a car so I'd be kind of screwed, and I don't want to depend on someone else like I do my parents right now.
tbh the biggest thing I'm worried about is the religious aspect. I wouldn't want to go and accept my uncle's offer, only to offend him by disagreeing with his religious views. which I don't really, I believe in God and everything, and really think that the Mormon religion is a good one, but I think that their views on a lot of things are outdated, plus I like to drink and smoke weed.
what do you guys think?