This is such terrible thinking. Nobody says they failed when they didn't end up with their middle school or high school crush. Hinata is a better character than Sakura, even you would have to admit that Sakura is written poorly and is largely thought of to be unlikeable.
The author decided that Naruto had never loved Sakura at all and that it was nothing but a 13-16 year old childish crush. Deal with it.
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is terrible thinking, hence why I used Leviathan's logic against him. Hinata didn't "win" Naruto. He didn't get with Sakura, two years passed, he moved on and he got with Hinata.
Hinata is a worse written character than Sakura. Literally her entire character revolves around Naruto. That is all she is concerned about.
Sakura might have been hung up on Sasuke, but she at least strived to better herself for her own sake, and to be acknowledged by her teammates and others.
The bold is just unfounded.
Yeah, in the context of the manga, they barely interacted. But I think this is a case of quality over quantity. I reminisce over Naruto and Hinata's interactions, and just about all of them are portrayed in a romantic manner. And are positive (or at bare minimum, neutral) encounters on both sides. For Naruto and Sakura, there are lots more interactions, but they are mostly of teammates going on missions and the few romantic implied encounters were mostly negative for at least one of them. Sakura never once made it known that she thought of Naruto in a romantic way. And outside of the Minato/Naruto joke in the war, Naruto hadn't stated his love for Sakura in a long while. I don't think he stopped loving her, I can agree on that. But I also don't think he was going to pursue her after that confession, either. I think after that, he knew it was a fool's errand. If Sakura knew of every bad thing Sasuke had done up till that point, and she still loved him through all of that, how in the hell could Naruto compete with that?!
If you're going to compare quality and quantity, NaruHina loses every time. The author decides where relationships between characters go and what they amount to. Every interaction between them serves as build up, a brick in the road they are heading down.
We saw Naruto and Sakura's relationship grow on both sides for the majority of the manga. Initially she dislikes him, she talks shit about them. Then they're assigned to the same team and we see from Sakura's perspective how her opinion of Naruto changes. Her initially dislike turns into tolerance, then camaraderie and friendship, and from there on out it continues to grow. His attraction to her is known to the both of them, but it's never put out in the open at first beyond him pestering her to dates, they never really talk about it until later in the manga. Their relationship is very similar to that of Jiraiya and Tsunade, their Sannin masters who have known each other for close to fifty years. They were close friends whose relationship could easily become more than that.
Now compare this to Naruto and Hinata. Initially he thinks she's a quiet weirdo, but he's drawn to her courage when she faces Neji and he sees himself in her. He encourages her to fight her hardest, and when she fails, he vows to avenge her. Before his bout with Neji, Naruto confides in Hinata, he shows a side of him he hasn't shown to anyone else, showing that he isn't just all smiles and confidence but that he has his doubts, and she encourages him like he encourages her. At this point it has a great foundation for a relationship, arguably better than the typical hero/heroine relationship Naruto/Sakura have. The problem is that Naruto doesn't begin to see Hinata in a different light from this point onwards. While Sakura was occasionally blushing around him, solicited his opinion on her "womanly looks" and was at the very least hinted at beginning to feel more for him than merely platonic feelings, Naruto never had such development with Hinata. In fact, it appeared as though their relationship regress a bit with Hinata dreaming of him, being by his side, holding his hand, etc.
The difference between NaruHina and NaruSaku is that Sakura came to care for Naruto as a friend first, she came to care about him and support his dreams, and ultimately, if Kishimoto had finished what he started, their relationship would have been established on history that wasn't entirely based on idolisation, admiration and love. Yeah, sure, Naruto and Hinata were friends, but they weren't particularly close, and for the entirety of the manga (save 700), he was never once even hinted at seeing her as more than that.
So while you have significant development on Hinata's side, Naruto never changed beyond seeing as her as a friend and some he liked, whereas with Naruto and Sakura, his crush turned to genuine love, and her initial dislike development in strong feelings that weren't entirely platonic, even if their relationship ultimately amounted to a strong friendship and nothing more.
And the "just business" isn't an excuse; it's an explanation. And it makes total sense. Sasuke never outright said that he hated Sakura and that he wanted her dead. He only hurt her when she was trying to stop him from doing what he wanted. That isn't a good thing, but it doesn't prove that he had no feelings for her. Though he didn't confess this until 698, we now know that Naruto and Team 7 reminded him of family. Meaning he felt they were a family to him. But in order to do the things he thought he should do, he needed to cut those ties. Cause if he didn't, he would never have the strength to follow through with his plans. It was a cold calculation, not done with true malice. He wasn't enjoying trying to kill, like an Orochimaru would've; he did it as an means to his end. If Naruto and Sakura could've been converted to Sasuke's way of thinking and agreed to join him, then Sasuke probably would've been fine with it. But they wouldn't, so he tried to cut ties with them. Again, not a good thing, and I'm not saying that I would have written the story in the exact same way, but this doesn't mean that he didn't care at all. Just that he was making a VERY bad judgment call.
Excuse, explanation - whatever you want to call it, it's silly to think the reason and intent between the horrible shit Sasuke did should change the impact of what he did. It's the same argument Psycho Mantis came up. "He wasn't himself!" - who gives a shit, he was still an asshole.
Sasuke might not have said he hated her nor do I believe he did. Sometimes people do shit for no reason at all, without any ill will. That doesn't make it any less reprehensible though, and it's not like we're talking about isolated incidents where there are mitigating circumstances. We're talking about a relationship between characters where the one consistently treated the other horribly, and no lack of intent or hatred will change that as significantly as you would like to believe.
The parallels between Kishi/his wife and characters in his manga don't mean anything. I hadn't read that before, but that just seems anecdotal more than anything.
The point is that Kishimoto hinted at Naruto and Sakura ending up together as well, hence the notion that an interview in which he hinted at Naruto and Hinata ending up together was definitive sign is dumb.
Now, about Jiraiya and Obito. This seems silly. Comparing Obito to Naruto in any way is foolish. They might have seemed similar, but that was up until Obito "died". Anything after that, and they are absolutely completely different characters; not to be compared in any way for parallel anything.
It's silly to make the very same comparison the manga kept making? lol. No, it isn't. They were both lonely orphans that had feelings for a girl that felt those feelings for their rival. Both failed to win over the girl in the end despite being the obvious better choice. The similarities were there by design, hence grounds for debate.
The man Obito grew up to is of no real relevance to any pairing debates.
Jiraiya, on the other hand, can be compared to Naruto, but not with regards to Tsunade, but to Orochimaru. Jiraiya wanted to save his best friend, but couldn't manage to do it. Naruto wanted the same thing, but managed to do so, finally succeeding where his master didn't. While it would've been cool for Jiraiya to get with Tsunade, she had loved someone else for so long that it didn't happen, much the same like Sakura and Naruto. And much the same, Naruto didn't wait around for Sakura to change her mind. And we all know Jiraiya probably has hundreds of little Jiraiya babies all throughout the ninja lands with how many ladies he was hitting up.
Hey, maybe Naruto and Jiraiya can have romantic parallels after all! They both abandoned their first crush.
It's amusing how you assert Naruto can only be compared to Jiraiya in terms of their respective relationships with Sasuke/Orochimaru, before you then proceed to draw a direct comparison in their relationships with Sakura/Tsunade.
Jiraiya loved Tsunade right up until the moment he died. Not being with her was one of his greatest regrets, which was even more tragic because Tsunade was hinted at perhaps finally returning those feelings.
I had hoped Sakura wouldn't make the same mistake. Of course it didn't turn out to be a mistake since Kishimoto redeemed Sasuke and made him become interested in Sakura and she forgave him completely - all within the span of a single chapter.
I think we need to stop with this idea that Naruto either deserved Sakura (like she is some kind of prize) or that he shouldn't have given up on her (like she was some sort of mission). This isn't Sasuke trying to commit mass murder. You try to stop that, no matter what. This is LOVE. You can't force someone, through sheer willpower and repetitiveness, to fall in love with you. That would be a horrible lesson to try to teach kids. If your crush isn't feeling you, then you let it go and move on. I think Naruto will always love Sakura, to some degree. But that doesn't mean you can't find someone else who you not only fall in love with but is in love with YOU! He isn't "settling" with Hinata. He deserves someone who reciprocates his feelings. In all honesty, he upgraded from being in an unrequited relationship into a healthy one.
Within the context of a story, it's perfectly reasonable and acceptable to want characters that are deserving of love to have their unrequited love reciprocated by the one they love, especially when the one they love has feelings for another that doesn't treat them right.
Like I, and others in this thread that would have preferred NS over NH, have stated already: we are not opposed to NaruHina per se, and I don't want to talk for the others when I get this blunt, but when it comes to the main character that I believe deserves to be happy and other characters that suffer of unrequited love, I want him to have what he wants.
I wanted Naruto to beat Sasuke. I wanted Naruto to become Hokage. I wanted Naruto to have his feelings reciprocated by Sakura. Two out of three ain't bad, but since I believed he loved Sakura more than she loved Sasuke and more than Hinata loved him, I wanted him fulfil all three desires.
In the end though, and this in particular disappoints me about this fandom, the majority of people just don't seem to care how Naruto feels.
Who cares if he loved Sakura? She's a bitch. Hinata is so much better.
^ This seems to be the consensus amongst fans, who then, in the same breath, will praise the shit out of Hinata and claim how she deserved Naruto, or how Sakura deserved to be with Sasuke.
It's the double standards in particular that do my head in.