When you guys/gals are making music---do you start with the beat or drums, or generally start with a melody? Whether it's in your head, or actually recording. I have 0 skills programming drums/making a beat, and it is going to be my first goal in all of this.
I start with a melody. Always. Start with the melody, eventually build a 4-8 bar chord structure that I like, then another, then another, piece them together in a traditional pop song structure (verse - bridge - chorus - verse - bridge - chorus - middle 8 - chorus - etc). Then, once the magic is there for all of the sections and it just sounds right to me, THEN I start on the instrumentation, arrangements, all of the production itself. I just get a sheet of paper, describe to myself how I want the bass to sound, how I want the lead instruments to sound, what kind of percussion beat I want, etc...then I use those scratch notes to re-create what's in my head.
I've never been the type to be able to build a song around a beat. I get too distracted, play around with too many ideas, and by the end of it all, there's nothing but an unstructured mess of sounds. But, not doing that sort of toying around has really stunted my growth as a producer. Sticking to my 'write ideas down, and don't deviate from that' model has made a lot of my music sound the same for years...when I probably should start experimenting a lot more. Gonna start doing that more.