So yeah, that's a little about me. I was hoping for a bit of advice on a few things. Hope you don't mind being bombarded with questions, and apologies if it's a bit rambling...
When using MFP, do people usually eat the calories "earned" through exercise, or stick to their target calories only? Is it ok to eat those calories?
I was also wondering about how many calories I'm eating - I set a goal of 0.8kg lost per week in MFP with activity set at sedentary (desk job), and target weight 100kg (I've not really decided a target weight yet, but I want it to be <100kg) and it has me at 2200 calories a day. This seems like a lot compared to what I've seen others posting in here tho? I also just purchased a Fitbit (which hasn't arrived yet) and had a browse of the app setting up my profile etc, and it's telling me 1900 for the same goal, so I'm a bit confused. I guess I'm losing weight tho, so I'm doing something right.
Is it normal for weight to fluctuate a lot in a short period of time? For example I weighed myself 48 hours apart a few days ago and appeared to lose a kilo in that time which seems a lot. I also seemed to put on a kilo last night from the night before, but I was wondering if that was because I'd drank a lot of water before weighing myself? (I also discovered my clothes weigh 2kg while figuring out these fluctuations as I realised I'd taken one reading unclothed and the next clothed. Won't make that mistake again!)
I'm not really doing anything special in terms of *what* I'm eating, just counting the calories and trying to avoid fast food etc. I see loads of posts about macros etc but that just seem so complicated. Similarly I don't know about this whole keto thing as although I'm not, my wife is vegan and won't allow meat in the house, so I was curious if anyone had any vegetarian/vegan diet tips? I'm free to eat meat outside the house but in terms of home cooking I'm a bit limited. Also bearing in mind I'm diabetic so I think intermittent fasting is out. Oh, and I hate eggs (which seem to be a staple in a lot of diets) and mushrooms (which seem to be the basis of so many vegetarian dishes)!
One other thing - I'm absolutely terrified of loose skin if, no WHEN, I shift this weight. Is it avoidable? Is there anything I can do to prevent it? I need to lose the weight regardless but I've seen some documentaries etc about weight loss that had some pretty scary images. Is the only way to stop that to fill the skin with muscle? I already have plenty of stretch marks so I'm guessing the skin won't just snap back. Maybe I'm getting a bit too far ahead of myself...
My starting # for calorie counting was my Basal Metabolic Rate, which essentially is the calories you would use if you were in a coma. That is a pretty conservative, not going to make you crazy hungry, start if you are a sedentary or just light exercise(walking) type of person. If you exercise a bunch then you need to do more complicated math. I ended up going lower than my BMR and I currently eat between 1300-1500kcal. Im okay with this because one of my knees is an asshole so I really am sedentary except for a few things I do.
Personally the best way to track exercise is with performance metrics that matter like distance, avg heart rate, reps, weight, pace.. I don't log exercise calories. I don't think that they are estimated very accurately so I don't let them affect my eating.
I think in general the only thing with macros is that increasing protein % helps a bit with keeping muscle mass, nearly all calorie deficit diets will induce some muscle mass loss. Moving up in protein helps with that. We have a vegan thread here, should appear in the search results for vegan. The only thing I find IF good for is knocking off water weight. Honestly the day after fasting your hunger signal is trying to get you to make up for it so I have only done it a few times because it burns the willpower meter pretty low. You seem to have the right attitude about this, its about making sustainable changes, not any get rich quick schemes.
I fluctuate several pounds depending on water. Loss is not linear, its more like nothing ... nothing ... nothing ... -6 lbs, then you fluctuate back up 3 pounds, but the amount that previously was my low water amount is now my hi water #. The phenomenon is called whooshing in the fitness community. Scientifically I think the research is flimsy but its fairly common among guys, and girls have extra effect from it due to their cycle. It is more common as you get closer to goal weight.
So as a person with extra skin(I'm currently -160 probably going to go to -200), some of the stretch marks do kind of subside in that they are less noticeable. I am your height, broad framed, started @ 196kg and its still not as bad as you see in some of those documentaries. Not going to sugarcoat it any more than that, I wear compression shirts and undergarments to hold shit together. It fucks with me, and I make enough that I will probably get it fixed out of pocket even if I cant get insurance to throw me a bone. You might be okay because you didn't start at such a high weight. I know you are terrified of it but it is infinitely better than the fat was.