Haha, that's funny. Every time I think about Queens, I want to play GTA IV, but now that you mention it, I do feel like popping GTA IV to see the difference between the real area and GTA IV's version of it. The difference is that the real Central Park is a lot more peaceful, people don't carry newspapers and paper bags, and people walk with dogs.
It's a nice place even though it is pretty tiny. When the toilet is right next to the shower, it's definitely a small apartment. You have Latin Quarters two blocks up, tons of restaurants and bars along the whole Lexington Ave. strip. I walk through there almost every few days so I know the area pretty well. $2,000 is a bit pricey but then again it's the East Side; it's going to be expensive just because of the area alone. And since you have access to most of the major trains, it should be a breeze for you to get to most places.
Unfortunately, I don't live in that area, so I dunno of any specific places such as grocery stores and whatnot. I suppose you could go to Trader Joe's down by Union Square for groceries.
I don't know how the Upstate areas work, but I suppose you could take a train into the city. A couple of Gaffers that live outside the city have done that; they just had to leave their way early so that they could get to the city at a decent time. Tashi01 knows a lot more about that than I do since he's been to GAF meet ups and he lives upstate.
Again, I want to remind everyone that the
NYC GAF May Meet Up thread is up and running. Any discussion and concerns pertaining to the meet up should continue there.