Of course, she always gets upset at me when I buy her expensive things. A girl after my own heart.
Obviously it's a matter of where you want to spend your resources. The strength of going to a strong undergrad is that your barrier of entry going forward is a little easier, and the level of competition in the classroom is really helpful going forward.
Depends on a case-by-case basis. Podunk Montessori school with 20 kids? Yes. Woodward Academy or the Westminster Schools? Nope. It's a huge competitive advantage when you're applying to the elite schools in the top 12-15. You have to realize that a school like Harvard and Stanford is only taking maybe 4-15 kids from any given state, particularly Georgia.Private schools are a gigantic waste of money.
Obviously it's a matter of where you want to spend your resources. The strength of going to a strong undergrad is that your barrier of entry going forward is a little easier, and the level of competition in the classroom is really helpful going forward.