It does hurt, but I think everyone involved in this election needs to step back and start taking a look at things from across the aisle. I bet there were a ton of voters that found Trump disgusting but felt that he was the only person who could actually fix their problems, and that it was just as hurtful to them that they thought liberals were completely ignoring their plight. There's a lot of healing that needs to be done on the rift that was created this election season between urban liberals and poor rural residents. I get the anger at how they voted, I didn't want Trump to win. But I grew up in rural America, and fled it as soon as I was able for the city, culture, and progressive attitudes. I still remember that the people out there were largely good people though, and they voted how they did because they thought it was best for their survival.
I'm just really bothered by how much demonization there was between these two groups this election season. It's depressing.