It's a new day and more paranoia going on I see. I'm going to post this again for anyone worried about their Best Buy pre-orders.
First, do not contact Best Buy unless you're absolutely sure there is something wrong. Calling them and having them muck with your order risks something getting screwed up and you losing your pre-order all together. Just leave it alone at this point.
Second, the status of your order highly depends on several factors which includes is it being shipped, is it being picked up locally, where you live, where the distribution center is, how close or far you are from the distribution center, and the normal procedure of that distribution center. Different distribution centers behave differently. Where you live can greatly affect how quick or soon the status changes so just because someone else has an item shipped but you're stuck in pre-ordered doesn't mean anything.
Third, in store pick up won't change state until much closer to release and your card likely won't be charged until the day before or the day of. So if you don't see any movement for your in store pick up, it is normal at this point.
The following are currently valid possible states:
Items Being Shipped
Shipped
Preparing
Pre-Ordered
In Progress if you used Visa Checkout
Items Being Picked Up
Pre-Ordered
In Progress if you used Visa Checkout
Here's an example of the current state of my orders and you'll see depending on if it's picked up, shipped, and Visa Checkout can change the status compared to other items. Also, yes, I do have two Charging Grips on order and even there you can see how they differ.
Item: Joy-Con Charging Grip
In Store Pickup: No
Visa Checkout: Yes
Card Charged: Yes
Order Status: In Progress
Item Status: Preparing
Bar Status: Preparing
Item: Pro Controller
In Store Pickup: No
Visa Checkout: No
Card Charged: Yes
Order Status: Preparing
Item Status: Preparing
Bar Status: Preparing
Item: Joy-Con Charging Grip
In Store Pickup: No
Visa Checkout: No
Card Charged: Yes
Order Status: Preparing
Item Status: Preparing
Bar Status: Preparing
Item: Joy-Con Blue
In Store Pickup: No
Visa Checkout: No
Card Charged: Yes
Order Status: Preparing
Item Status: Preparing
Bar Status: Preparing
Item: 1 2 Switch
In Store Pickup: Yes
Visa Checkout: Yes
Card Charged: No
Order Status: In Progress
Item Status: Pre-ordered
Bar Status: Processing
Item: Bomberman R
In Store Pickup: Yes
Visa Checkout: Yes
Card Charged: No
Order Status: In Progress
Item Status: Pre-ordered
Bar Status: Processing
Item: Breath of the Wild - Link Amiibo
In Store Pickup: No
Visa Checkout: Yes
Card Charged: Yes
Order Status: In Progress
Item Status: Preparing
Bar Status: Preparing
Item: Legend of Zelda Breath of the Wild Special Edition
In Store Pickup: Yes
Visa Checkout: No
Card Charged: No
Order Status: Pre-ordered
Item Status: Pre-ordered
Bar Status: Processing
Item: Nintendo Switch System - Grey
In Store Pickup: Yes
Visa Checkout: No
Card Charged: No
Order Status: Pre-ordered
Item Status: Pre-ordered
Bar Status: Processing
Relax everyone. Everything is normal right now.