No, your opinion is actually just wrong. North Korea is probably the most oppressive state regime in the world today.
The UN
investigated and gathered evidence from over 320 witnesses, victims and experts and found that the NK regime was responsible for:
and concluded that:
During the investigation:
While another
And another witness testified to:
The investigation
heard testimony of:
We also know that
The head of the investigation, respected Australian former High Court Judge Michael Kirby
said that the actions of North Korea have a "striking resemblance" to those committed by the Nazis.
If you travel to North Korea you are providing a lifeline (by providing hard foreign currency) to a murderous regime that cruelly oppresses its own people.
This has to be repeated a thousand times. People living in the West can't begin to imagine just how ludicrously oppressive North Korea is - unless they happened to have gone to jail at some point, because that's the closest you get. The
entire country is basically a prison. North Koreans, unless they're part of the elite, have no true agency. The state govern their entire lives. Here's just a small excerpt:
North Korea: Through the Looking Glass said:
Senior party officials, city officials, deputy factory managers and similar officials live in number 3 housing: a medium-sized, single-family detached house or older apartment with two rooms and a kitchen. The working intelligentsia with no special skills or rank such as government and party clerks, live in number 2 housing, which is a one- or two-room apartment with kitchen.
At the number 1 level three types of housing exist. Multifamily houses or flats with one or two rooms and a space for cooking for each family are for low-rank officials and ordinary workers. Workers on collective farms get two rooms and a kitchen in multiunit housing; some farmers live in the traditional two- or three-room Korean farmhouses. The housing shortage presents a special problem for newlyweds, who must wait two or three years for their own home, in the meantime living with relatives or even strangers.
Since the 1960s, the dream of the North Korean people - and the promise of the party - has been to "eat rice and meat soup, wear silk clothes and live in a house with a tiled roof". The silk clothes would be the traditional Korean costume (hanbok) worn on festive occasions. In principle, every year two sets of working clothes and street clothes are provided. In actuality, the immediate concern concern of most North Koreans has been how to obtain such basics as shoes and socks. A North Korean pilot who defected to the ROK with his airplane in May 1996 was wearing foot wrappings instead of socks. He said wrappings were standard issue for soldiers, but pilots such as himself received two pairs of wrappings and two pairs of socks every year (he did not explain in the interview why he was not wearing the socks).
Another commonly used example is the government-issued radio that is permanently tuned to the government broadcast and can't be turned off.
It's not about poverty - it's about control. Total control. The government decides where you live. It decides what you listen to and when.
It decides what clothes you wear. And despite this complete, total control the OP can't believe that every part of his tour - which had him engaging with conspicuously upbeat and smiling people at any given time - could possibly have been orchestrated? Really? North Korea is perfectly fine with showing you
some poverty because that leads to empathy. But they don't show you anything like the true horror. It's the Disney version: "Oh yes, we're poor, very poor, but we endure it all with a smile on our face because we are a brave people who work towards a bright future!" You don't get to see the forced laborers or the starving orphans. Just actors, or people who have been told to clean up and put on a brave face for the duration of your short visit. It's theater, nothing more than a refined version of a Potemkin village.
People like to make the ignorant claim that because of the NSA, the US is basically
1984 and I assume that's because they haven't actually read the book. North Korea is the true Orwellian nightmare come true: a gigantic mind control experiment where the government has such complete control that dissent is basically impossible and only a select few can even manage to escape. Thankfully, this control has begun to break up. More and more outside information finds its way into North Korea and the government's previously total control of knowledge about both the country itself and the outside world is cracking.
But if you decide to go there as a tourist, be aware that you are in fact supporting the regime to a much further extent than you believe. Why do you think North Korea arranges tours in the first place? Because it's one of very few ways they can get their hands on legitimate foreign currency. The OP seemed to think that the money he spent would somehow end up in the pockets of the people he payed, but that's just ludicrously naive. All of it goes to fund whatever the regime leadership wants to spend it on. Not one cent actually goes to the poor common people.