Lulubop said:
I used to hang out at Fat Cat a bit. Never a big fan. The ambiance is fucking awful
Oh damn, that's right there. I live on the FDR. Working tomorrow night though.
That's the only reason I don't like it. It's so damn hard to have a conversation there so unless you're there to play, it's not going to be a good time.
QUOTE=Pau;209896149]I never understood the appeal of this. But I find making out in public weird. :/[/QUOTE]
I understand. I feel a bit self-conscious about making out in public as well from time to time since some people cringe at PDA.
I like movie date because it takes no effort and is still a fun time even if you don't like each other.
It requires no effort because your eyes are glued to a screen for 2 hours which to me strikes me as being boring hence why I would take a bar or walking through a park any day over it. It's the same reason why Barcade and museums have never worked well for me as a first/second date idea. Maybe it's a South Carolina thing.
JadedWriter said:
I'm not one of those first date kissing people, I'm a bit shy. We're most likely grabbing coffee afterwards
That's good to hear at the very least! I was afraid it would be a point A to point B thing and that's it. Make sure you show you her you mad photography skillz with your phone and get your inner tourist on!
I'm going to go see that new
Ghostbusters movie tomorrow funny enough. One of my good friends is going go down to Bryant Park to play
Pokemon Go to try catch some pokeymans and is buying me a ticket to go see it with him since it's his pay day so I can't say no to that. I have 0 expectations going into it. Last movie I saw in theatres was
Triple 9 for free and it was pretty forgettable.
So I am considering moving to New York City next year.
I just have a few questions
- Is the city that expensive to live in? Or does it just depend on where in it you live?
- How's crime in the city? I've heard its much lower than most other cities in the country?
- Where would be the best place to live in for a single twenty-something year old who makes a middle class wage?
- Does the city live up to the hype?
- Is the liberal mayor actually fighting against cost of living expenses or is it just lipservice?
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1. Depends on where you live and how many roommates. You can be playing 800 bucks living with 3 roommates or more.
2. Definitely Queens and Brooklyn and preferably in areas that not gentrifying at a rapid pace e.g. Crown Heights and parts of Bushwick. Use your best judgement. Ideally you want to have 30% your income go to rent.
3. I was born and raised here and have a different experience so the short answer is I don't know. To me, it's home and there's plenty to do. You have to experience it yourself to see if it lives up to your expectations. If you've lived in other major cities, chances are you'll adjust well but some people who move here from other states end up getting burned hard by it.
4. My 2 cents are that he's trying his best because whenever new buildings get developed, he pushes for developers to include affordable housing units for lower income families and the city just extended the rent control freeze for another year. It also comes down to the people who represent one's neighborhood in local/state/national politics to push for the needs of their constituents.
However, there's so much red tape and bureaucracy that gets in the way. Short answer: developers have loads of money and do whatever they want; Long answer: The Mayor/City Council is prepared to do whatever they can to make sure that it's still fair. We don't have a liberal governor to match the liberal mayor at the moment until the next election cycle so they continue to butt heads except when it comes to supporting the presidential candidate that they both worked for.
Speaking of places closing there's a family owned pizzeria on 84th and Lex that's closing down after being there for decades. Forgot the name of it but they might try to move it elsewhere. Also New York Art Central is closing down in September because the owner sold the building and business declined over the years. They've been in business for three generations! I'll definitely be stopping by to take advantage of their liquidation sale because art supplies can be damn expensive!