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[FlyinJ]

FYI- If the person you're messaging pays for the site, they can choose to not be seen if they visit a profile.

If you don't get a response and don't get a visit, chances are they might have visited you but are paying and invisible.

So, if they don't respond to your first message, regardless of whether you saw them visit, they probably aren't interested. Best not to message them again.

 

[Messypandas]

FYI- If the person you're messaging pays for the site, they can choose to not be seen if they visit a profile.

If you don't get a response and don't get a visit, chances are they might have visited you but are paying and invisible.

So, if they don't respond to your first message, regardless of whether you saw them visit, they probably aren't interested. Best not to message them again.

you can invisibly visit peoples profiles without paying on the site

 

[RedAssedApe]

I wept when April O'Neil checked out my profile and didn't message back.

Do you like hockey? Did you include that in your profile?

 

[DrBo42]

What did you tell her?

I think I mentioned her TMNT shirt...and that I have a micropenis which should be a new thing.

Spoiler

At least the first thing

Do you like hockey? Did you include that in your profile?

Nah, not a fan. I think the biggest problem is that I'm rather boyish appearance wise. I don't have that macho look that the ladies dig.

 

[The Anti-Monitor]

I think I mentioned her TMNT shirt...and that I have a micropenis which should be a new thing.

Spoiler

At least the first thing

Should've praised her scene with James Deen in the bathroom. And ask her about which turtle she liked the most.

*sigh* If only she had lived around here.

 

[DrBo42]

Should've praised her scene with James Deen in the bathroom. And ask her about which turtle she liked the most.

*sigh* If only she had lived around here.

Yeah but do you really want to come off as a fan? I doubt she's on there for that.

 

[Perspicacity]

Yeah but do you really want to come off as a fan? I doubt she's on there for that.

Any chance you could discretely share her profile name here? ...I live thousands of miles away I just want to see if we're a match.

 

[140.85]

Nobody's amused by my crazy girl?

 

[Ovid]

Aw, man! This girl I was talking to got rid of her account. We were talking for a couple of weeks and supposed to go out.

Weeks!? Wait, you didn't get her number?

Ask for the digits after three messages.

First message is the opener. Second, is the response, ask for her name. Third, response, ask for her number.

Always works for me. Should work for you too.

 

[The Anti-Monitor]

Yeah but do you really want to come off as a fan? I doubt she's on there for that.

Well you can pretend you don't know her at all but that doesn't seem like it'd work. Better be upfront about it.

Of course being upfront about being a fan of a pornstar and not coming off as creepy and as someone she'd like to meet is hard, but well, you'd be trying to hook up with a pornstar. That's like the hard mode of dating sites.

 

[MetalGuardian]

I've been makin' it rain 5 Star Ratings on you chaps

 

[Loona]

Nobody's amused by my crazy girl?

I wonder if the impression of craziness came from her possibly mistaking you for someone else she might be exchanging messages with at the same time - still, pretty odd.

 

[purg3]

Do you like hockey? Did you include that in your profile?

She likes hockey? The fuck is her user name, people?

 

[DrBo42]

Well you can pretend you don't know her at all but that doesn't seem like it'd work. Better be upfront about it.

Of course being upfront about being a fan of a pornstar and not coming off as creepy and as someone she'd like to meet is hard, but well, you'd be trying to hook up with a pornstar. That's like the hard mode of dating sites.

I'm going to wait a bit and try again. I gotta believe in myself. Or get swole.

 

[Jim E. Rossler]

you can invisibly visit peoples profiles without paying on the site

Just create an alt account and log in to your browser of choice with your primary and the browser you dont use often with your alt.
Then ctrl+C the account and view it with your alt account in the browser you dont use often

5 Star my account and I'll 5 star you back TWICE, with my main and an alt (send me a pm with your account) I'm also 5 starring everyone on this page
Quote for profile:

 

[Puddles]

Here's my work in progress profile. I'm going to get more photos up at some point.

http://www.okcupid.com/profile/GauchoGuyJ

I'd love some ratings to help me get started. I'll be happy to provide a reciprocal rating for anyone who helps me out with this.

I'd also like any critiques you might have.

 

[starchild excalibur]

Here's my work in progress profile. I'm going to get more photos up at some point.

http://www.okcupid.com/profile/GauchoGuyJ

I'd love some ratings to help me get started. I'll be happy to provide a reciprocal rating for anyone who helps me out with this.

I'd also like any critiques you might have.

Main critique is that it's just pretty scant. Beyond your interests I don't get a sense of your personality or quirks, really.

 

[CountAntonius]

Here's my work in progress profile. I'm going to get more photos up at some point.

http://www.okcupid.com/profile/GauchoGuyJ

I'd love some ratings to help me get started. I'll be happy to provide a reciprocal rating for anyone who helps me out with this.

I'd also like any critiques you might have.

I just looked at you...

 

[Old Lace]

Weeks!? Wait, you didn't get her number?

Ask for the digits after three messages.

First message is the opener. Second, is the response, ask for her name. Third, response, ask for her number.

Always works for me. Should work for you too.

Thanks, I'll try it next time.

 

[Shabadoo69]

So I finally met someone. It was on POF not OKC. We have kind of been "small D Dating" (casual dating) for 2 months now. We're actually "Big D Dating" (more serious dating) but without any titles. We have both deleted our accounts and have no desire to meet anyone else. We've talked about our relationship and want to take it really slow especially because she has 2 kids and she has been through a lot of shit this last year so I don't want her to feel pressure. We already have plans for Black Friday shopping, Christmas, New Years, work Christmas parties and concerts and other fun things going on this month. I never thought I would be 30 and be this excited to talk to or hang out with someone again. It's kinda crazy.

 

[Puddles]

I just looked at you...

Give me that rating too, dude!

 

[CountAntonius]

Give me that rating too, dude!

One star...

Jk.

 

[DrBo42]

So I finally met someone. It was on POF not OKC. We have kind of been "small D Dating" (casual dating) for 2 months now. We're actually "Big D Dating" (more serious dating) but without any titles. We have both deleted our accounts and have no desire to meet anyone else. We've talked about our relationship and want to take it really slow especially because she has 2 kids and she has been through a lot of shit this last year so I don't want her to feel pressure. We already have plans for Black Friday shopping, Christmas, New Years, work Christmas parties and concerts and other fun things going on this month. I never thought I would be 30 and be this excited to talk to or hang out with someone again. It's kinda crazy.

Good for you, man. Always nice to hear success.

 

[Mars]

If anyone could 5-star me too, that would be awesome. Think I got lower ratings at first because I had some shitty photos when I started out. I'll rate everyone back. Quote me for the URL.

 

[Puddles]

If anyone could 5-star me too, that would be awesome. Think I got lower ratings at first because I had some shitty photos when I started out. I'll rate everyone back. Quote me for the URL.

Rated! I also rated everyone else who put their profile on this page.

 

[MetalGuardian]

Yeah, as previously mentioned I've been 5 Starin' you fools (I'm pretty sure I've gotten to everyone who has posted in the past few days) but barely any GAFfers have been visiting my profile. Probably because I haven't linked to it in a few pages



Quote to see, etc. etc., thanks for falsely inflating my e-go

 

[Perspicacity]

Yeah, as previously mentioned I've been 5 Starin' you fools (I'm pretty sure I've gotten to everyone who has posted in the past few days) but barely any GAFfers have been visiting my profile. Probably because I haven't linked to it in a few pages



Quote to see, etc. etc., thanks for falsely inflating my e-go

I clicked it but I had already rated you. So sorry.

 

[Messypandas]

Wait April O'Neil is legit on here?

Can someone hook a brotha up with her url

 

[MetalGuardian]

I clicked it but I had already rated you. So sorry.

Haha, same thing happened here

OH COOL A NEW GAFFER VISITED ME, GOTTA GO FAST AND PUMP HIM UP. OH WAIT

Props though for being kind enough to go through such effort TWICE for little old me

 

[Mecha_Infantry]

I clicked it but I had already rated you. So sorry.

Same here

 

[RedAssedApe]

She likes hockey? The fuck is her user name, people?

LOL no idea...it was a lame attempt at a joke. Wasn't her love interest in TMNT Casey Jones the vigilante guy who ran around with a hockey mask and stick?

 

[Mars]

Haha, same thing happened here

OH COOL A NEW GAFFER VISITED ME, GOTTA GO FAST AND PUMP HIM UP. OH WAIT

Props though for being kind enough to go through such effort TWICE for little old me

Well, I just rated you!

 

[Tess3ract]

I've had like 30 visitors and only 10 ratings. Come on guys

 

[WascallyWabbit]

I've had like 30 visitors and only 10 ratings. Come on guys

Not sure if I rated you, post your profile link again

 

[electricshake]

Yeah, as previously mentioned I've been 5 Starin' you fools (I'm pretty sure I've gotten to everyone who has posted in the past few days) but barely any GAFfers have been visiting my profile. Probably because I haven't linked to it in a few pages



Quote to see, etc. etc., thanks for falsely inflating my e-go

Done

I've had like 30 visitors and only 10 ratings. Come on guys

I'd 5 star you again if I could!

 

[Tess3ract]

Not sure if I rated you, post your profile link again

http://www.okcupid.com/profile/GreenBuckanneer

 

[The Anti-Monitor]

Wait April O'Neil is legit on here?

Can someone hook a brotha up with her url

Yeah she is, although she doesn't say "Yeah I do porn" on her profile.

 

[purg3]

LOL no idea...it was a lame attempt at a joke. Wasn't her love interest in TMNT Casey Jones the vigilante guy who ran around with a hockey mask and stick?

I kind of hate you right now.

;p

 

[Puddles]

My matches just got a lot more attractive. Thanks, guys!

 

[Mars]

If anyone could 5-star me too, that would be awesome. Think I got lower ratings at first because I had some shitty photos when I started out. I'll rate everyone back. Quote me for the URL.

Keep'em coming guys, I've rated 6 people back that rated me! I put the URL in this post too, quote me.

 

[Brownmonkey]

So yesterday was my first day of actively sending out messages. I sent a total of 9 messages to 9 different girls, of those 3 of them have visited my profile and of those girls, only one replied back to my message.

This is all kind of exciting for me but man, I can totally see how this could get kind of rough lol. The good news is that thanks to you guys rating me my matches no longer contain girls named "bigmomma86"!!!

 

[Surface of Me]

Wooo, got my first reply in a while and she seems really cool, she appreciated my cynical quip about girls deciding whether or not to reply before they've read the entire message. Also messaged a few other girls, but they weren't online at the time.

As always, I could use some five-star ratings, I'll give out five-stars to whoever visits my profile. Quote to see.

 

[Ovid]

So yesterday was my first day of actively sending out messages. I sent a total of 9 messages to 9 different girls, of those 3 of them have visited my profile and of those girls, only one replied back to my message.

This is all kind of exciting for me but man, I can totally see how this could get kind of rough lol. The good news is that thanks to you guys rating me my matches no longer contain girls named "bigmomma86"!!!

It get kind of annoying but I agree it can be exciting at times. For exsmple, I visited a woman's profile over the weekend and was going to send her a message then backed out. The next day, to my surprise, she messages me. That was totally unexpected. First time that ever happened.

But yeah, I just can't sending out mass messages anymore. I usually go on about 2-3 times a week and send out about at the most 5-10 messages.

 

[RedAssedApe]

Just rated everyone who posted their profile. My sn is actually the same so if you guys can return the favor.

 

[jamesinclair]

So far my 80s strategy has born no fruit.

The fight goes on

---->

 

[electricshake]

Just rated everyone who posted their profile. My sn is actually the same so if you guys can return the favor.

So far my 80s strategy has born no fruit.

The fight goes on

---->

Sorted you both out.

Wooo, got my first reply in a while and she seems really cool, she appreciated my cynical quip about girls deciding whether or not to reply before they've read the entire message. Also messaged a few other girls, but they weren't online at the time.

As always, I could use some five-star ratings, I'll give out five-stars to whoever visits my profile. Quote to see.

Oi you can't visit then not rate me, no fair!

 

[WascallyWabbit]

Oi you can't visit then not rate me, no fair!

That's been happening to me too GAFFERS, or are there no more messages saying you got rated?

Or maybe they're giving me low ratings ;_;

 

[electricshake]

That's been happening to me too GAFFERS, or are there no more messages saying you got rated?

Or maybe they're giving me low ratings ;_;

You get a message (and email) if you mutually rate each other 4 or 5 stars.

 

[RedAssedApe]

All these funny auto "YOU CHOSE EACH OTHER" messages from a bunch of dudes.

 

[Mars]

Definitely seeing some really cute girls now. Reposting my URL for the new page, I'm rating everyone back!

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