WascallyWabbit
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Pizza or sushi?
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Pizza or sushi?
Fiftyeight
Neo Member
Is the charm in it the simplicity of such a question or am I missing something?
Devolution
Member
In a sea of people saying a lot of longwinded stuff or "you're so pretty", a simple "pizza or sushi" got a laugh out of me.
hypostasis
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I just secured my first date from OKC, in this case with a recently divorced 42 year old who's still "got it." Does anyone else have experience "dating" significantly older (15+ years) women?
Fiftyeight
Neo Member
I was curious because for a bit I opened with, "Jacob or Edward?" Definitely helps pin the ones with a sense of humor a lot faster.
A Human Becoming
More than a Member
What? Yes I did. She also got a block that had a really nice saying on it.
Well she did respond to the text I sent. Now we're discussing a TV show she recommended to me (that I actually do like). Despite this I don't feel much better about the direction things are heading. I'm going to keep moving forward but my enthusiasm has dropped, probably to a more realistic level. I have a feeling I've been friendzoned.
I've been on POF website for about a week and yet I'm having a bit more success than last year. I don't know what I've done differently but so far, one has made me her favorite and I've been talking to 3 other girls on there. I just added a body shot as one of my pics with me smiling. I guess that helped lol.
Now if I could just keep the conversation going to keep them interested in me...
Now if I could just keep the conversation going to keep them interested in me...
hypostasis
Banned
Nice! I tend to get very obsessive about things when I become interested in them, and I've gotten very interested in the dynamics of okc chatting and goal maximization (acquiring dates) within that context. Maybe as we progress we can share experiences/strategies here.
Red_taiyaki
Member
Best thing to do is stay in control at all times. WHICH IS FUCKING EASIER SAID THAN DONE. I met a girl I like two nights ago (Wednesday) and although it's easier to control my inner-beta with my new experiences (and Gaf) it's still freaking hard. Overthinking = the enemy.
It's like a RPG, I need to grind more so I can defeat him :X.
NobleGundam
Banned
You had me at "Genie".
Mister Wilhelm
Member
Recently divorced. 42. Advertises "still got it."
She wants hot, dirty young man sex. Outside of that, just wants to have fun. Take her out and do adventurous stuff she can take lots of pictures of to post on facebook that will make her friends and ex jealous. Be sexually spontaneous and dominant.
donkey show
Member
Ass or titties.
WascallyWabbit
Member
ask her a question relevant to her profile/ your common interests
I find that almost every girl ive talked to on here is down for a drink but not coffee. Maybe i'm ugly or something lol. Nah but seriously it kinda irks me because I don't drink at all.
On the mobile app it will only let you report them.
Red_taiyaki
Member
Confidence!
WascallyWabbit
Member
We need to trade places, because all the girls I meet have been down for coffee as opposed to drinks. Except one
jamesinclair
Banned
I always open with
Spit or swallow?
Works every time
Spit or swallow?
Works every time
Ive seen a few older women. Prepare for sex
Cats or giraffes.
I saw someone had in their profile that they wanted to fuck James Deen so I sent her "My dick is bigger than James Deens". She replied with Oh yeah? Well I bet you can't fuck like him. lol.
Wait. Send her donkeys or horses and if she replies back with mules you know you have a winner.
Let's do it!
Bring rubbers.
A Human Becoming
More than a Member
Alright!
Yup yup.
A Human Becoming
More than a Member
Seeing I broke down yesterday after waiting all day for her to text me, do I wait it out today completely or just message her normally? Even though she does respond to my messages quickly, she doesn't seem much interested in me personally.
Maddocks
Member
time to pack it up and go home. No need to force something that is not there.
peteykirch
Member
Well, I got another date tomorrow.
I'll be interested to see where this goes, this is the first time I had a woman actually seek me out, she initiated everything. So unless she's using me for a free meal, things should go well haha.
I'll be interested to see where this goes, this is the first time I had a woman actually seek me out, she initiated everything. So unless she's using me for a free meal, things should go well haha.
A Human Becoming
More than a Member
Ouch. So the former?
Liu Kang Baking A Pie
Member
Don't pay for her.
peteykirch
Member
I don't know, I'll see where it goes tomorrow.
If there is a mutual connection I might pay, but if it's going badly, I'll take care of my half.
I don't feel like digging through pages and I haven't been paying attention. Did you meet her yet?
If your thinking about packing it up why don't you just ask her how she feels about you.
Liu Kang Baking A Pie
Member
Don't pay for her.
WascallyWabbit
Member
This is why I always go for a drink for first meetings, even if you do pay, it's hard to rack up a huge bill
A Human Becoming
More than a Member
We haven't met in person yet. We started talking on the 2nd, moved to Facebook, than texting. We had talked on Skype for 3+ hours Monday. I felt like I was driving the text conversation so I followed advice here to see if she'd text me first yesterday but broke down a little before 10 last night. I don't feel she's interested much in me. She never asks details about me anymore, only diacussing impersonal topics.
Hmm. That's kind of a long time to not have met yet. Do you have plans to meet or have you talked about it? Maybe she doesn't know if its going anywhere because you haven't yet.
A Human Becoming
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She said she wants to wait until she gets her license by the end of this month.
WascallyWabbit
Member
That sounds like a really lame excuse
Devolution
Member
Where do you two live?
Maddocks
Member
perfect excuse. So when the date is going badly, she can just bail instead of getting driven back home.
A Human Becoming
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*shrugs* She said that before we Skype'd FYI
Exactly. I don't take it personal.
She's probably 90 minutes away from I live. I was just in her area yesterday, but I didn't want to undermine her decision.
Devolution
Member
What. If I was just 90 minutes away from TD when we were communicating online I would have taken a train or bus. You were in her area and she still didn't want to meet you? Red flags abound here. I'd end it. You're wasting a lot of time.
A Human Becoming
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Keep in mind in New Hampshire public transportation is awful. I didn't tell her I would be free as it wasn't until late at night and I knew I would not be in any condition to meet up; had an awful meeting to attend that, as I expected, left me pissed.
Devolution
Member
Still I've known LD relationships with farther distances and people met well before you two have. It just strikes me as a red flag that you're so close and the priority to meet keeps getting delayed.
Red_taiyaki
Member
There has to be sometime when you two can meet up....unless what you're really looking for is a semi-long distance pen pal/SKYPE partner which I HIGHLY doubt. I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but remember....you might not be the only guy she's talking to/SKYPing. The sooner you make plans the better it is for the two of you.
Just like this one girl I'm currently seeing (one date), I need to go and ask her out again as we both tentatively agreed to meet each other again. (HOORAY FOR HER NOT BEING AN AXE MURDERER!) I know she's talking/meeting up with other guys, and I'm doing the same thing (with other girls..not GUYS!). She knows it too. First time this has been disclosed this upfront, so we'll see how this goes.
A Human Becoming
More than a Member
*sigh*
peteykirch
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