Well I'm probably gonna meet her again, she was definitely fun, I need to see if she's that "crazy" all the time, or what. There were times where she was very relaxed and we had great conversation and it was awesome. We'll see!
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Well I'm probably gonna meet her again, she was definitely fun, I need to see if she's that "crazy" all the time, or what. There were times where she was very relaxed and we had great conversation and it was awesome. We'll see!
donkey show
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Just got back from a date with someone who is. We talked a fair bit about it actually. xD
WascallyWabbit
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Nice! Always cool to date a girl who's into the same sport as you
So I've updated my profile a bit, threw in some classier pics and I've got to say that it's worked out nicely and made a huge difference.
What are your guys's thought on lengthy profiles descriptions? anything you guys advice to change up?
Gracias :c)
http://www.okcupid.com/profile/Fizzlebees
What are your guys's thought on lengthy profiles descriptions? anything you guys advice to change up?
Gracias :c)
http://www.okcupid.com/profile/Fizzlebees
Iron_Scimitar
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My luck finally changed for the better...
I met an amazing girl (she sent the first message) and we've been dating all last thru April its been awesome. We are the total opposite on a lot of things but we meet in the middle when it comes to shit like 80s cartoons, video games, and traveling.
I've been so happy the past few weeks, its contagious.
I met an amazing girl (she sent the first message) and we've been dating all last thru April its been awesome. We are the total opposite on a lot of things but we meet in the middle when it comes to shit like 80s cartoons, video games, and traveling.
I've been so happy the past few weeks, its contagious.
Iron_Scimitar
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WascallyWabbit
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Ok you seem like a pretty fit guy, yet you have no pics of your entire body and you're listed as "a little extra"
Jzero
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Is it really racist to prefer dating people in your own ethnicity? It's not like i wouldn't date other races/ethnicities, i'm just more attracted to latinas.
These damn OKC Tumblrs are making me self conscious.
Yea it's these racist assholes that make the question seem weird.
These damn OKC Tumblrs are making me self conscious.
Yea it's these racist assholes that make the question seem weird.
Liu Kang Baking A Pie
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It's in the context. You have a preference, but I would recommend answering that question in the way that wouldn't be perceived as potentially racist.
I have like 20 extra pounds of extra fat on me. I look normal and fit to people but I still got mah man boobs and some flab under my ripped core Winter took a toll on me, working on it though! I guess I'm average, lol.
Red_taiyaki
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I've been wondering anyone know the difference between fit and athletic bodies on OKC? I have no idea what to choose haha.
Jzero
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No clue, maybe fit means being cut like s swimmer and athletic means a football player body. Who knows.
Maybe they're both the same.
Here's someone else's answer
Jzero
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How did it go? I found a cute bi chick but i'm not sure if she like the D or the V more
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btw anyone ever get mixed results with match percentage? There's this girl that has a 90% match yet most of her question results suck.
donkey show
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How did it go? I found a cute bi chick but i'm not sure if she like the D or the V more
Went extremely well actually. We had only first contacted each other on Friday and clicked really quick and that continued pretty much all day yesterday. She wants to meet up again, so yeah.
Red_taiyaki said:
Do you feel you look like an athlete? My litmus test for that was having a muscular build versus looking like a normal healthy individual.
TheApatheticOne
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Well, after a long period of throwing messages into an apparent black hole... have a date on Thursday. Pretty nervous, first date since my divorce, been out of the "game" for a long time! Not exactly in showroom shape either.
We just started talking saturday. She's cute, pretty much a female me in terms of music and TV taste. So we'll see.
We just started talking saturday. She's cute, pretty much a female me in terms of music and TV taste. So we'll see.
Cow Mengde
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Don't hold out on us. What did she say? I'm curious myself.
CrudeDiatribe
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donkey show
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Nothing too crazy really. I mentioned my ex was bi (who's now full on lesbian) when we were together and it was no big deal to me. She thought that was pretty cool and started telling me about her experiences during Uni flip flopping between dating girls and guys. xD We also had a decent discussion on gender and whatnot.
johnny_park
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I met up with a girl a couple of day ago. I thought it went horrible but I guess she was in to me because she came over last night we made out. I usually take my time but since she's only here on vacation I thought I'd be more aggressive.
What made it horrible?
Also if a girl (especially from the internet) is willing to come to your place on the first date, that means that she is REALLY comfortable with you. Or maybe she's a freak....or just crazy.
johnny_park
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It was awkward. I couldn't tell if she was into me. I'm a horrible first date because it takes me awhile to warm up to someone.
Sato Koiji
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Cow Mengde
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No, what I meant was their thoughts on dating. I see this girl with a 98% match with me, but I'm unsure about wasting my time since she's bi. I wonder if it's a good idea.
You met her online. Your first time meeting her was at your place. Y'all made out, and probably had some touching and light groping....Ummm... she's probably into you. Did she say she wanted to see u again?
No. It means shes insane!
Sometimes the crazy ones are a lot of fun. Before meeting my current gf, I noticed I advanced things faster with each new girl I met. I guess it was a combination of confidence and knowing the routine. It got to the point where I was getting head on the first fucking date, lol
I don't think I could go for full blown intercourse. I've always stopped myself at that point and made it clear on dates (those who were on the kinkier side) that it wasn't my intent to make them feel like a whore. But if someone comes along one day and wants to, eh....so be it.
johnny_park
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We actually met up for breakfast Sunday morning. She came over last night. We made out. She gave me a bj. She said she wants to come by after I finish work today and stay the night. I know she is just looking for a good time because she goes back home on Thursday.
Jzero
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donkey show
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Ah well, she's on the casual side of things with dating at the moment, but she's not against a relationship if the stars align.
Mind you she's the first bi girl I've gone out with on okc, soooo who knows about the others.
WascallyWabbit
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dude sounds perfect, this is a great chance for you to just relax and just enjoy it
WascallyWabbit
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are you a crazy girl magnet?
yep. meeting crazy girl 1 tonight again lol. why the fuck not, right? Have a Saturday meet up though with a seemingly normal, awesome girl. We're going mothers day flower shopping
Well.. This sucks.. I probably won't date someone so young again. I've been dating a 20 year old form POF for about a month and some time now. She sends me a text one night saying she deleted her account. I planned on doing the same but forgot about it. Skip to last night she ends up breaking up with me claiming I'm cheating on her and talking to other people. I find out it's over my account being still active( her sister has it too). I don't really know what to do, I can't really reason with her right now cause she is acting so hurt and just angry. I would never cheat anyone and just totally forgot about using the site but she won't listen. I've tried calling and explaining to her and all that and she won't hear it. What do I do? Did I just dodge a bullet cause she obviously has some issues, but she was an awesome girl at the same time =/
Shotgun Kiss
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About two weeks ago, due to circumstances I won't go into here, I found myself super depressed in regards to being single. So I took to OKCupid and sent out a ton of messages (I've used it sparingly for years, but barely sent anybody anything, and one single meetup was the most that came from it).
As a result, I'm now currently in back-and-forth messaging with six girls, three of which have given me their number and said they'd be willing to meet up for drinks. I met up with one today, and things went quite well. I texted her afterwards to say I had a good time, and she responded saying she enjoyed it, and that I'm good company.
I feel like there could be something there if I pursue it, but I kind of want to at least meet these other girls. Does that make me an asshole? I would never dream of seeing other girls after committing to somebody, but at what point am I committed to this first girl? I definitely don't want to lead her on. I didn't make any "moves" or anything, but I'm pretty positive she viewed it as an actual date. At one point, when she was telling me something that loosely pertained to her ex-boyfriend, she acknowledged that mentioning him was a faux-pas.
I've never been in a situation even remotely like this before, and I don't want to hurt anybody, but at the same time, I don't want to close any doors I may later regret.
As a result, I'm now currently in back-and-forth messaging with six girls, three of which have given me their number and said they'd be willing to meet up for drinks. I met up with one today, and things went quite well. I texted her afterwards to say I had a good time, and she responded saying she enjoyed it, and that I'm good company.
I feel like there could be something there if I pursue it, but I kind of want to at least meet these other girls. Does that make me an asshole? I would never dream of seeing other girls after committing to somebody, but at what point am I committed to this first girl? I definitely don't want to lead her on. I didn't make any "moves" or anything, but I'm pretty positive she viewed it as an actual date. At one point, when she was telling me something that loosely pertained to her ex-boyfriend, she acknowledged that mentioning him was a faux-pas.
I've never been in a situation even remotely like this before, and I don't want to hurt anybody, but at the same time, I don't want to close any doors I may later regret.
You're more than fine to date other people. Chances are, she is too. Unless you two talk exclusivity , have fun. If anything, seeing those other girls might make you appreciate this one more.
No - you're not "committed" to her just because you went on one date. You can go browse the other choices as much as you wish at this point.
WascallyWabbit
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that moment when you find out your ex is on OKCupid...
...and of course it says "Y'all got issues"
well no shit, Sherlock!
...and of course it says "Y'all got issues"
well no shit, Sherlock!
Shotgun Kiss
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Cool, thanks for the input.
Unrelated; does anybody here use any other dating sites? I looked at a few, and they all seem garbage compared to OKC. They all require you to subscribe just to send/view messages, and the subscription fees are outrageous. OKC is the only site I've found that allows you to use it properly, free of charge (there's an optional paid service that gives you a few perks, which I use, but it's not necessary).
plenty of fish is in a similar vein, just without the questions, basically. Decent enough, though.
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