Guess that first OKC did have a catch, after all. :/ Got a text from him today saying all the typical 'it's not you it's me' stuff--not ready for a relationship, just prefers to be alone, etc. Damn.
Back into the thick of things, I suppose. Although, it'd be cool if these 40 yo+ people would stop messaging me.
Guess that first OKC did have a catch, after all. :/ Got a text from him today saying all the typical 'it's not you it's me' stuff--not ready for a relationship, just prefers to be alone, etc. Damn.
Back into the thick of things, I suppose. Although, it'd be cool if these 40 yo+ people would stop messaging me.
I have mine set from 21-30. It's a little annoying, as the 40yos are the most persistent about sending more messages after being ignored, from my (very limited) experience. One even made a joke about him being too old for me. >.>Guess that first OKC did have a catch, after all. :/ Got a text from him today saying all the typical 'it's not you it's me' stuff--not ready for a relationship, just prefers to be alone, etc. Damn.
Back into the thick of things, I suppose. Although, it'd be cool if these 40 yo+ people would stop messaging me.
Don't be friends, just block her and move in. It's not worth it. You had a few fun dates, got some more experience, just leave it at that and move on. Plenty of fish in the sea even if it doesn't always look like that all the time. Got to look out for yourself and do what you want, you don't owe anyone anything.
It's not a weird situation, you're just continuing to be a pushover. You literally yourself said there's nothing there for you, why have you not moved on? Cut contact and move on.
Honestly I think this is a terrible idea. Until he's willing to to put up personal boundaries it will just be a huge detriment. She will be more than willing to have him buy/pay for stuff and he won't have the self respect to blow her off and instead will try rationalize it by saying he's too nice. It's a toxic "friendship if you can even call it that" and will do nothing to help him talk to women or build his own self worth. This isn't the type of situation you want to be in to better understand and communicate with women.
Yeah, this is code for 'sorry, not interested in dating you'. Don't take it too bad, it happens. And you'll do the same to other people also. I know I have. Not everyone you'll meet will want to date you and you don't want them to say that to your face. Just like 'we should do this sometime again' doesn't really mean you'll get a second date.
I've seen this similar situation too many times. I wouldn't be surprised if they both disappear at one point and just resurface on other dating sites. The girl deleted her profile because she most likely felt insecure since you caught her in a lie. Although, technically OKC can be used for friendship.
Yeah, nobody owes you anything and they don't need to explain themselves.
Tell me you can play either Street Fighter or Mortal Kombat and I'll give you my number, too.I got two numbers, from two different people of course, after I said that I knew how to play Guilty Gear Xrd.
That's... not quite what I was expecting, but okay.
Going out with a girl about 5 years older then me now. It's really not that different I think. Just be the same you always are.
