Nah, fuck that. It's a known fact that girls will ignore up to 70% of the messages she recieves. Your message could very well fall into that percentage. If you keep track of every message you send x the number of replies you get, you're guaranteed to drive yourself insane trying to come up with reasons why she never messaged back. I have the ability to see if my messages have been read on OKC. If they have been read, and she hasn't replied within a day or two, I delete the chat thread and move on. No point in obssessing over it.
I did because I didn't give a fuck. She wasn't as upset about it as you would think.
I don't obsess about it. If there's a pattern of no replies, I change my profile up or I look for advice (like here!).
Doesn't make it any less of an assholish to do. It's things like that that make people not respond to your messages. It's a whole mindset if you think that's how you behave towards people you don't know.
It was one of two times I've ever done since joining OkCupid in 2010. Don't think that is how I typically message women.
I'll message you.
Mind copying me in? Would be interesting to see your approach to women.
You're missing the point. It comes off in the way you carry yourself and word things if you act like that. The number of times doesn't matter. You admitted you had no interest so where do you get off lecturing her? It's just shitty behavior.
I did have interest: I even told her I thought she was cool. I later said I had to get that off my chest first before talking to her about anything else. Lighten up.
I'd like this hear his thoughts first. I'm really putting myself out there so just one critique at a time.
You said in your first post you had no interest in friendship or anything else so you said "fuck it" and just sent it. Why do you have to get putting down her profile off yourself before you can talk to her? It's an assholish thing to do regardless of how much you're unwilling to accept it or try to change what you said in your posts.
I didn't have interest, but I do now because she responded reasonably. I wasn't putting down her WHOLE profile, just one part. Saying something at least clears any potential misunderstanding.
Some people like honesty.
Looking for group marriage? I don't know if I'm into that.
You check the questions? I've honestly never done that.
I understand all that.
Better yet.
Anything over 20 is fair game in my eyes. Don't let age or social conventions determine who you date. If you like her, go for it.
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That's the worst. I hate wasting my time. I usually stop talking early if it's only one-sided.
If you're not interested, don't bother replying at all. Would be much nicer than seeing a response and then going through the whole process of asking questions and just getting back short answers. Only one girl on OKC asked questions back. Promptly got her number, and then after about a week of texting she just stopped replying outright.
